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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I have physical pain and he has gotten someone pregnant, please help??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my childs father for 13yrs on and off,our child is 7yrs old. After having our child I got on the depo provera birth control shot,that has now made me infertile(unable to have anymore children)as well given me ovarian cysts.I hve been going back and forth to the ... (318 words)

His flirting games are getting the best of me! Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5109 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf is trying to make me jealous but i dont know what he gets by doing that. he is a natural flirt and keeps saying that he is faithful but also likes to flirt with other girls and that i shouldn't get mad. he hates jealousy so i must shut up. he keeps saying i should flirt ... (114 words)

I want this to be our flat not his childrens

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i are moving into a one bed flat together soon - our first home together. he has three kids and has a family photo on his wall currently but i want one of me and him in our new flat. i don't get on with his children and want it to be our flat, it's a fresh ... (71 words)

Help..how do get over my insecure feelings about all her guy pals?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help dealing with being so insecure. My girlfriend has a lot of male friends. Were both in highschool so she sees them everyday at school and talks to them ect (we both go to the same school to). When we walk in the halls together guys are alwase saying high to her, or ... (217 words)

Is it illegal for them not to pay me even though I've worked every weekend for the past five weeks?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi agony's :) im looking for abit of help/advice on my job problem. ok so i live in the UK and ive recently acquired a christmas temp job. they needed certain ID from me, i gave them my birth certificat (the small one - the only one i have) and my national insurance number... (232 words)

Heartbroken! How do I get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well guys, the guy I just recently talked about, broke my heart. I found out today that he's getting back with his ex. Is it bad that I cried over it even though we weren't together? He let me fall for him and he told me he liked me but then he gets back with her. Isn't that ... (129 words)

Should I take break from my girlfriend..to date others?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello guys, me and my GF have been going out for 6 months now, and things have been going great. We have had no fights or problems, everythings gone smoothly. We have sex when we can (live with parents)( we both were each others first). This is my first GF and I'm like her 2 ... (194 words)

I caught my housemates bitching about me being gay - I can't forgive them. Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I currently share a house with two girls. We’ve known each other for two years and through out those two years we’ve always been best friends. We’ve been through a lot with each other and I’d like to think we’ve there for one another at different points all equal amounts. So ... (1319 words)

I finally broke down, we broke up and now I want him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi well i had been going out with this guy for about three years only it has always been on and off. We have been through a lot and we have over come many things over the past years. There have been problems with my family because they don't approve of him. I get along gr... (491 words)

Three years since we split, how can I erase the unwanted memories?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex tried to contact me on Facebook. I didn't add her as a friend because every time i hear from her it brings me down for days. This time however i saw that she has a new surname and its really brought back some unwanted memories.My question is more about asking does anyone ... (86 words)

Things were looking up and now she's back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend used to fancy another woman, and she even went to his flat a few times, although he said that nothing happened between them. He told her once that he thought she was " out of his league " and said he wished he was confident enough to talk to her one on one. She had ... (328 words)

Why are guys my age so simple but complex at the same time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i just need some advice or something that will help me understand.I'am 14 but some people mistake me for being 21.Anyways the guys at my school seem so closed minded about the people who they date.All of them have to date the girls that look like snooki or a girl that's ... (233 words)

Girlfriend wants to have sex with her friend just once to see if anything is there?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

24 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I need some advice... My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost 2 years now, late last year she started to hang out with a friend who she used to know, he seemed nice to me, a bit weird but he was okay. Last December she went through a really crazy phase (needless ... (278 words)

I thought we were great together and all of a sudden he's not responding

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I met a guy 2 weeks ago, who I hit it off with really well. We met at a bar near my school and hung out the whole night. He had said he was surprised that I even spoke to him, and that he normally never went up to girls as he found most girls at bars not his type. He ... (351 words)

He kicked me and I'm scared now I have to be in class with him every day

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im 14 and the other day me and my boyfriend (who is also 14) were walkin to school and he was with all his mates and he whistled at my freind and calle her a slag and i said he was a pr*ick and walked off but he grabbed my arm and pushed me over but i fell and the floor my ... (104 words)

