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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: There is this girl I met 2 weeks ago. We were both interested and tried to meet twice. Both times she had to cancel and postpone. Even though I believe she had had good reasons to do so, I don't feel like setting up dates to have her cancel them and ask to meet later. What to do when a girl starts flaking? Should I just tell her I have no patience for this? Would this push her to be more serious about the date?Maybe I should say that we did exchange a lot of e-mails, which clearly shows she was interested. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Level22 +, writes (23 November 2010):
Yup, back off and wait for her to set up the next date. You have made an effort, if she doesn't make an effort back then let it go.
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