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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Family member hates my boyfriend, what do I do? I don't want to lose him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my partner have been going out for almost a year now and one particular family member of mines does not want us to be together cuz she said he is a bad person but he never treats me bad... despite that we live far from each other but i love him very much but i don't ... (69 words)

Living with an alcoholic and drug addict... I'm at the end of my tether, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age - I have been with a man for 12 years. He is an alocholic and drug addict. when he drinks he is very mean. he blames me for everything. when he is not drinking we have so much fun together that is only during the day. when night comes he starts drinking and doesn' know when ... (123 words)

Should I make or break my relationship? Highly confused...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im having some problems in my relationship. Im only 15, and My boyfriend and i have been together 8-9 months now, but im a bit confused. At times i can feel like theres nothing in our relationship and im just not feeling the chemistry; even to the point where i dont know ... (235 words)

I was hit on in a chippy!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, this is going to sound really funny but, earlier I got hit on, in a fish and chip shop whilst ordering some fish and chips for 2 to take away in my town... Here's what happened, I'm a part time sales assistant and just finished work and walked in and waited to be ser... (330 words)

I'm ruining my relationship with my boyfriend because I have no friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm ruining my relationship with my boyfriend because I have no friends! I've been with my partner for just under two years now, He is the man i've always dreamed of, so caring and funny, for me he is perfect and I feel like he luckiest girl in the world... I wish that was... (422 words)

What does his sister have against me? She's never even met me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met my boyfriend back in August. We are 20 years apart. One night back in the summer when we were supposed to hang out, he was with his sister and I guess told her he had plans and she asked with who and he told her about me and she now hates me. She has still never met me ... (87 words)

Why does my step mom hate me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does my step mom hate me? She's been married to my dad for almost five years and they have been together since I was nine. Up until I was thirteen she seemed to be okay with me, but after that she began to get real horrid. Continuously now she will tell me to do somethin... (248 words)

Is my friend in a bad relationship and if so, should I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My, best friend, I believe, is in a bad relationship. I know he has considered cheating. His girlfriend is very controlling. She has forbid him from talking to certain girls at school who he is friends with. She also makes it so he has no free time. It has gotten so bad that i ... (197 words)

I'm having sex with a different man each week but I don't want to be this person... help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, I'm not too sure where to start but I don't know what to do and I really need some advice. I split up with my boyfriend (we'd been together for over 7 years) in january and since then i have been doing things that really aren't me. I keep on having one night stan... (404 words)

Has my soulmate left now for good???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Please can somebody help me with this because I cannot get answers no matter where I turn. I am 48, not at all new to relationships. I was married at 17, and thought I had met every kind of personality, until I met my sweet angel now. I never felt settled or secure in any... (751 words)

I want him to miss me and call me... how can I do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well me and my boyfriend are going to be 2 years together already and i dont know why but he has changed with me a lot! Before he used to call me lots of times, we used to talk like for 3 hours sometimes i had to even take my phone to the restroom even when i was gonna take a ... (218 words)

Am I reading too much between the lines?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - OK here is the deal. I've been seeing my specialist doctor for over 2 years. From the moment I met him I found him very attractive but I never acted up on my attraction because I wanted to keep it strictly professional even though he would tell me how I have such a pretty ... (295 words)

Do men ever regret NOT being in their child's life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey i just wondering, do men regret not being in their child's life... like they know they have one or do they have to see the child before they regret not being there or do they just not give a damn? and before anyone says I stopped him seeing his child, I haven't! I'm qu... (76 words)

He keeps saying he will call me but he never does. What's his game?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why would this guy keep telling me he will call me and he never does, he's been doing this for months. I really did like him, when i call him most of the time he's avoidin my calls for days. By the he's 20 yrs old im 22 yrs old. Resently he gave out my phone number to 2 of his ... (112 words)

I smoke... and he broke up with me because of it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is really really against smoking and even though I only smoked occasionally, I gave it up completely for him. A month or two ago we went through a pretty bad breakup after being together for 2 years and I was going crazy. I was overstressed, didn't get more than an ... (332 words)

What does my boyfriend's dream mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay my boyfriend woke up one day and called me and told me his dream, him and his ex arent exactly friends anymore due to her eager fighting ways and well she is suicidal at times, he woke up and told me he had a dream and I asked him to text me it and this is his text: " We... (340 words)

