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female
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30-35,
*exxiylove
writes:Hello there. I'm in a LDR. I love it a lot. I'm very very happy with what we have together. He's a lovely guy! He makes me so happy and he gets who i am and all the things i do or want to do with my life. I love that about him. But there's on problem. I've lost a few friends because the fact we're in a LDR! I've lost three. They all tell me it's pathetic and stupid. They disagree with it. One of those friends, as we'll call "phill" said that he thinks that my boyfriend is not worth my time and is ruining my whole life! He says things like "he is a guy with a vagina, he's probably a pedofile, he is only with me because he has nothing better to do with his life". He says all these things because of course i met him over the internet and he thinks he's just someone who is there. I hate all the negative things people say about our relationship! I know he's a real person and he is who he is. I talk on the phone with him all the time, and skype together all the time as well! Also, in 10 days, I'm going down there to see him. He's my best friend, and i want to know if I'm wrong for being with him? I don't think so, but am i?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (17 November 2010):
 Your friends are rather harsh, they know nothing of this man other than what you tell them..Then again they're looking out for your best interest, although they could keep their comments to themselves. