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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I met this girl on-line, we flirted and then arranged to meet. She got cold feet and told me to leave her alone so I did. 6 weeks later she comes back into my life apologising for the way she treated me and she'd got in some trouble. We got talking and she was in a hard place, I gave her money and we met a month later, it was fantastic, but I guess after she'd messed me around before and I'd been hurt in the past I was reluctant to be her girlfriend. We continued meeting and she told me she loved me. I wanted to say it back but I was too scared. We were happy, I took her places, she said no-one had ever treated her so well and I was the one. I really believed she was too. A year and a half later she changed, got impatient, changed her whole personality, she never drank but started, was careful with money but started making big purchases. I tried to support her but when I suggested she went to the doctors about her depression she became angry with me. She said she needed time, space and I did my best to give it but realising I might lose her made me realise how I felt. I told her I was falling for her and she said she'd always wanted to hear that and decided we could try again, only to change her mind a few days later. She told me she didn't want to be with me so out of anger I told her I was going on a date with someone who actually cared. She was furious so I cancelled the date and said she'd probably never forgive me now. She said never say never. It's been a few months now and we've barely spoke, I told her I love her and all I wanted to do was look in her eyes and tell her but she didn't reply about me visiting. She sent me a text saying she's met someone, someone who isn't afraid to say how they feel and who is affectionate (I was always affectionate). I miss her so much but I told her I'd met someone else because I don't want her to think I'm moping around, waiting for her.I also apologised for never telling her how I truly felt. I feel she is the one but I let me fear get in the way. Should I keep hope in my heart that if we're really meant to be then she'll come back? She came back to me once after all. I'm not really sure where to go now? Thanks for reading
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