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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I just want to know if there's anything that I can do or say that will get him at least making an EFFORT

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I just need a second opinion to make sure I'm not going mad. This is a question about my boyfriend and and my family. I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost two years. During which time my boyfriend has met my family about five times during the first year a... (204 words)

He's a great guy and I want to give him something that shows how much I care!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so ive been going out with my boyfriend for almost a month (he asked me out at homecoming how cute:)) and i have no idea what to get him for christmas!! well okay we are both freshmen and he wants to play football and baseball next year for our school. he is realy big in ... (180 words)

Can upper classman date freshies?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so there is this really awsome, sweet, cute guy that I like alot. But there is one thing...he is a freshman. Im a sophomore. I know this may sound dumb, but when I asked my friends if they would date a freshman they alll said no...But I would, Do you think it matters if an ... (64 words)

"We're too young to be in love." What do I make of THAT?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I told my boyfriend, who I've been dating for a little over 9 months that I'm in love with him (neither of us have ever said that before). I thought it would go over well and he would say it back, but it would have been okay if he didn't, but instead he kissed me on the cheek ... (148 words)

Desperate to have sex with older guy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

30 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - i am dating this 21 year old man. we have been together for about 8 months but it was in secret any ways most people know i am seeing him but there was a point when people called me a liar etc. they also said that he was to good for me. well i am asking ? do you thi... (128 words)

My best friend has cut me out of his life and I am heartbroken! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok to cut a long story short, me and my friend have been very close for 3 years, there has been laughter/heartbreak/anger/passion everything, I fell for him and he didn't feel the same so he stopped talking to me because he didn't want to hurt me, by this time I had met someone ... (225 words)

Does he like me or is just curious about me ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

30 November 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Okay so there's this guy in my history class that always stares at me when I look back at him I smile he doesn't smile back he just does a small nod or raises his eye brows . I'll continue working but then I'll see him watching me again sometimes he looks away or stares back . ... (107 words)

Is it normal to be really concerned about potentially catching an STD?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it normal to be very hesitant about dating new people because you don't want to get an STD? Everyone seems to not care and it makes me wonder if I'm worrying about it too much. However, I feel like most people would lie if it's convenient. I thought I knew my boyfriend well, ... (232 words)

I do love him a lot but am I a mug?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3553 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a long story lol.. Me and my boyfriend have been together for five years ( 6 Month break between) we have a 2 yr old daughter also. Anyways at first he was perfect but after aa while of him smoking drugs I ended with him an found someone knew ( which broke his heart)... (301 words)

What went wrong? Why his change of heart? Can I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently had a breakup with a guy I dated for 2 months. It was a short relationship, but everything seemed from the first date and so on. We went out every single week since we met each other. In each one of the dates we felt we had so many things in common, and always ... (333 words)

Women: do you want a bad guy or a good guy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, i am hopin someone can help me here, prefferably a female. I know a girl whom I am attracted to but she is not interested in me just want to be friends. i am a nice guy. steady job, supportive, relaitvely stable, kind, et cetera. But she doesnt like me. Who does she l... (136 words)

How can I overcompensate for my size?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a virgin stressing about the size of my penis. It's around 5.5 inchs long with 4.5 girth. I truly want to make love, show my affection, and give my first gf (she's not a virgin) the time of her life, but I feel that my penis may hold me back. Any tips on how to ... (81 words)

I don't know what should I do with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated this guy for a month and the very last night I saw him, we got together. I didn't think that I was jumpin in or rushing it in because, I saw him like twice a week every week for a month. Well the bottom line is that after that night(at the end of Oct) , We don't ... (203 words)

How can I ask her to the concert without flaking out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So there's a really cute girl who works at the gym at my university, i've had a crush on her for the past year but only recently (2 months) had the courage to get her name. we exchage small talk couple times a week whenever we see eachother no real conversations. i found out ... (120 words)

Is this going anywhere?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok this guy and I have known each other since we were little but not always been in contact. Anyway we have been out twice it all went really well and we were getting closer. However I think I might have mucked it up last time we went out coz I didnt hug him or anything before ... (188 words)

