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female
age
41-50,
*lupony
writes:I posted a while ago about a situation involving a professor who was interested in me last fall but I think I inadvertently gave him the idea that I wasn't interested. I am in his class again and at first he was treating me badly. He seems to be a little nicer now but I'm still attracted to him. The problem is that he seems to be flirting w someone else in he class now who ironically sits where i ddid when he flirted w me. I don't understand it. Is he just a flake? I am a non traditional student who looks young and i do not think he knows my age but i have thought maybe he does and thaat's why he's not interested anymore. I can't bear watchimg him with her. I would really like another opportunity. Im really shy and I sometimes get the impression there's something and others,nothing at all. I still have strong feelings. What can I do? Why shouldn't he still be attracted to me when honestly she is no supermodel?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (17 November 2010):
 It sounds to me like he is a serial flirt, when he gets her interested in him he will probably give up and move on to another student because at the end of the day he knows he cant do anymore than flirt with a student no matter what age they are because it is frowned upon in education even if his student was 80! He would still get sacked and lose his job so he is only having a bit of fun with students but my bet is he wont over step the line because he enjoys the attention he gets from flirting.
Sorry am sure that is not what you wanted to hear, not many girls would but you need to try and forget this man, i do realise that this will be difficult because you have to see him in lessons but just try and see him for what he is a sleezeball who is there to teach you and nothing else, go out with your friends and flirt with guys and look for one who will treat you with respect and treat you the way you should be treated, goodluck.
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