I got mixed feelings does he like me or not

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so i have this friend he's mad funny and cute and he just plain awersome . we flirt alot even through he has a girlfriend i don't think they still go out anymore he braely talks about her i mean at all and i think im starting to like him but idk what to do should i tell ... (120 words)

I think b/f is looking for the perfect relationship and its not with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for 18 months and we live 40 miles from each other. We go to each other's places at week-ends and I am getting fed up of the travelling and strain that it puts on us. I think we would get on better if we lived together and I am willing for us to ... (306 words)

The love of my life doesn't feel it anymore??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

24 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well I met a girl about 26 months ago....she is perfect, we are perfect for each other. We had a perfect 9 month relationship, then she had to move away with her family. We have been doing long distance for more than a year...almost two...We were perfectly in love and it w... (287 words)

Should I go to the party and risk upsetting my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - To cut a long story short, my boyfriend cheated on me so we split up and i slept with one of our guy mates. We sorted things out and got back together but promised we wouldnt go to town at night without each other. Its my best friends 21st and i told her me and my bf would go ... (97 words)

Says he loves me, then why is he telling me to ask out his best-friend's sister?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, before I start I have to tell you all that I am bisexual in case you get confused. I used to be in a relationship with this man at my work but we decided just to be friends. After we had agreed to be friends he confessed that he still had feelings for me and later admitted ... (347 words)

Says he wants us just to be friends, for my sake.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. Sorry for this being so long and for it lacking in detail but i'm a little confused about this guy that i really like and need a bit of advice. He asked me out a few months ago but we broke up after two weeks because he felt that we were moving too fast ... (255 words)

Fiance has had 10 plus sex partners but will not have sex with me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

24 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Well, like many others I have been subject to the condition of retrograde jealousy. The background is this: My girlfriend has had more than 10 sexual partners. I did not know this when I agreed that sex would not be part of our relationship. She is catholic and believse ... (296 words)

Do guys enjoy intercourse if a vagina is too wide?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am not sure if I should have intercourse with my boyfriend because I think my vagina is too wide. I had 4 kids, one was a c-section and 3 vaginal. I'm worried that is too wide for him, not sure because we haven't had intercourse yet. Maybe there's a male out there that ... (91 words)

Confused heart

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my husband have been together for 2 and a half years. We have a beautiful 17 month old daughter and i am totally in love with him and find myself loving him more and more everyday. Yes we have been thru alot of typical relationship issues like jealousys, porn, alone ... (573 words)

Should I go through with this pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - About six months ago after quite along time of being single I decided to try internet dating. After about 4 dates I met a guy who lived about an hour away and hit it off immediatley and from then on saw each other every weekend. It was the Summer and I must admit I really fell ... (368 words)

Should I tell him I love him or wait for him to say it first?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so i have been seeing this guy for a few months and i know for me it was love at first sight. i just felt connected to him somehow. anyways we moved in together already and things are great. only thing is that i am having a hard time not telling him that i love him. i want ... (134 words)

When I'm not with him I miss him, but when I am with him, I can't think of what to say!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend and it's being going great, been going out a month now. the trouble is, when im away from him, i miss him, but when i see him, i cant think of a thing to say to him! im worried that he thinks im getting bored of him! what can i do? ... (57 words)

I think my friends with benefits is falling for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i have been having a casual relationship for a while...i was burnt by some boy friends and am just having fun...from the very first we made it clear to each other that we were going to be just sex partners..anyways lately hes been looking at me differently he says he loves ... (136 words)

I don't like my body

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I feel so much hate, it's tedious and has me so unhappy. And it's for something so stupid! I have really small boobs and some cellulite. My ex, who's the only guy I've had sex with, the only one who's seen me naked, commented on both things without being asked! I hate my body... (360 words)

In love with my 5th cousin

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 years old. I'm in love with my 5th cousin and my parents made us break up when we first started dating because they thought it was nasty and horrid to date your cousins. So, I had to break up with him. Later on, we still talked on the phone and we decided that this was ... (247 words)