Sex toys: what is a dolphin ring?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, my bf said he'd like to use a dolphin ring? (i think) sex toy when we're in bed sometime...what is one of these?? he said he broke his last one!!... (31 words)

Did my shyness blow it with my crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a huge crush on a guy with me in college and it s been almost a year now and i know that he likes me too he really tried so many times to talk to me and i let him down everytime and just few weeks ago he came and sat next to me in the class and i just froze i didnt kn... (192 words)

She turned me down once but I think she wants me to ask again

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My friend's sister turned me down for a date after initially accepting a few days earlier. Anyway since then we've been out a lot in the same social circle and she's been sending some strong signals. She's kissed me on several occasions but always when drunk and at the end of t... (140 words)

I want to move out but don't want to break my mother's heart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I tell my mother I plan on moving out without breaking her heart? It's inevitable, isn't it? I just cannot stand her. 80% of the time she irritates me and 10% she's insulting, the other 10% she's funny. She's practically the only friend I have but I really do not tell ... (339 words)

I like bigger women and am having trouble dealing with it.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a thing for bigger women and i dont know how to deal with it. While Im not into the deal of larger women getting larger or "gaining" and not into the feeding thing, i definitely have an appreciation for plus-sized women, and am unsure if my thoughts concerning what i ... (699 words)

Married and feeling attracted to the 19-year-old I'm teaching karate to!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 33 year old male.(most people say i look 25). I am married for three years and she is 25. I have just gone back to uni. I recently started teaching a 19 year old woman karate privately. She is absolutely fantastic, and not your average student ( doesn't drink, plays an ... (130 words)

Why do you think he behaves this way?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello - Why do you think he behaves this way ? We dated for several months but ended last september. We never lost contact but definitely was less frequent. Anyway he always crossed the friendship line with those "I would like to be with you" comments. We saw each other af... (206 words)

I really want to have sex, but I don't want to rush into things!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with this guy a month now, and he's the best thing that has ever happened to me. he is lovely, caring and he is just a sweetheart. to celebrate our 1 month anniversary, we gave each hand jobs. it was great! but now i really want to have sex with him, bu... (107 words)

I'm 16 and in love with my 26 year old teacher!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

30 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - How do I approach this man before I graduate high school? I'm 16 and in love with my 26 year old teacher. I know you've all heard this before but im serious. I know what I want and that's a man. The boys at my school are way too immature and they remind me of my 13 year old b... (178 words)

Should I up my game and just say what's on my mind or just be patient?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so I know that as a girl, we should be chased. I have made no moves with this really shy guy, except instant messaging once in a while to him. He has called me twice (its wk 2 since we met in another country...so its long distance) he initiated things and called first but ... (248 words)

I have secretly been in love with my best friend's husband for 20 years.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have secretly been in love with my best friend's husband for 20 years. I have never told anyone this and I have never acted upon my feelings. Recently I felt that he may have feelings for me too! He hasn't directly told me so or made a pass at me but he has sent me an ... (293 words)

Help!!! I have a gut feeling that my boyfriend of 3 years is cheating.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a gut feeling that my boyfriend of 3 years is cheating. Lately he has been distant, says its more work related. We don't speak as much as we used to. Last week as we were texting he called me "Judy" my name is no where even close to that. I asked "who is Judy"? He rep... (146 words)

Under arm sweating problem!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i have two qustions to ask number 1 i have really shaky hands even when i am calm and warm my hands are there shaking constantly and when i am nervous my hands get very very shaky and i find it very embarrassing and i judt don't know what to do. Can anyone help me with ... (205 words)

Worried about these little black bits!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I really want to do things with this lad, but you know when a man shaves loads round their mouth? Well, "down there", has gone like that because ive shaved too much! Even when i shave it again you can see little black bits. What do i do?!... (48 words)

I'm completely devastated by the lack of communication me and my mother have.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I know this has nothing to do with dating issues etc. But I'm completely devastated by the lack of communication me and my mother have. Sure we get along every-time, laugh, agree on the same things.... but just that because when it comes to serious personal problems... (852 words)

My wife won't have sex with me any more...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age - No sex anymore My wife and I are in our early 60's and we are on really good terms but for some reason she will not indulge in any sexual activity with me. This has been going on for several years now and I am becoming more and more frustrated by the lack of sex. Frankly I h... (221 words)

