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writes: we were always together;we take same class, go on breaks together, and eat together at break time... she walks up to me today...she... Deon...me ... ya whats supshe... you know your actually my best friend in this campus...me... really! your also my best friendshe... i have a secret to tell you...me... not interested if it doesnt involve me.. (just messing around)she... ok... but am going to tell you anyways.. i really like this boy, at school here, but i dont know how to approach him.. and tell him i liked him..me... wow! (deeply sad about the information she just told me) ok who is the boy.. the boy use to hang out with us... but he also have another girl he follows around most of the time.. but they are not dating.. she... if not for our religious background, i would have like to move thing further between us. but i dont want to play games with you Deon..me... stunned by the news, i managed to say "but i really like you" she... "just smiled" i really dont know what to do.. still chase after her, and really confess to her? or just let the conversation we had today be it... for us.. and let her chase after this guy..
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys for the response...
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (17 November 2010):
 I think she already knows you like her dude. If she's serious about religious differences then I wouldn't chase her if I were you.
If that's a deal-breaker for her then there really is nothing you can do about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2010): Continue to persue her, but not in such a way that you are suffocating her! Maybe give her the space to explore her feelings for this other person, but stay in touch with her. Stay good friends and be there for her when she needs you. Do not let it get to the point where you feel you are being strung along though. If you have a gut feeling that she is over you and has moved on to this new person then bail out quick so you dont get hurt more. If you have a history together she will come back to you if things dont go as planned with her new fling. Dont put all your eggs in one basket though, do not be afraid to persue another relationship yourself if you find someone else. Best of luck!
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