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writes:I have been married to my husband for almost 3 years and we have an 8 months old baby and we are expecting our second. We are also building a new home while taking care of our business. With this being said my husband is now saying that he is unhappy but can't tell me anything that I need to work on. He says I do everything i should. I don't know what I can do in this marriage to make it like it once was. I don't want to lose what we once had. I dont know how to fix this. Any suggestions?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Ahnya +, writes (17 November 2010):
Maybe his being unhappy is not related to you in particular. It could be that he is stressed with life in general, and maybe he feels like he is not growing as a person anymore?
It's just an idea, but I know my partner starts to become unhappy when he feels like he is not progressing in something. With a baby, one on the way, building a house, and running a business, that's a lot of stress.
You could suggest he take a few hours to spend for himself? (like a hobby he used to have or something running, gym, hiking, or whatever his interests are)
There could be a multitude of reasons why he is unhappy that may or may not be due to you or your marriage. Why is he unhappy? Can he tell you? If he says it's not you, then does he know what it is? If he can't give you a reason why he's unhappy, the best you can do is give him some time to figure out what's wrong.
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