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writes:Hello, I have been in a relationship for a year and a half and went through my fiances phone only to find out. He is still communicating with his ex they send sexual pictures through text she is in another state I was so upset that I called her and she let me know that he told her he does not love me and she will always have his heart we discussed the issue and he said he would stop communicating with her so to reassure my feelings I checked his phone again only to find out he's now talking to someone in our city whom has a man and respects the fact of him being in a relationship because she is in one, sometimes I feel as if I'm just emotional because of my pregnancy or I just feel so unwanted. Everything is more important than me ps3,basketball practice and games, cell phone so I just need some advice when I'm around he doesn't even say anything we sleep in the same bed he doesn't touch me or ineract with our pregnancy at all
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reader, sweetaei +, writes (22 November 2010):
sounds like u are with my husband. it doesn't get any better, hun. i spent 8 years dealing with the exact same thing u described, from his ex to random women. each time i got pregnant, i thought it was just my emotions...no. it's not.
it only gets worse. one thing that's helped me proceed with the divorce is to keep in mind the following: "it's better to face reality than to be in love with someone's potential". in other words, it is what it is, and don't waste anymore of your life waiting for him to change and blaming yourself.
you are worth so much. how dare he disrespect you and his child. shame on him.
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