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writes:errr, first time using this, but i thought i might as well try ;//-//;Alright, so just to clear this up, yes I am bisexual.So, there's this one girl that I like alot, and I've liked her for almost a year now. I've already told her I liked her (turns out she liked me too!) , but, we never really did anything with it. After we told eachother, it was just like a confession, nothing after it. I guess that makes sense, considering she's now In high school, and I'm still stuck in middle school. (I had to tell her over the computer dsbfslhbfg-)Anyways, Recently, I've figured out that something, I have no idea what, happened to all these feelings I had for that girl. They just kind of...left. I don't like her as strongly as I did. I'm kind of scared to say this... but I think that I'm starting to like someone else. God, I feel like such an idiot for doing something like that ;-;So, this person that I've started to like already knows that I'm bi (and I already told them I liked that other girl ;///;). This person I started to like has been my friend for almost 4 years, and I'm afraid If I tell her, she'll think I'm a total idiot (whichiam ;-;)So, should I tell this person that I like them? Or should I just try to throw my feelings out the window (lolwat)Sorry, that was extremely long ;-; Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2010): Personally, I don't think there's anything wrong with having developing feelings for two people. (But it is a problem for when your taken because at that your point the relationship ought to be a commitment and priority.)
Anyways, I think you should just try to figure who you'd be happier with at this point. Try spending time with both of them or something so you can be more decisive about who you truly like.
On a less related note, I've been in a similar situation, except I was the girl who who went into High School while the girl I liked was still in Middle School. We both admitted we liked each other but never acted on it either; my reasons being that I had no idea where to go on from there and kind of just dropped my dating interests while adjusting to the High School I was going to. It wasn't that I didn't like her a lot, I just let time slip off and eventually felt even more confused on what to do, because I figured she lost interest in me during the time we lost some contact. Maybe the girl you had mutual feelings for is going through similar?
As for the other girl, because you've been friends for a while, try to figure out her sexuality by bringing up small talk that involves preferences and maybe you'll find something out.
Best of wishes!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (17 November 2010):
 Ok well if you have been friends with this girl for quite a long time then am guessing that you are both quite close, is this girl bisexual as well? If she is then go for it tell her, you have nothing to lose. On the other hand if she is not bisexual then you need to look at it like it could be quite awkward for her to take this news therefore it would probably be better if you just accepted her as a very close friend and nothing more, goodluck.
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