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writes:There is this guy at work who is always staring at me. He is really nice to me but i noticed that he says my name a lot when we speak ... im not really sure if he does that to everyone.he would come in the office to say something to someone else, yet i see that he is watching my every move while speaking to the other person.... sometimes he tries to start a casual conversation with me (i guess he saw that i dont start conversations often). because im kind of timid around him, i always keep our conversations short but i can see that he wants to talk more ...he is always looking at me straight in the eyes when we speak ... I avoid his eyes, yet he keeps searching my eyes ... he seems to be a very nice guy, very down to earth ...He is a little different than the other guy that i dated ... he seems to be a little older (28-32), white (im black and never dated a white guy, this is why i am so unsure) ...I just would like to know what the staring and the other stuff mean ...there are not many women in the office, or at least women my age (24), so I cant really tell if he is like that with the other women or just me ...your comment will be appreciated
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks a lot ... i'm not sure that i like him but then again i dont know much about him ... it takes more than physical features for me to like someone ... i actually have to get to know someone before i come to that conclusion.
I will try to be more inviting, to see if he is indeed interested ...
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (21 November 2010):
It's a little hard to tell if he's the same way with other women as he is with you because...we're not there. But if you're getting the vibe that he's interested, which I think you can usually tell, then he probably is interested. I think you're just afraid to jump to conclusions and think, "Oh he must want me!" because you're probably a down to earth person yourself and don't want to assume anything. If you're interested in him too, just smile and talk to him. If he's interested and you come off as even a tad bit inviting, he'll take the bait and probably ask you out eventually.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): I am a little stuck at what you're really trying to figure out the fact that he stares at you and says you're name while talking or that he's white and does it? either way I think it's a form of respect when a man says your name while talking to you. I like it. most men dnt do that but the few that do seem to be very genuine, to me. do u like him? that's the question and if so color doesn't matter,he seems to have some intrest in you and maybe he's just tryn to read you as well. play it out and see if it's just friendly or if it's some kind of love intrest..
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