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writes:A girl I was with for a long time is moving very far away very soon. She has been with this other guy for over a year now, he is a total scumbag. She and I recently got into a fight, she deleted me on facebook, won't let me in her house, etc. I said and did some things that were nowhere near as bad as what she's done to me in the past, but still unnecessary. I want to have closure to my relationship with this girl, but I don't know what to say to her. I'm jealous, I'm spiteful, angry, and just outright miserable over her, and it's been over a year. I know I love her, but telling her that now might just make things really wierd. Some suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!
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reader, No watered down advice here! +, writes (17 November 2010):
 If you ever loved her, you will let her GO. She has moved on,and if the feeling you having is as you mentioned "jealous, I'm spiteful,& angry," All those are negative feelings, nowhere did you mention, REMORSE.You did say you did more things wrong, then she did. That's not saying you want to apologize. I'm also thinking,if she refuse to talk to you AGAIN it'll add fuel to those already unstable emotions. Keep in mind,everybody has a right,to privacy. Allow her hers. P.S have you ever hear the quote " Misery loves company" ijs. Let her GO!
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