I am not satisfied with my wife...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi i am 34 years of age married man from amravati, india. we have been together since 3 years. Why i dont know i am not happy with my married life. I alway think some thing is missing in my life. My wife doesn't understand my feeling and my fantasy for sexual raltion ship. she ... (83 words)

Who does he like more, me or his girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey umm I really like this guy... But he has a girlfriend, But everytime he is with me he cheats on his girfriend with me, He flirts with me, He kisses me I think he likes me... I can see the way he looks at me, I dont know who he likes more Me or his girlfriend, Or if hes just... (136 words)

He says he loves me but I have my doubts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - We've been married 21 years minus 4 year of separation. It was a terrible break. He got the teenagers to side with him and threw me out! Then our first born and only daughter died and I was shattered. I was so unstable that I needed someone and I just went to him as I don't ... (171 words)

What do I get my 38yr old boyfriend for Christmas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Any ideas on what to get my 38 year old boyfriend for Christmas? I was thinking maybe the Wii but I can't decide. Any advice?... (25 words)

Can someone who's cheated, have a healthy relationship with the person they cheated on?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Can someone who has cheated on their partner have a healthy relationship with the person they cheated on? Specifically if they never confess that they cheated to their partner? Can they marry that person and have a good, solid marriage, by withholding things that they did that... (62 words)

New boyfriend and his ex-issues, should he keep talking to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating about 6 months. He was on again off again with his ex and finally ended it for good in march. They were still in contact every day and she lives close. She doesn't like me at all and has been trying to get him back... writing him letters ... (311 words)

I found him a great gift, but how long is too long to wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a bit of a dilemma. It's not really a relationship question but I could use some different people's opinions. So, I just found out Batman Live is coming to my town in September 2011, so next year, and my boyfriend loves Batman. I thought I'd buy tickets for him for ... (152 words)

My parents want me to marry the man of their choice but I'm desperately in love with another!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am from a very orthodoox rich family of rajasthan.i am madly in love with a guy of different caste.first we tried to convince our parents for marriage.but as they came to knew about it they started threatning me that they will get the boy killed.i pleaded that i will live ... (153 words)

I'm only interested in being with her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i've read some stuff on here and i kind of relate to it. I have a girlfriend and we have been dating for 9 months now and everything is great and i love her to death. I know she's the one and we never fight. but when i'm not with her or she doesnt text me back within like ... (132 words)

He'd rather touch himself than touch me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I dont know where to start or if my marriage is too far gone. He has informed me that he would rather masterbate to porn than to touch me. We do not have a very active sex life and he has always stated it was because of his depression. I find out recently that he has been ... (196 words)

What's your take on this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age - My common law spouse works for an organization which he was a manager and is now working in another department which is up there in the ranking. One day I went on the computer and he had left his yahoo open. He was receiving work e-mail through his yahoo account. Well, I found ... (258 words)

My boyfriend loves the attention, should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The first encounter which lead me to believe I have something to worry about is when he was at his brother's house and they were there.He was talking to me and he told me to hold on.They were talking about the fact that he has my name tattooed on him and what if he cheats on ... (625 words)

In love after three days???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i went for holiday for 1 week .. and i meet one guy .. we have fun and went out for a drink all the time after that 3 days pass he told me he loves me .. and he wants to marry me .. do i need to belive it ?.. cos for me love is not for just in 3 days ...any advise pls ... (69 words)

I couldn't have got pregnant from this, right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really worried... Last night, my boyfriend and I were messing around. While he was fingering me, I touched his penis... but as far as i can remember, I didn't felt anything wet on his package. after touching his penis, i touched his body and his head because of the tingling ... (113 words)

My ex girlfriend has left me for another guy but I still love her, is there any chance of winning her back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4392 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there all. This is my first major break up, my girlfriend of 3 years recently went to university, i was seeing her every weekend, in till during the week she broke up with me and got with another guy. The way she did it was so awful, i didnt deserve that, I feel like ... (141 words)

