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writes:My boyfriend and i got into a huge fight couple days ago. he was at a night club with his best friend,i went there look for him.and he introduced me to some of the girls he just met which i was totall ok about it. then all the sudden he said he has to go talk to those girls and left me alone with his friend. so his best friend asked me to dance with him.i said ok,we were just dancing no touching.then my boyfriend saw it got so pissed off,he was yelling at me in front of everybody and left. i didn't chase after him because his best friend told me he was ok just being jealuos and asked me to trust him. my phone was dead,i can't find him and i was worried,so i asked his best friend to call him and he told me his phone was powered off. so i went home and got very nasty messages from his called me a whore and F**K me and F**K my whole family and then keep calling me and screaming and yelling at me all those bad words. he said i was intentionally to hurt him and embrass him in front of his friends. did I do anything wrong? how can somebody who claimed love you very much say hurtful things.and it's not the first time he did this to me,i broken up with him the first time he called me an Ass***e,then i took him back.what should i do now? help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2010): Time to move on. This is irrational and not reasonable behavior.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2010): So he thinks its ok for him to talk to a bunch of girls he doesn't even know, but when you dance with a guy-who isn't a complete stranger-he flips out?
No way could I stand for that. It isn't the sign of a healthy, balanced relationship when a guy gets like that over something so small. Esepcially since you were only alone because he left you, his gf, to go and talk to girls he doesn't even know.
You took him back once he probably thinks you'd do it again, but I personally I wouldn't stand for someone like that I would say its over and mean it. If he doesn't have a probalem talking to girls he can go have any one of them.
Find yourself a guy that respects you and treats you like an equal, not like an item that belongs to him and him alone.
Good luck in whatever happens x
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