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Why do we set up dates and then she cancels?

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Question - (21 November 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 November 2010)
A male Brazil age 41-50, anonymous writes:

There is this girl I met 2 weeks ago. We were both interested and tried to meet twice. Both times she had to cancel and postpone. Even though I believe she had had good reasons to do so, I don't feel like setting up dates to have her cancel them and ask to meet later.

What to do when a girl starts flaking? Should I just tell her I have no patience for this? Would this push her to be more serious about the date?

Maybe I should say that we did exchange a lot of e-mails, which clearly shows she was interested.

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A female reader, Level22 Australia +, writes (23 November 2010):

Level22 agony auntYup, back off and wait for her to set up the next date. You have made an effort, if she doesn't make an effort back then let it go.

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