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anonymous
writes:My bf's birthday is coming up and i want to do something special for him...Both of us are virgins...we both agreed to wait for the wedding night; however i wanna get a bit dirty with him without ...u know...losing my virginity...so what can i do apart from plain old oral sex?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (18 November 2010):
 Lucky you, sounds like you two are madly in love :)
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (18 November 2010):
 I'm sure he will. I hope you have a great night together!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to one and all...well yes, there are a lot of other things which we could so apart from sex; the POINT is we are in a LDR...so when we do meet; its kind of hard to keep our hands off each other. :)
I guess those who have been/are in a LDR know what i am talking about.
Yeah, i am working on a lap dance routine...hope i don't look funny when i do it. I also plan to book an exquisite dinner at one of his fav restaurant's :)...hope he likes it, *fingers crossed*.
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reader, ivanichiaynus  +, writes (17 November 2010):
 Glad you said not to judge all, "chigirl". This boy hates sports and loves romance! Nothing better than to snuggle up for ages, kissing and just being close, without its having to lead to sex - unless we feel like it, of course - but it ain't compulsory.
If the OP wants to remain a virgin, why not have a special night (or whole day) of tender loving gestures and doing fun things together?
Ivan.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (17 November 2010):
I will add though that for you, as a woman, sex means intimacy, romance, and we love that stuff. Sex for men, especially young men, isn't always about love and romance. Not to judge all guys out there, and you do know your guy the best, but a lot of young women seem to believe the best gift in the world would be sex.
However, the best gift in the world through the eyes of a man is a 6-pack of beer and tickets to a football game.
Try not to get offended by this, it's just the difference between the genders. It doesn't mean sex with you isn't absolutely mind blowing, it's just not always on the top of a man's ultimate dreams. Chicks love romance, boys love sports.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (17 November 2010):
Why does it have to be sexual? But alright, I suggest you buy some nice lingerie and do a lap dance for him. Would require some work on your part (learning the basics of lap dance), but I am sure he would enjoy it. Then you could feed him chocolate covered strawberries and watch a porn together.
Sex is so much more than penetration, and there is nothing old about oral sex if you remember to not fall into a rut.
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (17 November 2010):
 Dirtball covered alot there, I'd go with one of those, maybe eat dinner off of each other lol, just be careful because the gravy can get everywhere!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (17 November 2010):
Plain old oral sex... I never get sick of it, and I doubt he would either. BUT since you asked, you could use your breasts to get him off. You could blindfold him and have him lay back while you play with him. You could do some role playing. You could do a strip tease for him. Give him a dirty lap dance with a happy ending. Cook dinner for the two of you in nothing but an apron. Let him eat you for dessert.
I don't know, there is a lot you could do. Get creative.
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reader, KeighleySky +, writes (17 November 2010):
 give him a little lap dance?
dress up for him?
give him a huge romantic night xxxx wine (not too much so you dont go too far) rose petals - the works. give him a little lap dance dressed in lingerie, itll probably drive him crazy but atlast it'll be memorable.
just go all out and show him how sexy you are.
hope i helped :) x
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