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36-40,
*jroberts
writes:Hello everyone.I am 21 and I go to college. I have a friend who already has a boyfriend, she is average good looking, I just want to kiss and have fun with her. So i said that i have a crush on her but if she wud have been single then i wud had been with her. I even mentioned once that i like ur lips and everything. Since when i said this she usually says that things are not going good with her bf. and probs and she feels like she isnt in a relationship, though she is etc. we usually dont talk on phone but text everyday. Texts have not been naughty yet but they are kinda show how i lke and love her. She has agreed to go out with me and in talks she even mentioned that she will be selfish with what her heart says like she has a bf but still she chats with me all day long.Like i mentioned i want to kiss, have fun, sex with her, what shall be my next step in approaching her and she wanting me.Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2010): This is her problem, not yours. I suppose you can't help your feelings and wouldn't want to cut her out of your life. You're not being the most stand- up guy and she Hardly the most stand- up chick text- flirting while she has a boyfriend.
There really oughtn't be any next step, until she has made her choice... do what you will to egg her along... she obviously needs a push... and it is not love without Intrigue...
-Your Tante Vic
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reader, BunnyAce  +, writes (23 November 2010):
 Dude, this is a bad situation. How pissed off would you be if someone you were dating did this to you? This is why people have trust issues these days. You say that you want her physically but you however left out if you actually want to be with this girl.
She obviously hasn't matured in her relationship aspects and she is just stringing this guy along until a better oppertunity presents itself. Which is wrong. If she does end up leaving her bf for you and when you're done having fun with her, what do u think is going to happen next? Do you think you could trust her enough to date her? Or do you think it is going to b awkward when you don't date her when she is expecting you to. You'll lose a friend. If she is any sort of a friend to you I would knock the flirting off. Then when she breaks up with her bf on her own accord, you will b in no way obligated to give her a relationship.
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