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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I like this boy in my class for 3 years now. It's not until this year I started to notice that he stares at me. Even my friend realizes this to and she only knows I like him because she kept asking me and I kept saying no and my facial expression showed it all. Well in class time, I felt someone looking at me. Everyone was quiet and listening to the teacher but I had to turn my head just a bit to see and BOOM a smack on the face. He was looking at me like he was in those staring modes cause I knew he was looking for a while. I got nervous that I pretended to look at my friend quickly next to me and he still did not move or look away. But I have blurry eyes so maybe he was looking at something else. So at the end of class my friend actually told me he was looking at me and he only looked s away cause my friend saw she was looking at me. This was before she realized I liked him. So this type of situation happen numerous times with intense staring and it makes me feel uncomfortable and my friends have saw him staring. Well the thing is all who does is stare and he is pretty popular in class he talks with the girls and boys in the class except for me and my friends. Like he is not really close to us as he has his own friends/ groups and at our class we all have different friend groups. So I know that he is not shy, though why stare and ignore me. We have never really talked to each other like a proper conversation. When he gets the chance to sit next to me he doesn't he sits on the other side of the room. So does he like me because all he does is stare at me and I like him too and I stare at him. But sometimes I feel like he only stares at me because I am staring at him you know he might know I Like him so he feels weird. So do you ever stare at someone if you know they like you, but you don't like them or do you ignore it since you feel uncomfortable because I think this is what he is doing. And no I'm not ugly if he keeps looking at me. I wish he told me he likes me but I think he is to scared or shy I don't know maybe he doesn't want to make his friends making fun of him. Also I heard he never had a girlfriend before and I have not had a boyfriend either.
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (21 November 2010):
 It's impossible for us (random strangers) to know whether he was staring or not... but regardless of whether he was or not here's something to think about...
It's not the guys "duty" to initiate conversation... so ya can't whinge that he hasn't talked to you if you haven't tried talking to him yourself... There really is absolutely no way for us to know whether he is interested or not, so why not intentionally enter class after he has and sit next to him? It'll give you a chance to make small chat and gauge his intentions better...
Goodluck :)
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