When would he expect sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! I need some advice. I met a guy a week ago. We swapped numbers. He is very sweet, caring and cute! We have been talking and texting and have agreed to go out in a weeks time. Now, I am a virgin, and have not dated for a long time. I really like this guy. My que... (117 words)

Breakup of marriage--why do I feel robbed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Why is it socially acceptable that when the marriage has problems and one spouse wants out that the other spouse is left picking up the shattered pieces? They are left raising the children and reassuring them of future happiness. Dealing with the every day issues that the ... (260 words)

I'm scared my mom will find out I've been watching porn on the internet!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Does this mean I should stop? I've been having night terrors where I can't remember if what happened was a dream or reality. I fear my mother will find out I have watched porn on the internet. She's found out a sex conversation before and a naughty photo. I delete my histor... (123 words)

Will there be a second date?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I went on a first date last week with a guy (who I approached with an email) and it was great. There was no awkwardness at all. I told him that I had two children, and he was totally ok with it. We talked the next day, but the conversations grew shorter so I let up, not wanting ... (96 words)

My husband accuses me of masturbating

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - well am a stay at home mom and Ive been with my husband for 5 years.and he has been accusing me of masturbating and he doesn't want or try to have sex with me,why do you think that is?accusing of masturbating?... (41 words)

What sexy suprise can I do for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband has been gone for a month at home, hunting and helping his parents move. He's driving back home today and will be here tomorrow morning. What sexy surprise can i do for him in the morning??? I can't think of any good ideas.... (45 words)

Should I go for it or am I setting myself up for a fall?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - This girl's a housemate of two friends. Let's call her M. Of course, I like M. Last Tuesday was her birthday, and two friends of hers (a boy and a girl) came up to visit her. The next day she tried to hide the fact that she had a guy around for what seemed to be fear of ... (480 words)

Giving her time to think about it, but she's not utilizing this time wisely!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm going through a shit time at the moment. My ex girlfriend said she needs time to think about me and her getting back together. However, in that time of her thinking we have been talking and that, and she is in two minds and doesn't really have a definite answer ... (470 words)

He lied that he had posted a birthday card to me... still not received it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5135 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Been seeing a guy (casual basis) for couple of months. Don't see each other much because of work committments and my child. He calls me every nite though and we talk for ages and get on really well. We have already slept together. He is very attentive and seems very caring. I... (220 words)

I only asked her out on a date because it was a bet, now I'm having trouble brushing her off!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've gotten myself into a fix and I need help as soon as possible. A few months ago, a friend and I made a bet. She told me that if I could get this girl's attention and ask her out on a date, I would win some money from her. Let's call this girl Emily. Now because at that ... (642 words)

Why am I so envious of them, when I should be happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, to cut straight to the point, in school i have a close circle of friends (we are all bisexual) and for the past five weeks two of them have been going out, we'll call them A and B, A being the female and B being the male, and I have been really close to "A" and "B" and i ... (230 words)

Does she act like this with everyone or just me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been friends with this girl for a couple of months now, and we talk almost everyday, she always smiles at me and sometimes I even catch her looking at me, anyway the other night she phoned me and her and her friend were just giggling for about 5 mins with some words ... (110 words)

He calls me princess.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I've met someone online and i've been talking to him for about a year now. It was 3 months ago that he asked me out. Thinking nothing of it I said yes, thinking that we would never meet. But after this 3 months of going out with him he is the cutest most carring person I... (165 words)

Worried younger guy will put my letter on the internet

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age - I realise I have been stupid and immature HOWEVER we all make mistakes I went on holiday and fancied this much younger man like mad and stupidly wrote to him and told him so (on the holiday) -I thought nothing ventured nothing gained I KNOW it was silly but Ive done it - no... (254 words)

Is it possible to have feelings for two people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it possible to have feelings for 2 people? One is my boyfriend (who I love to bits) and one is another guy I met a few months ago (who I'm starting to fall for) Nothing has happened between me n this guy although I would like it to but won't do that to my boyfriend but I re... (65 words)

Our star signs match. Is it destiny?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - So, my friend recently introduced me to starsigns. I am a Cancer, and the description for a male Cancerian matches me perfectly. My love is a pisces. Its description matches her perfectly too. Coincidentally, Cancer's number one love match is Pisces. Is this just a set of ... (57 words)