What is she trying to tell me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm asking this question because I don't know what to do. I broke up with my girlfriend about 2 weeks ago now, and it was horrible, we had argued for like 2 weeks before hand and had been together for just over 4 months, short, I know. However, when we broke up I wa... (1341 words)

Should I end it before I get hurt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im in this long distance realtionship. this is the first time i have tryed this and had lots of thought before. we havnt been together long about 4 or 5 months and everything was goin well unitll the other day when i went out on a night out ever since hes been acting ... (210 words)

Will we ever get this sorted out or is it time to move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with my fiance for five years, when suddenly he decided to end it. He wasn't happy! We lived together. I'm finding it really hard to move on, I can't seem to get him out of my head. We kissed last week, spoke of getting back but of course there was alcohol involved. the ... (132 words)

She told me she likes me but is back with her boyfriend, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i am a 20 year old college student and i like this girl that i have really gotten to know in the past few months, she has a boy friend but she told me that she likes me. she broke up with her boy friend but is now back together with him. i am confused and do not know what to ... (77 words)

Old man perverts and clueless teenage girls...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

24 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I'm a 17 year old boy from Australia and I have a problem. It's pretty strange I guess I see teenage girls walking down the street in mini skirts and their bodies hanging out which is their choice I guess but thats not the problem. I see older men looking and pervin... (200 words)

Is it normal for me to be in such pain after my first time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi well i had sex for the first time today..it didnt hurt but now after im really really sore my legs and everything...is this normal? i know they say it hurts the first time and in the process it didnt not really it was like a bee sting but now im in agony... (53 words)

Am I overreacting to this guy at work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hey guys-just need to know if im being unreasonable here i was very good friends with a guy and have worked with him for over a year but feel hes used me for personal gain. hes got through his work assessments through my help. hes had money from me and 'forgotten' to return i... (203 words)

Did he really set this trap for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Was it wrong of me to read my boyfriend emails. this is what happen my gut told me something was wrong with our 2.5 year relationship. I asked him and he said nothing and I was overreacting. I let it go for 4 days and knowing his passwords (which he gave me)I read an email he ... (166 words)

Can someone help me get rid of this affliction?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay here's the deal. I'm in my teens and I have had homosexual feelings since I was ten. I was not assualted in any way. I have recently been feeling very convicted about my "feelings" and also about watching homosexual or gay pornograhy. I have been praying for deliverance ... (84 words)

Is he flirting or just playing around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - My son goes to school by taxi and has got a very helpful driver. He is chatty but I am not sure whether he generally likes teasing and winding up women or whether he is attracted to me. He has been very nice to have a laugh with when picking up and dropping my son off and I... (347 words)

How can I get past my girlfriend acting really out of character?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (M) age 36-40 - Whilst travelling in Asia, I met and travelled with my now girlfriend for 2 months. Just recently, I have discovered that in between meeting me and hooking up, she had a one night stand with an 18 year old - she is 23. It has been exacerbated by the fact that my gf told me th... (177 words)

Girlfriend doesn't like kissing after oral sex

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello dear readers: ok i have a sex issue, i'm with my gf 1year and 4 months....and every time in bed i want to make some kunilingus and make her happy she doesn't want it she told me that every time i do it well she likes it but then we kiss and it's like she is doing it...and ... (108 words)

Should I tell her I told her so, or just be supportive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my best friend has recently split up from her boyfriend. they started off as close friends then their relationship developed. to start with, i really didnt like him and i told her this. she was fine with it and was pleased that i had told her. i said at the end of the day i ... (251 words)

I caught a shy girl staring at me, but she didn't look away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I was in class, and looked up at my surroundings and i caught this shy girl in class staring at me. When i locked my eyes on her, she did not want to look away, and eventually my back felt funny and i just HAD to look away. Can someone explain why she did this? Also ... (88 words)

Intruding mother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had been dating this guy for around 5 months when he joined the military. And thats when my mother began almost hating him , if i asked to go spend time with him she got snooty and an attitude. She would say things like its okay if you die you have life insurance -very harsh ... (206 words)

