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I think my now ex-boyfriend has pawned my only valuable item! What should I do?

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Question - (17 November 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 November 2010)
A female Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi you've seen my last question about the guy i need to dump.

the title: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ive-tried-dumping-him-twice-but-he-doesnt.html

you need to see what happened cause at the end i have another question. sorry its a bit long.

anyways heres what happened:

he went away for a business deal and he didnt phone me, anyways this morning he phoned me and the conversation started of friendly then in the middle of the conversation he said baby i need you to do a favour for me. i was like what? he said he didnt have any money to come back and he needed 1000 dollar. i told him i couldnt that i didnt have the money. now this is not the first time he asked and i never gave him firstly i didnt trust him enough and second of all i dont have money i am not rich. now i was really pissed off i realized he only phoned to try get the money. i told him that thats all he phoned for to get the money he told me to stop talking shit i told him that why should i give someone money when i dont trust them? he said then why you with a guy who you dont trust? i said i tried to break up but you wouldnt listen he was furious. then i said im breaking up with you now and thats it, goodbye and i hang up the phone. he tried to phone me but i didnt answer him,

now i went to the flat and packed everything , i havnt got a lot of posessions and only one valuble item its a diamond bracelet. now i cant find it, im very organized and ive searched the whole house. i have reason to believe that he has taken it and most likely pawned it off for some money. what should i do now? tnx

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (17 November 2010):

Tisha-1 agony auntCall the police and report the theft of your bracelet. Whatever you do, do not take this guy back. Good luck.

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A female reader, fi_the_tree United Kingdom +, writes (17 November 2010):

fi_the_tree agony auntUnfortunately you are just going to have to cut your loses on this now. You did it, you told him it was over and you got your possessions out of the house. Sometimes we have to leave things behind. It's not a nice feeling, knowing that he more than likely pawned your bracelet.

But now you are rid of him. Continue to ignore his calls, change your number if you have to aswell and start moving on with your life. Well done!

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