Need a good honest opinion of what to do now.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend of 9 months told me from the beginning of the relationship to never ask her about her past sexual experiences and it bothered me having to be so mysterious.... last night she was extremely drunk and we were having sex and I asked her and told her to be completely ... (175 words)

Can't stay if it don't change soon!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I'm In a relationship with who I think is the man of my dreams. He has children and I also have children. We live together, 3 of my children live with me and 1 of his. Its like when his other children come over for the weekend he changes. He talks to his kid... (122 words)

13, pregnant and don't know what to do...

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi I'm 13 and pregnant, I'm scared, dunno what to do and not sure who the dad is! Only my best friend knows, not sure what to do... its been 2 months now I'm scared HELPPPP... (37 words)

Do you think I got over him too fast? Do you think he was jealous about me going ot to the movies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me last thursday right before thiis really awesome foot ball game. At the game there were a lot of cute guys there but for some reason I couldn't get my mind off of him. I got over him on saturday and ended going to this party that my friend dragged ... (291 words)

Is the song "only girl in the world" actually possible?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im sure all of you are probably familiar with rihanna's new song "only girl" Well I have been in a few relationships and I want to know if it is actually possible to have your boyfriend treat you like the only girl in the world... Basically it means that he only see's you his ... (111 words)

I feel like my life is over before it's even begun

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - This isnt really a relationship question as such but the relationship aspect is part of a larger problem. this is probably going to be quite a long question im afraid. The problem is that ever since i left high school i feel like my life has been getting worse and worse. i... (673 words)

Married and in love with my ex-boyfriend who is always married

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I got married over two years ago and am still in love with my ex who is also married. My ex and I were together for over 3 years, I cheated on him one night after a lot of drinks. I went home and told him instantly since I felt so guilty and ashamed. He kicked me out and we ... (384 words)

I feel so lost after losing this baby...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my husband have together for 5 years and have been married for 3... We got pregnant about 9 months ago but i lost the baby and didint tell him because he said he would leave me... I dont know what to do because he is going to tell everyone i faked it and i dont want to ... (109 words)

I'm in love with the cashier at my local grocery store.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm in love with the cashier at my local grocery store. The first time I saw her I was so thunderstruck and giddy, as soon as I got home I blurted out to my wife about the beautiful the girl I just saw. I usually think before I speak. A little background: I have been marrie... (437 words)

My boyfriend is ignoring me after a fight...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are constantly fighting. The thing is he is the one who keeps fighting with me over issues that don't even matter or are fake/unreal in his mind. For example, if I don't pick up his phone call when he calls, he thinks I'm outside with someone else or I'm ... (530 words)

Boyfriend does not go out of his way to make me happy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2978 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Relationship is about effort, isn't it? And adjustments. I've adjusted to a lot for this man, except one thing. He doesn't really go out of his way to please me, even when he knows it'll make me happy. Some man have to grope in the dark and guess what his girlfriend li... (945 words)

Is it wise to possibly ruin a great friendship right now and any future chances by speaking my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (?) age 36-40 - So let's start with some context shall we? There are three people at play here: me, one of my friends (male), and my best friend (female). I have known both as friends for the better part of the last half decade and to further add, they have been in a relationship for... (505 words)

Is 4 weeks without any contact a sign that its totally over???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

27 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey: My girlfriend of two years broke up with me roughly 10 weeks ago and we have been NC for just shy of 4 weeks. She broke up with me because I was studying and working full time for my med boards for the 5 months prior and wasn't able to give her much time. Little th... (269 words)

I WANT to believe that he is really making it up to me but our past is stopping me doing so.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm not sure where to start but here goes. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now, but twice during these four years that we broke up because he cheated on me and lied to me. The first time was harder because I never saw it coming. We were together for 1 y... (1394 words)

Is this even a legitimate relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 17 and met a guy B through family. He is 17 going on 18 next week. We've been dating for almost a month. B wants to join the marines, he asked me to wait for him. I said yes. Then for a week and a half, he was depressed so we barely talked but he did say he loved me. Now... (115 words)

