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writes: i really need help! recently me and my gf had a fight and she said i cheated on her when i never did. she believes all the lies she says to herself i had a female friend whom i'd talk to quite often but feelings were only mutual. my gf told me if i loved her i'd stop talking to my friend so i did. but since then my friend has tried to contact me only once but never answered and i had saved a google number for my gf's phone but had forgot about it. my gf then looked through my phone seeing the number and thought it was my friends number but the area code was way different from my friends number than the google number but for some reason my gf guessed my friends area code and got mad at me because she thought i was talking to my friend behind her back but i wasn't. i can't get it through her head that it was just a HUGE misunderstanding and that i wasn't talking to my friend behind her back but she gets mad when i tell her the truth and so i had to lie just for us to stay together now i have no idea what to do! i'm so in love with her that i can't afford to loose her. please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (19 November 2010):
Just dump her, man. She's the problem. Not you. You can't just 'make' someone feel when they're past it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe thing is she was never like this before she loved me for me and now she says I'm a baby and I'm immature and i always lie I'm completely in love with her and i don't know what to do i want her to act like the way she did before
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reader, serenity80 +, writes (17 November 2010):
Listen to what you're saying - you're saying you can't afford to loose a jealous, insecure crazy girl. This relationship obviously has no future - and if you man-up and grow some balls you'll have enough respect for yourself that you won't put up with such bad behaviour from your girlfriend.
Put this one down to experience - not all women are like the one you're with. You'll look back on this one and think phew - glad that one didn't work out. Trust me!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (17 November 2010):
Dump her. She's controlling, immature and insecure to the point where you can't be with her. She's making you take away your friends, she's listening to lies and not the truth, she's emotionally blackmailing you, she's checking your phone. Seriously - RUN as fast as you can away from her. There is no way this will work. She'll just continue to treat you like dirt so she can feel good.
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