How do I give a great blow job?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4794 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys listen up! i wanna know how to give an amazing blow job. i don't know why but i feel like my boyfriend really misses them and i want to give him cause i haven't gone down on him in like 6 months and im afraid i might be a little rusty. so help please? D:... (57 words)

We dated once but now he's awkward around me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so here is the deal, I am 17 and it all started about last march. I went on a trip with a club in my school for a week to another state. A guy in the club and I clicked right away and we hung out the whole trip. when we came home we proceeded to keep hanging out. We almost ... (478 words)

Why is my chemistry teacher avoiding me?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im really confused. i've had a teacher for about a year now, he teaches me chemistry and i really like him! hes so funny, kind and willing to help you to understand even if it means making himself look stupid. i noticed that hes been looking at me alot in lessons and smiling at ... (659 words)

My boyfriend's ex wife is still the center of his and his family's life!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age - My boyfriend's ex-wife is still in the centre of his and his family's life and I dont like it ... When we met he already had a holiday book with her and the children as they were both single and good friends. I was OK about it as I thought friends when kids involved an admi... (300 words)

We substituted lotion for lube during anal sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend wanted to try anal for once and we had no lube and i heard if you didn't use lube you can rip and get infections and just nasty things come from not using lube,but we had none on hand so we used lotion is this harmful? the lotion was non scented if that ... (108 words)

Tips on how to make my GF feel relaxes when she is with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

24 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 year old, my girlfriend is sometimes nervous when we go out. How to make her feel much more relaxed when she's with me, not stressed out all the time. ... (33 words)

I gave him a bad X-mas gift last year and I don't want to do it again can someone please help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey im 14 and my boyfriend is 15 his birthday is 8/20 and we met on 8/23/10 we talked for like 10 minutes then he left then on 8/24/10 my friend hooked us up then 9/24/10 at school he gives me a teddy bear that smelled just like him and all i got him was a ugly watch that i got ... (174 words)

My girlfriend said I'm a 3 or a 4 in bed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been going out with my girlfriend for about year. We get along well, and she's made it clear she wants to get married to me. But, she recently made the comment that I am a "3 or a 4" in bed. The way she said it, it was quite clear to me some of her prior boyfriends were ... (357 words)

How can I stay wet during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i wanna know if there is anything i can do about getting more wet during sex? me and my boyfriend can do it up to 3 times a day and sometimes after that he still might want to go a fourth time. he can get me in the mood but i can never stay wet long enough for us to finish... (105 words)

He told me he doesn't enjoy receiving oral sex from me!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am seeing my current boyfriend for just over 1 year . he has recently told me that he doesn't enjoy receiving oral sex from me as I am not very good at it in fact I am quite bad at it and it doesn't do any thing for him . Now I enjoy oral sex as part of what is what I thought ... (265 words)

How do I tell my parents I'm seeing an older man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - seeing older boyfriend worried how my parents will take it i am 16 and he is 19 almost 20 . i know there is a age gap but i am scared of what my parents will do .. we aren't planning on doing anything .. any way it would be illegal. any ways my question is how can i tell my ... (79 words)

We don't have sex enough

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a serious issue, my fiance only wants to have Sex once every couple weeks and i want it every night or at least ever other day, but i have never had to be the one to come on to a man before because the man always wanted it, i have hinted around and it's almost like he ... (156 words)

What kind of dirty talk do guys like during sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So this is gonna sound kind of dumb, buttt when you're talking dirty during a blow job or sex or whatever, what exactly do guys like to hear?... (28 words)

My Mother in law is making my life miserable!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I dont know English much. I am trying to write my problems. Please anyone tell some suggestions for me. My husband, sister-in-law and my mother-in-law have european nationality and passport. My husband and my sister-in-law have UK PR aswell. From I got married, I am suffering a ... (244 words)

She has a boyfriend and I don't want to come between them...but I love her. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i have a situation, i've had feelings for this girl for 10 years (yea i knw its a lot), (we went to the same school thu :( ) but i haven't told her about my feelings yet, anyways i have been getting close to her lately but she acts to be uninterested. During the time we were ... (258 words)

