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Continue on the path to being single, or pick between these two guys?

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Question - (17 November 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 November 2010)
A female Australia age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I'm sort of feeling a bit stuck and would appreciate any thoughts.

For the past few months, I've been sort of seeing someone. We've texted alot, hung out with friends and more alone time. And a few weeks ago, we spent the night together for the first time. But the problem is the communication between us, as we haven't actually spoken about our situation and I feel as if we're not "moving forward" and I don't know if this is either just a hook up or if there is actually potential but I don't know when it would be appropriate to ask him. I am wondering if I may be starting to lose interest as well.

For a couple of months, I have wanted to have a relationship but now I think I'm starting to enjoy being single more because of the independence etc which I think is why I may be starting to lose interest in this guy. Plus, I haven't had a proper in nearly two years and have been use to being single.

Also, a few weeks ago at a party I met someone else and we had a really interesting, deep conversations which get you thinking. He was a nice guy and asked for my number and got in touch if I wanted to hang out sometime.

I feel that with this other guy that we haven't shared this kind of thing and opened up as much and I'm really not sure what to do.

What should I do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2010):

Forget them both and enjoy the single life no hassles or drama,thats exactly what i did and life is just great

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