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writes:Whenever I do it with my boyfriend I hurt and bleed. There's always enough foreplay that I am well-lubricated, but it always hurts. Any ideas?
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reader, tdntuck +, writes (22 November 2010):
 Maybe you're not as lubricated as you think you are or need to be and/or you're not relaxed enough. Supplement with lubricating jelly, breath deeply and let go of any anxiety and tension.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2010): ~You're not alone~
I have the same problem, because I have vaginismus and thick hymen. Perhaps this is the case with you and so you should be examined by a doctor.
Surgery can help and penal penetration can as well. However if you choose to go the penal penetration route, it will be a slower process per my doctor and your boyfriend needs to know of and be understanding. My doctor indicated that tearing, bleeding and pain will occur for a bit until your vagina adjusts itself to the size of your boyfriend's penis which could vary in time based on your boyfriend's penis size...the thing is you have to have penal penettation frequently once you start or you vagina will keep going back to point 1.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (21 November 2010):
 Either he's too big, too rough, or you are too tight.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): Maybe your just really tight, your bf should be able to say.
Maybe you should also go talk to your doctor as well just to check and put your mind by ease
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reader, fi_the_tree  +, writes (21 November 2010):
 Have you just recently lost your virginity? If you have then maybe it has something to do with that. Maybe your boyfriend is just simply being too rough (some men like it that way)
I suggest you go and see your doctor, they may be able to help you further. Good luck :)
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