Dealing with neediness as a male? Any tips...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I always feel a bit weird being a male but being so needy with others. Ive always passed it off as i am a people person and just like to be around others. I always need reassurance from others and hate being on my own. I have had some excellent female companions over the year... (326 words)

I'm only 25 and have never got wet, regardless of how turned on I am! Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 25 years old, and no matter how turned on I am , even when I orgasm I just dont get wet. I have been sexually active and masturbating for years and I dont have any problems getting sexually aroused. I have just never ever got wet. I don't have any hormone imbalances and Im n... (402 words)

I love her but we have very different opinions on important issues!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a girl from a little over a month now. We connected extremely fast at the beginning and things were great for several weeks. As I got to know her, however, I found out things that I'm not sure if I can deal with on a long term basis. She doesn't want kids ... (201 words)

Should I just give up and move on now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - so I called my gf several times and she never answered. So I went to investigate turns out she has been on tiny chat the past 5 hrs with some oher guy. Then she finnaly picked up and I asked her about that, she told me they werent flirting, my ass she just added him to her... (229 words)

I cheated on my first love and I am so scared that I will lose him! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 8 months. from the begginning i really liked him and and we started seeing eachother every weekend. one weekend got really intimate and had sex with him. after a while i saw that he layed back about things and thought we had ... (364 words)

What can I do to cheer up and get some balance in my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Everyone. Lately I am feeling very depressed, normally I am a really happy going person, but 2010 hasnt really been my year... This year Ive lost a good friend and his passing has been hard on me My girlfriend cheated, lied, broke up with me got pregnant got... (183 words)

Is getting out of this relationship the right thing to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a man .. he is married and have one daughter . he tell me that in the first time i met him .. and he found out that he loves me more and more each day ..his a muslim and he allowed to have two wife ..but for me its not fair .. i plan to get out of this relationship ,, is ... (73 words)

How to stop the tension between my teacher and me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) age 30-35 - Okay,so this is a bit weird.Here it goes. I have this teacher,and umm..things are very complicated between him and me. There is just A LOT of tension between us. And I want to stop it. I don't like him.I don't think he likes me either. It's just based on the physical... (250 words)

How do I rectify this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so was plannign on saying this to my guy at the end of the date tonight as we were sitting in the car: "theres something i need to tell you because its been on my mind- last time i think i got a little caught up in the moment with taking my bra and top off (while we were m... (276 words)

Wait to get back together with ex or try a new path?

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24 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi I want to get back with my ex, my ex wants to get back with me after i have made clear changes in my life, she has made effort to try and fix some problems with herself. There are a few things in the way, everyone is telling me she is not good for me after the way sh... (249 words)

I don't think we have much in common!

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i have this feeling i don't have so much in common with my fiancé,presently,i'm seeing a movie one treehill,i asked him to join me,but all he told me is,'you know i don't like movies,it bores me',really don't know wat to do but i love him... (46 words)

I've cheated and totally ashamed of myself, do I tell my partner?

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 8 and half years, for the last two years since my best friend passed away I have been terrible depressed and thinking about life so much. I have lived with my boyfriend for quite a number of years, he is a lovely man, lately i say the last y... (417 words)

I don't want to be jealous of him texting other girls anymore, how do I stop this?

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. He has a very productive life and works around a lot of girls. He was caught at the begining of our relationship texting girls innapropriately, and he continues. All we do is argue, but i don't want too throw this away. What ... (63 words)

What should I do about my wife?

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24 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - my wife demeans me, she is careless, she confronts her mother instead of me, she's always tired and busy when i want her to do something for me and she's boring in bed! she is ready to go if would tell her to, what should i do about her?... (49 words)

How do I approach my mum about going onto birth control?

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i want to ask my mam to go on bithcontrol how can i aproch her ? xx... (17 words)

Should I wait for her to come to me even though she doesn't seem interested, or approach another girl?

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24 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey people ... i was in love with a girl ... it was a love at first sight ... and i was behind her for about 5 years ... she's not even considering but she's a kind of girl who says she doesnt like boys and love ... and im fed up going behind her .... i dont know what to do now ... (93 words)

How do I stop guys trying to get with me? I have told them so many times I want to be single!