Am I paranoid or is my wife cheating on me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I am trying to figure out if I am paranoid or if my wife might be cheating on me. We have been married 12 years and have two young children. We recently relocated for her job and I quit mine to stay home with the children. She has lost a good deal of weight, bought n... (261 words)

Should I be moving on, or should I continue chasing her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, this is my first time posting qns here... Anyway, there is this girl I like, and she already knew since i had told her. and it seems that she has been giving me several signal that she likes me as well. The problems is that she have several commitments going on. Becaus... (339 words)

One day he said he would love me forever, the next day he hates me and has found a new partner!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age - I Was in a relationship for 6 years on and off for a year because another person they went with we got back together 2 years now we became partners a month ago a week later they text me they dont love me and is with another person already! how can someone promises to god vows ... (72 words)

Where do I go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy we will call him ...... bill. i met him a while ago but we started to hangout again here a few weeks ago. Were always together but me him and his best friend and one of my friends all got drunk together the other night. I really like bills friend and me and bill ... (157 words)

In love with two women!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I never thought I would go through this, especially not now, but I'm in love with two people, two women. I met this wonderful girl a couple of months ago, we see each other almost everyday and it's always great. I trust her completely and she trusts me. I just told her I loved ... (182 words)

I'm not happy with my boyfriend and have feelings for his best friend, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I like my boyfriends friend and I don't know what to do? So here it goes this story may be long, crazy and strange. and please don't be rude believe me i already feel weird enough... okay so i have been with my bf for 2yrs (we will call him bob) and i've known my bf's frie... (236 words)

I feel like my life has fallen apart and I feel very alone......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Where to start? Well have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 yrs. We have a child together, she is 15 mos old (I am stay at home mom). It seems every 3-4 months we get into a big fight, where he says he is unhappy. This last fight I had it, if he is so unhappy, I will mov... (338 words)

What is with his kisses?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi my boyfriend and i have been together for 2years and everytime we kiss he always just pek kisses me why is that?... (23 words)

Is he going to marry me? Or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help! My boyfriend of one year seems unsure if he wants to marry me. This really hurts me because at this pont am ready to be married to him. He used to be so sure about getting married--but lately he said.. we didnt get along so well that he wants to make sure that we ... (232 words)

Why am I hurting so much?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hey, I was in a relationship for about a year with a guy that i believed in my heart was the one. we got together and things were good for a few months then i started to feel like he was scolding me like a child, when he would hurt my feelings by something he said and i told ... (387 words)

How do you stop thinking about what your ex is up to, and eradicate resentful feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my ex-boyfriend a few months ago, and I'm moving on and stuff. We are not in contact and I've accepted that and I'm just moving on with my life. One problem is that now and again I have thoughts which crop up and bother me: I think of him with other girl... (253 words)

How should I ask this girl out? Respond quickly!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I need help fast. I'm planning on asking this girl out this afternoon. She works at a restaurant deli where you pay at the counter, and she is usually the one taking the money. She's absolutely amazing and I'm praying to any God I can that she'll say yes! Ive gotten loads of ... (156 words)

How can I get our relationship back on track?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and I got my first boyfriend a year and a half ago. We're still together, but recently he's been acting differently around me. I feel like now he doesn't care about me at all. He started acting differently when his brother died a couple of months ago, which i totally ... (258 words)

How do I get her to slow down in bed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - So I'm with this gorgeous woman for a little over a year. We are both very sexual, but she is the first new partner I've been with in a while. The problem I am having is I don't orgasm quickly with her, and in fact, I don't feel like sex with her physically stimulates me in ... (427 words)

My girlfriend has been slowly distancing herself from me, what should I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Im getting conflicting messages from my girlfriend. We have been together for 4 years and for past 3 she has slowly, bit by bit, distanced herself from me. She tells me she loves me, but only when I ask. However her body language tells me something else. When I go to tou... (107 words)

I eat less than my boyfriend and exercise more, so why am I the one gaining weight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I eat less (including less unhealthy stuff) and exercise more than my boyfriend, but I am getting fat and he isn't at all! Why? It's making me insecure!! ... (28 words)

Is it wrong to feel tempted by the opposite sex when you are in a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it right to get attracted to a member of the opposite sex even though you are in a relationship that is going well? And when this happens...is it wrong to feel tempted? ... (33 words)