Due to antibiotics, birth bill was inneffective, NOW I'm 2 months pregnant!!! How do I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my boyfriend and I have been together for 3.5 years. We met in 7th grade but didn't start dating until a month before freshman year started. We're both nearly half way through our senior year now. We lost our virginities to each other on junior prom night and have been go... (275 words)

He wanted an open relationship, should I tell him I've lost my virginity to someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy. I've been with my boyfriend for a little under a year now and we're in a open relationship (per his request). I've always been fine with it, but prior to the situation I'm about to tell you about, I've only made out with a guy that wasn't my boyfriend. When my boyfri... (193 words)

I jokingly asked a girl to be my g/f, she accepted and I already have a girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well uhm, I am having a bit of a problem, and I dont know how to fix this, so Im hoping I can find people who can help me with this problem. I have a girlfriend, and I have been with her for a year, we have had our fun and everything.. but then one day another girl com... (270 words)

I want to stop being rude!!!!!!!!!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - ok, so here is the deal im gettin married in less than 30 days. lets call her miss bee, well miss bee and i have been together going on 10 years. i love her deeply, we have two sons and have been together since high school. ok so my ? i have been mean to her, i get in a bad ... (223 words)

Heart in one place, soul in another, Help!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - last weekend, for our 3 year anniversary, my partner brought her best friend over and we had a threesome. as my partner is not all that excitable, she went to sleep afterwards, and her friend and i continued to have oral and then had intercourse a further 2 times. before i ... (250 words)

Why do guys pretend to be someone else to get you to talk to them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - why would guys who like you pretend to be someone else to get to talk to you? ive had a few guys do this to me now and i click on straight away when they pretend to be someone else.... (40 words)

Will talking about intimate subjects cause a problem in our marriages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hii...I am married and happy.I found a guy who is my close friend.We share couple of intimate topics.He is also married.We feel that we are getting attached and loving eachother.I too feel to spend the max time with him.though we never met just that seeing each other`s picture ... (61 words)

Does ignoring her work to get her to miss me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

27 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex girlfriend are going through a time where she wants time to think about getting back together however she is so indecisive and cannot decide and everytime I bring it up she always finds problems with giving it another go even though she says she doesn't want to let ... (268 words)

Ex keeps up with me, does this mean he still cares?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Was with my ex for five years, he keeps in regular contact via IM. He ended the relationship. I then deleted him off my contacts as I was finding it too difficult. He always answers my calls and texts back when I contact him. When we bump into each other, he seems more awkward ... (125 words)

I'm 28 and no girl in my life, am I normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear All, I just wanted to know one thing is it normal not to have a woman in life even when you turn 28. I must am not that bad looking (not to say that it makes any difference). It’s a fact that never had girlfriend. I must admit I do get attracted to girls but n... (235 words)

My wife has shut down on me emotionally and physically and then accuse me wrongly of having an affair!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - OK, where do I start...well, I appreciate anyone who takes the time to read and reply. I have been married for more than 5 years. We have a fantastic dautor of nearly 3. Soon after she was born my wife lost interest in sex. Thats how it started. Since then she has progress... (417 words)

He's betrayed my trust by going on facebook to another girl!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and this guy were not officially a couple but have been very close for a number of months and were planning to be together once we'd tied up a few loose ends, like he was still living with his ex partner etc. However, me being nosey and insecure found messages after browsing ... (114 words)

Is the fact that he looks at porn and lies to me about an issue of incompatibility?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My question concerns pornography. Context: My boyfriend and I are 23 years old and have been together for almost 2 years. I love having sex and virtually never turn him down. Really, I'm the one that gets turned down the most. We currently have sex 3-5 times a week, a ... (1105 words)

People tell us we shouldn't buy a house together yet, but why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together a year. We have lived together since we'd been together 2 months. We currently live with his parents, but are pretty self sufficient and it is more like a house share situation, his parents are very laid back and are more like friend... (425 words)

Holding back so she shows me love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - i am happily married for 12 years now and i used to work abroad for almost 7 years now, sometimes i've questioned my wife's priority with regards to giving attentions only on my mind(our kids, her friends over me) ... so im thinking maybe it's just me because i gave so much ... (98 words)

