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*ellyKayy
writes:My sort of ex-fiance, my first love, and I are very.. i need help. Not long after I gave him my virginity, 6days after to be exact, he asked me for a break. About a couple weeks after that, I learned I may be pregnant, and I talked to him about it because he and I are close even if we are not together. After he learned I may be pregnant, he wanted to stick around, he wasn't asking for me back, but he just was sticking around. After awhile, I learned he had a gf. He asked for a pic of my belly though, and he kinda.. i don't know how to describe his reaction. But he said he was gonna tell his gf and he didn't care if she left. He's trying to be here for me. I admit that. But I don't know if I just want him to stick around only for the baby. I love him, but I don't want to feel like he thinks he has to stay. What do i do?
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (17 November 2010):
 MAY be pregnant?? What are you basing that on? Late period or doctors opinion?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2010): ok so are you prego? If you are he does need to stick around. at least to be a father, doesnt mean you have to be in a relationship. Dont force a relationship for the baby, its not healthy. Just co-parent together and you said you guys have a good relationship even if you are not BF and GF. So Let it be that, but he does need to be a father.
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reader, Lukey09  +, writes (17 November 2010):
 Give the guy a break, sounds to me like hes a decent fella, just concentrate on your pregnancy and health and what ever happens with your romance is a bonus
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