Is it my fault that he has not spoke to me since our date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I wenr on date with a 21 year old (Im 17). We met over the internet. The date didn't go as I planned. i was nervous but we held hands. He was nice and sweet, opened the car door for me and paid for my movie ticket. That night, he told me he was happy his ex dumped him because ... (133 words)

I keep finding texts on my husbands phone, am I flogging a dead horse here or should I try and make this work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - three weeks ago i found some texts on my husbands phone (he had been out drinking all night with his mates again, and obviously got careless and forgot to delete them) they were not text that i would send to just a friend. "I would give anything to be snuggled up in bed with ... (392 words)

Why haven't I met her yet? I'm almost 31 and tired of waiting!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, I havent dated for a year now since I broke up with my gf. She wasnt the one for me.She even called me mental.I just need a gf thats understanding and doesnt talk so much.I'm just wondering if I'll ever find because I dont know any friends to hook me with that person.I ... (88 words)

For girls, what's your taste in guys?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I know every girl has diffrent taste in guys but these are just a few questions I can think of off the top of my head that I want to know the answer to 1.Do girls like guys with long hair? 2.Do girls like guys who call them babe or baby? (I don't do this, I don't know why ... (112 words)

What is he thinking/doing? We are only casually dating but I have not heard from him in days!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Right, advice again please.... I have been seeing this guy for about three and a half months. At the start, we had a chat, and we both said that neither of us wanted serious relationships as we had both just come out of relationships. So we have been 'dating' for wan... (377 words)

Is it fair to request that he deletes his ex-girlfriend's phone number?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My fiancee has an ex that he shares a long history with. They were off and on for years and he cheated on one of his girlfriends twice with her as well. It was about 5 years ago, and the girl he cheated on was crazy and he wasn't in love with her. Him and I have talked ab... (260 words)

Does my best friend fancy me like I fancy her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I'm gonna' be straight up and say I'm in love with my best friend. I can't stop thinking about her it's driving me nuts. We've been best of friends for about 2 years. When we met we hit it off straight away. After about a year I told her I fancied her. But she told me she ... (485 words)

Unexpected father of a lesbian daughter. How do I deal with this?

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30 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 28-year-old single, straight, male, who is now a stay at home dad to a 14 year old girl, my niece, who was left with me when my sister and brother-in-law died 2 months ago in a car accident. The first month was definitely awkward as I have never had a roommate, or ... (240 words)

Has anyone got any good pickup lines?

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30 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - there is a girl who i have a crush on but i dont know what to say to her when i ask her out, any good pickup lines?... (28 words)

I cant deal with her anymore! What should I do?

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30 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there my girlfriend and I have been living together for three months, and in this period of time our relationship has fallen apart. I want to move out, but I feel that will wreak havoc on my schoolwork and that I will have to finish the lease and therefore be unable to pay ... (347 words)

My friend is so boring!

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you think of quiet people.? My friend is way too quiet!, but it's like sometimes she will just sit there and say nothing at all. She will talk for a little bit then she would shut up. When others see her sometimes she just gives them a simple smile or say hello and ask ... (141 words)

He broke up with me because he thinks he was a bad boyfriend! What should I do now?

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend broke up with me because he said he was a bad boyfriend and he did everything wrong? erm a couple of months ago our relationship was a little rough because he cheated on me and was texting other girls, i got fed up of it and he got fed up of apprently doing ... (228 words)

How do I get the friendship with my cousin back?

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30 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i’m a male, i love my female cousin very very very much,i like her with no bounds.We are of the same age. We had a sweet romantic relation and also an immensely strong friendship from 9 yrs of age.Then when i was 12 yrs old i got an accident and my life got slipped.I lost man... (150 words)

When did I conceive?

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need to work ou the date i concieved i had sex on 15th 17th and 20th Novemeber the 1st day of my period was 1st November and my cycle varies from 31 days to 36 is there any way of knowing?... (44 words)

Is it right to have sex with my girlfriend?

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30 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 17 years old male!my girlfriend live in my country but im studying in Canada.i wanna have sex with my girlfriend in this year when i wanna go back to my country but my girlfriend is virgin and I dont know that is it right to have sex with her or no?... (52 words)

I feel doomed to a very lonely sex life at 36!