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - this may sound weird but how do i get guys to stop trying to get with me? i dress conservative,shy,sweet, and i will tell guys that i dont want a man until i get my own place,the job i actually want and etc,but the guys will keep asking me to be their girlfriend after i ... (204 words)

Can things be mended? Is there still hope?

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24 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi there.. where should i start...ok well i was with my ex-girlfriend for 1 and half years which is quite a long time considering she was my 1st real gf and i was her 1st real bf. everything was great and ran smoothly..the biggest problem in our relationship was that i was of f... (997 words)

Would a man run away from a girl like me?

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. im a girl who doesnt like having boy friends i am to much a free bird i usually have casual sex - no string relationship, and im a member of swingers club.. anyways theres this guy who i met and he is really really sweet i dont usually talk or chat like this with guys..bu... (147 words)

We are trying to patch up our marriage but she is still talking to the man she had an affair with!

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24 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I wrote a few days ago, and I asked about my wife and me. Thanks to everyone for all the advice but I have a continuing concern. My wife and I are trying to patch up our marriage but she continues to talk to the young man she had an affair with and said they are... (130 words)

He said I have a wide vagina and now it is stopping me from enjoying sex!

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - well.. i just met my bf 3 months ago.i became crazy about him.wanted him he has a great mind great body.he's complete for me.lately i had problems with my family and work because of him.everybody thinks he's a bad guy they want me away from him.anyway.i stood up against them ... (169 words)

Why do we have pubic hair?

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why do we have pubic hair under our arm pit and especially around our sex?? does it has any importance??... (20 words)

Why do so many women and men get jealous of another's children?

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering if any of you could tell me that if there is nothing to be jealous of (a man with children) then why do so many women and men get jealous of another's children? I have been wondering about this for a while. My boyfriend is 22 and I am 19 and he has a 3 year ... (235 words)

I'm itching all over after unprotected sex!

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi,i had an unprotected sex,then on next day i got my second period on 21st now my whole body is itching,1st period i got on 6th. Why is this?... (29 words)

He might be moving away so I am trying to distance myself, but he is still calling me baby!

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I've been dating this guy for a few months and we have been spending time together at least once or twice a week. It is hard for both of us since I work 12 hr night shifts and he works M-F, and sometimes I work weekends. So we see each other when we can. He is a gentleman ... (172 words)

Do people with AS have a harder time getting over their crushes?

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it usual for someone with Asperger Syndrome to have a crush on someone for decades after first meeting them? I'm talking about a crush that never led to a date. This seems really rare among neurotypical people. Do people with AS have a harder time getting over their crushes?... (50 words)

Christmas presents for my boyfriend and his family!

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [Mod Note: 2 Questions from the same poster merged into one] Question 1. Im unsure what to get my new boyfriend of 3 months for christmas, hes told me his parents have also bought me gift/s and expecting his grandmothers who i see often (as i have lost mine and act like surroga... (550 words)

Do I go into town with my 'gay' best friend or do I stay at home to keep my boyfriend happy?

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I enjoy going into town and going clubbing, however my boyfriend does not. We're both 18 and spend everyday together, his best friend who is also 18 has 'gay tendencies' as i call it, he claims to be straight but dresses and acts gay, he even comments on how attractive some ... (420 words)

What are the signs of being strung along and why?

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What are the signs that someone is stringing you along and why do they do it?... (16 words)

Star-crossed lovers.........

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24 November 2010 (F)

age - ~ Long story short...My ex and I have an intense unexplainabe bond. Our history is bizarre. From point one, we were two bulls in a china cabinet. We've never been intimate. We are familiar with each other...but...wee don't know each other. We have both dumped each other...but... (413 words)

Why are young girls interested in much older men?

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24 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - What is happening? I'm wondering why these young girls about 13 to 15 say they love WAY older than them as much as ten even twenty years older I don't get why these girls would fall everytime I here this story I become sick to my stomach there are even girls just entering ... (76 words)

Could this be considered cheating?

