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writes:I'm 16, and i have a lovely boyfriend. he treats me right and im really happy, but it's only been a month. i want to know if you lost your virginity at my age, how long were you in a relationship for? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): Uk age of consent is 16, lost It then
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reader, Jen1689  +, writes (21 November 2010):
 I lost my virginity at age 20 to my now-fiance. We were only together for a month, but we've now been together for a year and ten months. The length of time you're in the relationship isn't what's important. Just make sure you trust the person enough to give something that important to them. And just think about if you two were to break up shortly afterward (which could happen), would you regret it? Would you wish you had waited? Also, make sure you're emotionally, mentally, and physically ready for it. Sex gets to attached to someone quickly, and it's also something that not many people take pride in. It's also very awkward and uncomfortable if you're not prepared to do it. Hope this helped =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): I lost mine at 17 to my boyfriend of just over 6 months. We're approaching our 2 year anniversary now. :) don't rush it, it should be special.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (21 November 2010):
 I lost mine at 18 to my boyfriend of 8 months. Just make sure it's what you both want and are ready for before it happens. My first time was awful.
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reader, kirra07  +, writes (21 November 2010):
I lost my virginity at 18, and I had met him in September, started dating a few weeks after that, and then had sex after about 1 month of dating. And it was honestly a pretty bad experience. I didn't know anything about birth control (and the condom broke, had to get the morning after pill which I didn't even know about). And it hurt. And it was awkward. We didn't have sex again after that for probably another month.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): Well, I just turned 17 and I lost my virginity to my best friend and boyfriend when I was 16. I've known him my whole life (since we were like 4) and we started dating when we were 14.
But the main thing is having sex was something we talked about a lot before we decided it was right for us. Even though he and I have known each other for 13 years, simply talking about it really brought us closer. So you and your guy should really talk about it and not just jump into it. Make sure it's really right for you. Losing your virginity is supposed to be special and with someone special and 10 years when you look back on it, you don't want to regret it.
I hope this helped!
- Natalie :)
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reader, LilPixie +, writes (21 November 2010):
 I don't think it matters so much how long you've been together. What's important is that you feel ready and that at the time it feels right.
But to answer you question... I lost my virginity to my current boyfriend who I met over the internet... We first started talking end of November 2008, he asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend January 2009 to which I said yes even tho we hadn't actually met... He then came down to visit me in march (wasn't possible any earlier because of college for me and work for him) and we had sex during that first week. And it's now only about 2 months until our 2 year anniversary :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): i am 17 and i lost my virginity about 1 month ago to my boyfriend of 1 year and 2 months .we both wanted to wait till we thought it was time but everyone is differnt you are legal so it is just whenever you and him feel is the right time ..
just make sure he is the one for you
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