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have the most thoughtful and loving partner i've ever had (Except in the bedroom). We've been together 2 years now and it's gotten worse. He's 34 and does a very physical job for a living, has a long drive there and back and does get up very early, so i can appreciate he is ... (186 words)

I'm worried I might be losing my hair at 17!

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30 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 17 year old of afraid losing my hair, i started to notice that on my receding hairlines i see some thin spots but some times they grow back and fall out again ,is that a bad sign ? I asked my mother about that and she said that everybody loses hair on that spot but it ... (321 words)

I have an issue with cum!

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I honestly do not like cum. If i look at it, taste, feel or even think about it too much, i gag and feel like i'm going to vomit. I've always pushed past this feeling of nausea, and just dealt with it, i've pretended that it didn't bother me. But it just gets worse. I told my ... (257 words)

What's the best thing to do?

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi guys can anyone tell me how to sort this out ? ive worked with a guy for over a year im really fond of him and we were very close friends. he was in a bad way when i met him and viewing him as a good friend i did all i could to help him. i helped him financially and ... (209 words)

Why has our sex life become so bad? I know he isnt cheating, so what could it be?

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Help! I have been dating my boyfriend for two years and our sex life has become non-existant. It started a year ago when I realized he was never going to go down on me, despite the fact that I give him fanastic BJs everytime. (Really - I could suck the nails out of a board and ... (407 words)

What have I done to deserve the cold shoulder?

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my bf for 3.5 years and have been living together for 2.5 years everything was going well until out of the blue he told me he didn't love me anymore. When this happened i felt lost i didn't know where our future was going. He then said he didn't mean it a few ... (358 words)

Why doesn't my new partner want to see my ex wife's child when I raised him as my own for 8 years?

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30 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - i am wondering if any one can explain why my new partner doesnt want me to see my ex wifes child even though i bought him up for 8 years since was one and he is my sons half brother ? confused... (42 words)

We've been rather distant recently, I'm worried I might lose her!

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30 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone I'm new to this whole asking questions about relationships and stuff kind of. But yeah anyway there's this girl I met online from las vegas and I'm from chicago. we met while I was in highschool my freshman year and we've been friends since then I'm in college n... (141 words)

He only seems to talk about sex and forgets important dates, am I right to doubt him?

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am in wierd situation i am in an affair from past 2 years but we are not been on any date together from 2 years as my boyfriend stays abroad and nowhe is coming to india .he has a plan to meet but still i am not sure he love me or not because he always forget important... (188 words)

Bonding with my partner's 3 year old son?

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30 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this woman, whom has a 3 year old son. I invited her to have a nice pic-nic at a park with her in attempt to bond with him a little. How ever I'm not quite sure what would be some good games for us to play with him, let alone fun ideas on how to act with ... (65 words)

Now that I'm knocked up, he's nowhere to be found!

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I Am 6 months pregnant by a man i've been with for years. We had the perfect relationship before the baby,(so it seemed) but now NOTHINGS the same. Im finding out things now he did when we were together. He ignores me constantly and even broke it off wit me after all this time, ... (120 words)

Is he using me or her?

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my ex and i are split up for about 7 month now. He go a new girlfriend that stays with him. But call me in the night, wanting me to go to his place when she is not there, we still sleep together is he using me or her? I still love him what do i do? ... (57 words)

Should I invite my enemy to lunch?

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there is this woman at work who invent s things against me and what not. accused me of screwing her husband and always spreads bad rumors about me though everyone I talk to does not like her. I wondered if I should simply invite her out to see what her deal is to smooth ... (148 words)

How do I learn to be ok with this? My partner wants to become a woman!

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have been dating for about a year and a half. serious for about 10 months. we live together and he gave me a promise ring because neither one of us is ready to get married but we are committed to each other. he is very sexual and that has never been a problem ... (363 words)

How bad is the occasional kiss when you are married?

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My situation.... I have been in a committed relationship for four years, married for the past two. I adore my husband - he is everything that I could possibly ask for in a partner, but I cannot seem to keep myself in check when it comes to other men. I love the thri... (226 words)

Does she miss me? Does she just want to be friends? What is going on?