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24 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hello everyone I've got a question what actually is cheating? My gf said I cheated on her because I talked to a female friend quite often and I was involved with my friends making a profile for a webcam porn site and because of that she thinks I'm a cheater any advice on how I ... (58 words)

Why did she lie? I need help!

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24 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am embarassed to be here writing this today as its something I never ever anticipated doing, but the truth in the matter is I need answers and help! i first met my gf 7 years ago,however back then she was with someone and we just got on as friends and that was that, i resp... (1294 words)

Should I just face my feelings and confess them?

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I regrettably have feelings towards another man. I’ve been in a long-term relationship with a man for almost my whole adult life and we have a child. Nearly two years ago this was challenged for the first time. A man with whom I work suddenly took my attention away. We’d worked ... (468 words)

Scared of getting hurt again

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i been talkin to this guy for a lil bit and im use to gettin hurt..i always have this feeling that im goin to get hurt again..im having this feelin once again but i like him..He says he likes me to but i dont know because i been hurt all these times..i think he is real but ... (62 words)

How do I control my emotions for my ex?

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24 November 2010 (F)

age - ~I'm Out of Control~ I can't sleep. I don't know how to control my emotions when it comes to my Ex and so I always end up taking a mile when she gives me an inch. My emotions for my ex feel so good...but...at the same time they have me so unbalanced because until sh... (463 words)

Is she hinting at something?

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24 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - today i was hanging out with this girl watching TV at her house when this Kays jewelry commercial comes on and as soon as it says "get that special someone a special gift for christmas" or whatever and then they sing "every kiss begins with KAY!" she kinda nudges me a few times ... (79 words)

Why wont he date me?

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am seeing this guy but we are not dating. We have been seeing eachother for about 3 months now and recently talked about dating. He does not have a job and is on parole. He says he isn't stable enough for a relationship for those reasons. I have many guy who would like to ... (245 words)

Am I holding out for a reason?

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a relationship with this guy over the summer that ended do to the distance between us but we still talk and get along really well. I guess you could say we still act like boyfriend and girlfriend just without thte title. When ever we see each other its like we start off ... (174 words)

Does he just want to use me?

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay there's this guy that i really like maybe even love but he has a girlfriend.he knows i like him and he like me as well but likes is girlfriend more so we have been just keeping it as friends.we talked almost every night til about 11:00pm and that's when he started telling ... (239 words)

Just found out my wife is having an affair with an older man

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am lost and don't know what to do. I have been married for 7 years and just found out that my wife is having an afair with a man who is 30 years her senior. She blames me, she tells me that it's because we do not have sex as much as she would like. She says that when we do ... (271 words)

Son's girlfriend won't let us see him

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24 November 2010 (F)

age - Hi everyone. I am a mother of two children. I love them both deeply. My daughter is doing great, has a husband, three boys and just completed college. My son is a great person, but has recently put himself into a tough situation. He met a girl about a year and a half ago. The... (281 words)

I like my best friends ex girlfirend.

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24 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so I like y best friend's ex-girlfriend. I'll explain how it happened: ok so my bestfriend and I used to live in the same town and one time my friend told me he was dating a girl from a nearby town that he met in a church convention. I never met her while they were dating... (541 words)

Does that count as cheating?

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24 November 2010 (M)

age - my girlfriend was texting a guy and met him and even text him immediately after pleasing her is this cheating... (20 words)

Does anyone else ever feel uncomfortable about their body like I do?

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 and have always felt rather self concious about chest size and body. One of my friends is 13 and has at least DD while I'm only 32aa! I feel really awkward about wearing my school uniform because it has a strict 'no-figure' built in. I've heard that if you try an alter... (306 words)

Can I tell him I like him without losing him as a friend?

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i really want to tell this guy I like him a lot but I don't want to loose him as a friend what should I do? ... (26 words)

Am I his girlfriend?

