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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:im sorry if this is long i just reallyneed help and my friends just do notunderstand.Me and my crush got together overthe summer. He Walked down myhouse and asked me to be his girlfriend. I told him that it probablywouldnt work because my parentsare over protective but he he askedagain and i said yeah. He called meone over the summer and that was it.He is/was my first boyfriend. Andsince he had stopped talking to me ithought we were done.School started.Months went by and we didnt saytwo words to each other. Just arandom wave.Two weeks ago he called me and waslike can we hang out i madearrangements. Lied to my mom. Andhung out with him. We kissed (he isthe only guy ive ever kissed). Wecuddled. We had this deepconversation about sex. Im notreally ready for sex. He told me hewas a virgin and i was the only girlthat deserved his virginity. Im notattractive. Or anything so i reallydidnt believe him. But i basicallyknow its because i dont judge himHe contacts me every couple days.Late at night when im to sleepy toanswer his calls and he lives voicemails to call him anytime i want. Buthe really doesnt have a curfew andhe is never home when i do call. Idont know what is going on. Ive onlycalled him back twice and he wasnthome. his mom said both times that he was out with his friends. But i cant stop thinking abouthim.None of my friends like him. And hisfriends dont like interracialrelationship (he is white. Im black.We are both 17)pwease help me. Im tired of waitingup late at night for him to call. He was my crush for so long. Us being together was better in my head.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThx for replying.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (21 November 2010):
 You need to talk to him, if his friends are racist then he may very well be trying to keep you as a secret from them so he doesnt get the stick for it, mind you that is wrong he should stand up for what is right and allow these people to see that there is no difference between black and white people we are all equal, its about time the world saw that.
Ok so you need to talk to him, tell him that you cant always speak so late at night as you are tired, ask him where does he see the relationship going, because it sounds to me like he is not to bothered, tell him you like him but you cant just wait around for nothing to happen. Goodluck
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