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writes: i am in love with a friend. we were getting closer than just friends and then he called me (cuzz). Didn't quite understand where that came from. Just a day before that, he spent the night with me. no we didn't do anything. we just layed and talked and it was nice. he told me he was confused about some things in his life right now but that he wasn't confused about me. i told him i was in love with him and he just held me and told me he's trying to get things right.. it was a nice night, comforting and sweet, he'd never been that way with me before. when he left the next day he said he had some things to think about and he pulled me to him. The next day he came by and just seemed distant and completely different. no, he didn't do anything out of the ordinary he just wasn't the guy the night before. he was only here a short while then said he'd be back later. I had text him later that day and asked him could he bring a blank c.d when he came back cause that's what we do, we make music. he text me back( i got ya cuzz!) He never called me cuzz in the 7-8mnths that I've known him..friends of friends call each other cuzz but that's because their relationship is cool,friendly.. but why now he called me cuzz, what happened from that night to the next day that changed everything? the real question is what should i do now or do nothing? i havent heard from him since and usually i hear from him almost everyday..when he called me cuzz, my feelings got the best of me and i text back (cuzz, oh wow!, please dnt txt me bak ths time thats whats up though..cuzz!) i didnt mean dnt talk to me ever! it was childish for me to get so upset but i was hurt cause i dnt understand the games. He claims he cared about me and just got alot going on right now to laying with me and hugging me up telling me he trying to fix things to the next day calling me cuzz and now nothing...i love him but i dnt know what to do or say next
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (21 November 2010):
 He doesn't feel the same way that you do, and he only wants to stay friends.
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reader, Racna1305 +, writes (21 November 2010):
 First off cuzz, lol. Naw im playin im playin. Give him some time, he has some things goin on and maybe a relationship would get in the way. Maybe he cant give you his all ya know? Then with you tellin him how you feel he prolly has to sort things out and put pieces together.
Maybe he emphasized CUZZ because he wants to stay friends. That doesnt mean he doesnt wanna be with you it could be his way of saying "I like you but we cant be anything right now" You gotta respect he has things to work on like he said. Then with you getting upset it prolly threw him for a loop and he is wondering what the hell is up. He may think he made you upset and doesnt know how to approach you, give him some time and talk top him again but when you do act like that night never happened, the ball is in his court. He knows how you feel so see what he does
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