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im seeing a guy from a different country (exchange student) and he calls me his girl friend after one night drunk and then again sober two days later... am i his gf or is there a translation issue?... (38 words)

He freaks out about little things

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have my own apartment and my boyfriend keeps telling me he wants to move in with me. i love that he wants to and honestly cannot wait considering we have been together for 3 1/2 years. but the second i didnt pick him up (he doesnt have a car) when he wanted me to for him ... (119 words)

I just need help to deal with my frustrations

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a man (long distance) for about a year now. It started out as an online relationship, but we have met plenty of times, and he is currently working on saving money (as am I) so that we can move in together in the future. Now, we talk EVERY night on skype ... (362 words)

I want kids but I'm scared to have sex

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Im scared to have sex but i want kids and im scared to lose me virginity beacuse i dont want to go there the pain of getting my cherry popped. can someone give me advice???... (35 words)

Should Separation End?

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24 November 2010 (M)

age - I'm wondering what to do now. I'm in a long term marriage of over 25 years but the early years of my marriage were not easy. We argued often and almost broke up a couple of times. When my first son was born, I couldn't stand the thought of not being there to raise him and ... (348 words)

Meeting my boyfriend's parents, how should I handle this?

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This weekend I will be meeting my boyfriend's parents for the first time and to be honest I'm a little nervous about it. Me and my guy have been together for a little over a year now, but I haven't met his folks because they live out of state. They'll be coming in for thanksgi... (254 words)

Is my g/f upset that I didn't brave the icy roads to visit her?

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24 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a strong gut feeling my gf is upset, sad, or otherwise disappointed with me for *something*. Here's the story: 1. Monday. The city we live in just got hit by snow and freezing temperature (20-28F). 2. I had terrible stomach flu on Sunday night, and it carried ove... (754 words)

How can I help him overcome his trust issues?

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently got back with my ex boyfriend who I love very much. The problem is... I lied to him about me still talking to my ex. I didn't mean it. I just sort of happened because I needed someone to talk to and my boyfriend was always working. The only person I had talked to ... (151 words)

What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas!

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is going to Las Vegas this upcoming Thanksgiving weekend. He has only gone on a few trips without me,but NEVER to a place like Las Vegas." Whatever happens in Vegas,stays in Vegas." I am horrified of this quote. He is going with his older sister and her husband,but ... (155 words)

Is this substitute professor playing me?

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. Well, first let me tell you the background. I met this guy when he came to give a language class as a substitute teacher at the university. (He's 10 years older by the way, but I'm not a minor so it's completely legal) Because the number of people att... (383 words)

She says she still loves me but doesn't want to be together?

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24 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I split from my gf 3 months ago after 3 years together we were very close and often said we love each other. I still love her and want her back but she says we are not getting back together in the near future but it might happen one day. The thing is despite this she says she ... (93 words)

How can I get my girlfriend to keep up with my sex drive?

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24 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a crazy sex drive. im always horny and i masturbate multiple times a day. I love having sex with my girlfriend, she is pretty much the only thing that turns me on, im constantly thinking about sexual things i can do with her. If i could be with her everyday and i had it ... (108 words)

What are the steps for making a girl flip for you and for getting her laid?

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24 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - question(1):- i just want to know the steps a guy can take to make girls trip for a him,becos it appears that without a guy having money,he can't date a girl. question(2):- i want to know the steps to take for gettin a girl laid.thanks.... (48 words)

Will she end up coming back to me? How long will it take?

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24 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Will my girlfriend of 5 years come back? I have been with this girl for about 5yrs now and just last week she told me she wanted to end it and have time to herself to figure out what she wants, next morning wake up to her wanting me to stay. a couple more days go by and she ... (228 words)

Shall I rekindle this love?

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24 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello please help me out here i was carrying with a girl from last 2 years we both used to love each other suddenly i left her after one year i got in touch with her and now i love her and she to loves me but when i asked her how did she passed one year with out me she told me ... (86 words)

First boy that I've ever loved, but I think I'm gay

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24 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, My problem is this. My boyfriend lives in England whereas I live in Ireland. I met him when I was there on holiday and he's the first boy I've ever loved. I love him deeply and we have plans to see each other soon. The only thing is. I always thought I was gay up until... (128 words)