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30 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So, I was dating this girl during the summer. She's 2 years younger than I am, but we had a lot of fun together. I was serious about dating her, even though it was never "official." Anyways, we ended up having Her First Kiss. A few days later, she talked to me about breaking ... (510 words)

While we were on a break she kissed another guy, and now she wants me to be friends with him!

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30 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I Really, Really need help and advice here! So here is my problem: my girlfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now and during that time we separated for a month. We had been having some problems and she decided we needed time to clear our minds. During that time, ... (453 words)

Is it really that bad to explore someone's sexuality even if its only been 2 months and considering my age?

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, Im a 24 year old woman, Im still a virgin. Ive been with a 29 yr old boyfriend for two months, hes been good to me so far. Ive had already had other boyfriends before, we made out but never went far 'cuz I didnt want to. I love making out with my current man, and things ... (252 words)

I'm scared to break his heart, I'm the only person he trusts!

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months, he is madly in love with me but i just have never felt the spark in the relationship. its a secret from my parents and is just too hard trying to find ways around them and im sick of disappointing him when i cant hang out. hes ... (101 words)

How am I supposed to act when I've traveled 1,200 miles just to get rejected?

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30 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Well I met this girl on facebook and we started chatting casually. We were truely interested in each other. We talked and texted on the phone with alot of pictures for a couple months and so I decided to make the trip over this thanksgiving holiday to met this gal. She seemed ... (132 words)

I cant stand the idea of not being with him, but then again I know deep down it is the right thing to end it.....

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a confused state. I've been with this guy for two years. Our relationship has been far from fairy tale, but we made each other happy. So we've been in a long distance relationship for the past 8 months. Its been really hard. He questions me all the time, our trust ... (353 words)

He's got all these girls falling at his feet, should I admit how I feel?

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, i just need some advice. So basically my best guy friend and I have been close for about 9 years. We both study at different universities, so we don’t get to see each other much but since he’s come back I really don’t know what to do. Over the past 8 months i have had... (160 words)

I feel like I'm the glue that holds this family together!

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30 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So how do I start this out. This is a family issue, not mine but my parents and brother. I've been living with my older brother and parents well since I was born anyway. It's a long story, and I will try to keep it short and right to the point. My dad is how you say hat... (1029 words)

My fiance and I have been fighting since day 1!

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my fiance for 2 years. we have been fighting for our relationship from the start. our parents dont approve because of religious differences and my friends thought it was a rebelion against my parents. 3 months into our relationship he cheated on me. it was only ... (201 words)

Why did my married lover walk away from me? There are so many questions left unanswered!

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm newbie here. Anyways, I just wanted to share my story, a story which I held it for a long time since I don't have no one to talk to..This is gonna be a long one, but i'll try to make it short as much as I can. I hope you guys will understand and I was hoping someone ... (915 words)

24 reasons of why I should break up with him?

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so I've listed the things my ex has done during our 6 month relationship. What would others say/do in response to this kind of behaviour? 1. Leaving me outside in the cold waiting for him while he continued to drink with mates and ignore me. 2. Repeatedly saying he’d... (526 words)

Is it possible people are shying away from me because of my stress and anxiety?

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30 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 29 year old single guy. I have been suffering from depression for last 8 years. I feel extremely anxious at workplace and cannot concentrate on work. I generally avoid contact with people and i want to stay way from them. Same thing happens when people see me, they shy ... (104 words)

24 years is too big of an age gap for him!

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is age gap the real problem? I met someone online and we chatted for a few months and he visited me in my place. We started to date and I decided to stay in his place so I won't have a hard time going to work in the morning. We had great sex and we like each other. But he is... (170 words)

Engagement ring for Christmas..good or bad idea?

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30 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So I am considering giving my lady an engagement ring for christmas, is this a good or a bad idea. I am sure she will say yes, but didn't know if this was an acceptable gift or not. If I do, I will wrap the ring box, and inside the box put a little note saying something... (94 words)

My wife asked me to let her sleep with other men, but doesn't want to let me sleep with other women!