I was overweight as a child, now I feel I'm ugly. What is pretty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey I really need a good bit of advice to get me out of the funk I am in. To give u some background: at school from age of 10 to about 16/17 I was v.overweight and not very pretty. I was picked on but never picked to go out with! Boys used to always be horrible, same t... (235 words)

He wants kids but I don't, sick of his nagging

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm 22 years old and my boyfriend that i've been with for 3 years wants to have kids...and he keeps naggin me about it...i don't know how to tell him that i dont really want kids..... at all... well idk mayb wen im like 40 but im young and i luv the way i look and i got a great ... (125 words)

She seemed to like me, but she's gone off with someone else now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

27 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, Okay, i have been up all night. I had a party yesterday at my house. I invited lots of people. I am a very good host. Not to sound like bragging, i make people laugh, make them feel comfortable and even make them dance! There is a girl i met last year in a club, she... (419 words)

The problem is that she has a boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

27 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 18 and in love with this girl. She is my best friend. I can tell her anything. We were friends in high school and still are. She loves me too. The problem is that she has a boyfriend. Her and I are very close. We flirt fairly often over the phone and have kissed all while ... (259 words)

How can I know if I am stimulating her properly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I frequently finger my girlfriend and I understand the concept of stimulating the clitoris but I have heard many places that when aroused it sticks out. I'm sure she is aroused because she gets very "wet" but when I have my finger there I can't feel anything sticking out. I'm ... (107 words)

I used her. Now how do I surpass guilt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age - I am a happily married woman with 4 adult children. My husband and children are the best thing that has ever happened for me. My husband's my childhood sweet heart, best friend, guardian angel, soulmate and no man or woman will ever be capable of even remotely swaying my love ... (264 words)

If he likes me why doesn't he ask me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Does he like me? I don't know what to say other than "salve". He tutors at the same room I tutor and I asked for help twice which he has done very enthusiastically and always laughs at my... Doubts. He's twenty. First time I ever saw him I made the mistake of asking the girl I ... (403 words)

What to so when you think your boyfriend and your best friend might just have a thing?

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well I feel like my boyfriend has lost interest in me.. we have been dating for a year now and i feel like he can't trust me. we broke up like a week ago and it was just to take a break but not see other people and just not see each other for a while so i guess we didn't really ... (326 words)

Does she just see me as a fling?

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27 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - well ive been seeing this girl for about 3 weeks now, and i asked her last night about her thoughts on a relationship. and she said she wasnt ready yet, so to make things more clearer i asked if she was even interested in having one, and she said she was but she just isnt ready ... (151 words)

What can I do about my mother? I don't have the money to move out!

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my mother is driving me absolutely crazy... i used to think she was just lazy or didn't care but i'm convinced she's really passive aggressive and does stupid things on purpose to piss me the fuck off.. she'll eat and leave dishes in my room gets crumbs and stuff everywhere on ... (340 words)

B/f acting weird after our argument! Does he just need time?

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 months now, and we got into a little argument today and he almost broke up with me. But he didn't and we mended everything. I need help because now he's being all weird, and i know that happens a lot during ... (98 words)

I'm wondering if my teacher is in love with me?

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in love with my teacher who is of the same sex and 15 years older than me. She pays alot of attention to me during school hours and outside school hours. She winks at me and grins at me alot and she talks to me in a different voice compared to other students. She calls me ... (105 words)

Heartbreak Lead to a Heart Attack

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it possible to suffer a heart attack from a broken heart! I can't breathe...... (15 words)

Girlfriend cheated and I am pissed!

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27 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - my girl friend told me awhile ago that she cheated on me twice with two diff. people.. she cried alot and i cud tell she fells really bad about it but im pissed. we had minor problems things that cud of been fixed but she chose to cheat...at the same time i love her...she ... (96 words)

I don't want to be, but I think I'm gay

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27 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 15 and i think i am gay. I really dont want to be but i think i am. Everytime i think of boys my age i get aroused. But I have feelings for girls but i Never get aroused. It doesnt make sense. So am i gay bi or straight If you read this please help i am so lost right ... (89 words)

Why can't we have sex?

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27 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi im a 21yr old. Me n my gf are both virgins. we have tried having sex 3-4 times but have been unsuccessful at it. despite of 30mins foreplay and ample lubrication i am unable to penetrate her. the vaginal openin is very tight and small. i tried inserting my fingers n cud get ... (82 words)

Why is this considered cheating?