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30 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, So my wife and I have been married for almost 3 years. It's a very good relationship, we are quite open with eachother, we don't hide things and almost never argue. our sex is, I would say, above average... not too much but not too little either. I have has a few partners ... (330 words)

Why is it so bad someone my age has sex?

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I was thinking today, why is it so bad someone my age has sex? I assure you I haven't but I was talking to my mom and she said as long as you are responsible(using multiple forms of birth control) and had sex with someone you trusted and knew you were ready to have sex then ... (140 words)

I'm entitled to explore my sexuality but I don't want my boyfriend to join in!

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend who I love, but.... I've always wanted to try being with a girl. It's something I want to do on my own, so would it be terrible of me to do this and tell him afterwards? I came close to doing it last year when I first entered college but was too nervous. ... (111 words)

Uh, just ask me out already!

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I've liked this guy for months now, and I'm positive he likes me back. We have a few classes together and the same extra curriculars, and we're pretty good friends. Here's why I think he likes me: I always seem to catch him staring at me. He voluntarily sits next to me ... (203 words)

Ladies, what turns you on?

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30 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend just got back from California and I kind of wanted to make her feel good about being back. i also wanted to turn a small welcome back kiss, into... something more. I guess I'm asking for a list of things that would turn you on...... (47 words)

Feelings or no feelings?

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex split up over 2 months ago due to some BS. I love this guy so much and would do anything to have him back, but i told my self to just let him go if he comes back its ment to be. Well i was doing so good not contacting him or anything. The other night i went to the ... (315 words)

We broke up then got back together, will things ever be the same again?

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating or about 5 months. We see each other and I stay over his apartment on the weekends but for the past couple of weeks, we haven't been going out to actually do things and get to know each other like we use to when we first started. He works ... (882 words)

Girls, what turns you off?

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30 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Girls what is a major turn off about a guy? Is it appearance? Smell? What?... (18 words)

My curfew is causing problems!

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What is going on? Should I break up with him? We have been dating for nearly 5 months. I don't want to say that our relationship is perfect but we hadn't been through any dramas or fights. He is a year older than me, much more mature but has a hint of recklessness in ... (573 words)

Why is this guy so mean to me?

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a tennis class with him and every time I do something, he criticizes me. I barely even talk to him! I don't even GLANCE in his direction. I'd walk around with my tennis racket, he'd call me a loser. I'd hug my friend and he'd call me gay. I'd do something, he'd calls me ... (140 words)

I want to surprise him with some risque photos...just worried he won't find me hot! Help!

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so recently I have been seeing this guy..who I really like :) which is awesome and finally I think Im ready for the serious relationship, etc. He's more experienced then me, he's older.. expected. I have been taking it slow but the other night he started sending me sexual ... (107 words)

Majorly confused with my sexual orientation! Please help!

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm sure you get these questions alot...but I'm really confused with what my sexual orientation is! I know I am bisexual..I came out at 13 years old..and my parents said they already knew..years have passed, and I am now 18...and more confused than ever... I've been with... (194 words)

She doesn't want me because I was bi-curious a long time ago! Advice?

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30 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so me and my gf were together for a year and a half and we had a baby together. We broke up for about six months because we didnt trust each other and just recently got back together. Well things were going great till i found out she was lying to me about talking to the guy ... (274 words)

My roomate's suggestion makes me really uncomfortable! How do I deal with this?

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I have a random question not related to love. My roommate has a boyfriend and she has asked me if he could stay in the room with us (she said they would not do anything.) At first I told her I was ok with it, but then I told her honestly it makes me uncomfortable. Recently ... (110 words)

Confused about all his "I loves you"..something just isn't right here!

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Basically I started dating this guy about 4 months ago offically. We were talking alot before he asked me. At first i wasnt really into him but i liked talking to him alot sometimes. I really felt he was more into me than i was into him and id blow him off sometimes not because ... (795 words)

Is he just being nice to me, trying to not hurt my feelings by playing along until he has to leave?

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30 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This will be long so please bear with me. I am very confused about this situation and I just want to see the 360 without people being biased. I have had a crush on this guy for close to 10 months. He is older than me and graduated from the same school I am attending. At fi... (1640 words)