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27 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - hello i've posted a question before but never got a clear answer why because i failed to make it clear. now heres my situation my gf absolutely believes i cheated because of the following... 1) i was involved with 2 of my friends webcam porn. he wanted to search for porn and ... (146 words)

I cheated and lost my virginity and don't feel guilty or don't feel I need to tell my boyfriend

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend for two years and two months. The most we've ever gone is oral. This summer, I met this guy, who's 21 and he's five years older than me. Ever since we've been talking nonstop, basically I've been cheating on my boyfriend. The 21 year old is here ... (92 words)

Abnormal acting teacher?

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this teacher and lately he's been acting abnormal towards me. I was staying after school and he came up to my desk in his chair and after he is done explain the concept of the question, he turned his head and looked at me, so i turned my head and then we were ... (80 words)

Is there something wrong with me for not wishing to partake in sex anymore?

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am 38 years and I love my partner but i am not at all intersted in sex anymore at all. This started when my second child was born which was bout 6 years ago. I am not sure whther somethinh is wrong with me or what, Thanks.... (59 words)

Is it wrong to get upset about my boyfriend's underage drinking?

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend for a year now, and the only problem I ever have with him is when he drinks. He just turned 20, and has been drinking since 16 or 17. I don't like it. I don't believe getting drunk is safe (a close friend's sister was killed by a drunk driver and ... (129 words)

I need a man's take on this, what are the most important characteristics of a good woman?

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What are the most important characteristics in a good woman, girlfrien and/or wife? I am really trying to become a better woman and would like a mans take. Thank you!!!!... (32 words)

She dropped me like a hot potato!

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27 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Well I was in a one year relationship with a woman who was 17 years older than me. she was tring hard to get in a serious relationship with me but I told her we can't have something because the age gap is big. It was a friend with benefit relationship and she was my best ... (405 words)

Did he play me this whole time?

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to get over him and I don't. I feel..know I should but I don't want to break contact. He had always messed with my head. I didn't know if he cared or not. He did things that made me think he did. Did others that made me think he took me for nothing. I was stupid e... (902 words)

I giggled while fooling around!

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a little worried. My "friend" and I were fooling around for the first time, and he loved to play with my breasts. They aren't very sensitive (he knows this), and so I just liked watching his reaction to them. I couldn't help but giggle at him. Was that bad? Or am I merely ... (55 words)

I will lose my best friend if I let my ex back into my life!

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated this guy on and off for about a year, and we were friends for like 4 years prior to that. He was pretty much my everything, and we knew each other better than almost anyone. We were inseparable. It was very rare for us to not be together. I'm not a very trusting person, ... (485 words)

Am I in the wrong for getting mad?

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27 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - thanks for the help last time guys and girls. it helped me alot. now then i need some serious help, or advice, or whatever. last night my gf and i were talking and then she said that she texted a bunch of different people which i knew and didnt care about because she doesnt ... (273 words)

What if I don't make it through this?

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What if I can't get through this? This has been the most difficult break up I've ever been through. We were together for nearly 5 years and found out he was cheating on me. I ended it. He moved in with his mistress after I busted him and confronted her. Its been just over a ... (106 words)

I dumped him because he told me to dump him!

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone! I have been with my bf for 3 yrs,we always fighting and now we are in a LDR since may this year,everytime when we fight he told me to dump him and find another bf if his not treating me well,he can't even say sorry,yesterday he told me the same thing then i dump ... (109 words)

I'm still having trouble moving on..

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27 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Our break up was just 2 weeks ago and she became involved with another guy within the first week. Every time I go to browse around on Facebook there are pictures of them together. It sucks when I can't even check my own updates without being bombarded with their ... (252 words)

What is a loser?

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27 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I just got thinking about what people call their exes. Guys call their exes bitch, crazy bitch, or ugly. To me that means, 'she rejected me harshly', 'she's needy/clingy (doesn't feel good enough)', and 'not that good looking', respectively. Those names make sense, so I guess ... (151 words)

How do you get back out there?

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm still suffering from a shattered heart, and I know I'm not in any way ready to begin dating again, but I'm wondering how on earth you get back out there once it's time. Do you have to force yourself? Is it easier to just attend parties or gatherings and let fate take its ... (122 words)

Crash course in sex!

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sixteen, and want to please my boyfriend the best way possible. My age limits my experience, and the general knowledge of the male body. What gets you guys goin? What text messages would put you in the mood? What words do you like a woman to say during sex? Loud moans? ... (81 words)

What's it like to date a psychiatrist? (Not my own)

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been joking back and forth for a while with a psychiatrist (not mine, works near my work place) for a little while now and we're going on a date in a week. I know it sounds silly, but what if he just analyzes everything I do or say? I don't have any mental problems,... (253 words)

I need to let go of my boyfriend for good!

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have dated my boyfriend for about 3 years now. He is my first for EVERYTHING (first guy to ask me out, i lost my virginity to him, everything). We have our ups and downs His idea of a relationship is I do what I do he does what he does and we meet in the middle which is good ... (373 words)

I feel like he's cheating!

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been together 6 years and married three. From the beginning I told him that if he cheats that's it. He hasn't physically cheated but I still feel like he is cheating. In the beginning I found text message's on his phone. They weren't to bad but there was ... (363 words)

He wants me to make the first move in our sexual arrangement.

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I go and see my "friend" every once in a while and he has always made me horny and felt me up. I welcome this gladly. At one point I thought I was hornier than him, but the other day i got the courage to touch him and i found out he has been hiding his erections. ... (446 words)

I think she's an attention seeker!

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27 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey im 20 and like this one grl... but i found out that all her friends are guys because she said they like to hang with her a lot more then girls do...and cant meet girl friends easy and also her best friend is a guy to which is her ex... someone that knows her thinks all her ... (219 words)

I'm afraid of anything to do with sex!

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am an 18 year old virgin. I am absolutely terrified to lose my virginity or do any other sexual things, because i've never been put in that situation. I need to get over my fear soon, because i'm beginning to shy away from the opposite sex altogether in fear of being ... (63 words)

I don't understand him! Help!

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a best friend and we like eachother but he has a girl friend and they keep breaking up and getting back togeather. one time recently they had broken up and i had gone to his house with frinds for a bond fire, and we started cuddling, and we feel asleep togeather, and the ... (94 words)

Haven't had sex in 4 years!

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27 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 31 yr old male. I haven't had sex in over 4 yrs. I am frustrated and don't know how to go about approaching a female and go about even initiating it. I wouldn't mind a girlfriend or even a fwb. I don't go out much if at all anymore so don't have many instances in meeting ... (179 words)

I don't know what to get for my boyfriend for christmas?

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in a sticky situation, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 6 months now (we are both 18)and I don't know what to get him. I know there are options like shirts, or hats. But I want to get him something meaningful, something special to him. He does like martial arts ... (86 words)

Doubting what I had in the first place

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27 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, so two months ago I split up with the girl of my dreams. This post will be a bit long, but I need to include a lot of detail. Thanks in advance for reading. I think I know why it happened now, but when I asked some people for help they just told me that she only thought... (1586 words)

I need to really convice or scare him to quit!

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hii This boy i really like we really get along in class , the thing i care about him too much and the other day he told me smokes weed 3-5 times a week , I need to really convice or scare him to quit! I know under the age of 18 the brain isnt fully delvoplt, this weed is rea... (77 words)

I still love her...?

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is going to be very long, but i really need help or some sort of guidance. i have nobody else to talk to about this ): So my freshman year of high school i met a sophomore girl for the first time. we always had a lot of mutual friends and went to the same school but ... (1635 words)

Should I worry or be concerned about my husband still using Facebook?

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all. My question is should I worry or be concerned about my husband still using Facebook? Especially since thats how i found out about his affair. Also he deactivated his account but uses my son's account to log in and out. He's able to do this because my son used his ... (81 words)

I want to become an actress! How do I go about it?

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know whether or not im posting this question on the right website but hey, i'll give it a try. The thing is when i was 14 i left school and became homeschooled, not the best i know. Now i have no gcses and i want to be an actress. How do i go about this, seeing as i dont ... (64 words)

Hoplessly in love but lost as well...

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my gf on and off for a little over a year our longest time weve been together was eight months. We broke up the first few times bcuz she was cheating on me with her ex of six years. I found out by digging into a few things i called her ex n told her what was going ... (1142 words)

Do I keep... or get rid?

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, So im dating this black boy and my parents didn't know about it cause they would kill me if they knew. Well one day my mom wanted to look at my facebook and i knew he had posted comments and things on my wall, so i confessed. well she said she wouldn't tell my... (96 words)

I Love Flowers!

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm fed up! I have been with my boy friend for 6 years and we have a 3 year old child. I've always been the one that made more money, even when I was on unemployment. When we first met he use to buy me flowers and buy cards for me, now nothing. I have alway bought him gifts ... (140 words)

Short affair, and only oral sex

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Back in Sept. My husband had a month and a half affair. I didnt find out till the friday before Thanksgiving. The woman's husband called me to let me know what has happened. I told the guy there was no way. Thats not him. We have been together for 18 yrs and married for 14 ... (276 words)

He hasn't texed me or called me since we had sex.

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - He hasn't texed me or called me since we had sex. Is he over it now that I gave him what he wanted or should I just text him. We were talking about having a relationship but one thing led to another and we had sex. I am just not sure why he hasn't texted me when he seemed fine ... (119 words)

He can't go longer than a day without checking up on me!

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me three weeks ago but still manages to contact me every day and what makes it hard is that we go to the same school. He pulled the whole 'lets still be friends line' when we broke up. Last week he told me he still likes me and loves being with me but ... (258 words)

I'm just afraid he will meet someone else and not tell me or that our future is effed because of how lazy he is!

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two years and here are some of our problems -He does work thirty hours a week with plenty of time to do is college work but he is currently failing. I am doing well in class but know that he will not get his degree a... (323 words)

It's pretty much obvious to everyone he doesn't want anything to do with her, except her!

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now, and we've of course had our rough patches, but mainly caused by some girl who used to be his best friend and ex, but eventually my boyfriend saw that she was wrecking our relationship and told her he wanted n... (543 words)

I can see his friend is going to cause problems in our relationship!

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend used to have this close friend but they fell out a week into our relationship. Yesterday they started talking again and planned something today -which happened to be a somewhat important anniversary for us. My boyfriend agreed to the meeting and went out to see his ... (277 words)

My friend's boyfriend has asked me out... help!

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, I have another problem similar to my last question. My friend's (same friend from before) boyfriend asked me out and i don't want to tell her because it will break her heart. But I am scared if I don't she will get more hurt and blame me. I already made the choice ... (81 words)

Should I leave for me and my son's sake?

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Should i leave him? My partner of ten years and who is the father of my son has cheated three times on me.The last time i wanted him to leave but somehow he managed to convince me it wasnt him. However 6 months later he tells me it was.I still feel really angry as i defen... (182 words)

I don't know how to approach him.

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 20 years old and I like this guy that's in a few of my classes. I get the feeling that he's interested in me because he always sits near me and I catch him looking at me sometimes. The problem is that we're both very shy. Very very shy. This has been going on for a few ... (137 words)

So is this him saying he wants to be friends?

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so there's this guy I've been talking to a lot lately- we share core interests, enjoy talking, have some mutual friends, etc. We definitely flirt w/ each other, but whether or not he likes me as more than friends puzzles me-now more than ever. The other night he texts me... (193 words)

She says she's just on it for fun, but it's a webcam website with guys masturbating!

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27 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ill just get straight to the point, my girlfriend goes on this webchat website with her friend. U have a web cam and it cycles threw random people who are on the site to. And she says like every one is a guy masterbating. And they say they talk to the people and mess with ... (144 words)

On her Christmas list is marriage and a baby!

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27 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello people, I was talking recently with my girlfriend about what she wants fot christmas. ( we have been together almost 3 years and at present are both 17) She said that she wants to marry me one day and that the ultimate christmas present for her would to get pregnant. I ... (154 words)

I only love her when we're apart

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27 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been going out with this girl for 2 months,and we see eachother every day,all the time...when were together I feel shes not having a good time,so I feel bored and I think I should let this go but when were apart I cant stop thinkin about her,I need to see her. I only lov... (81 words)

Does my crush dig me?

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27 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - theres this kid at our school his been here for a few weeks. I kinda see em stares at me when Im walking down the hallways when i first get to school. First day i went into the lunch room because i wanted a cookie. Lol. I went into the court and my crush was all the way o... (355 words)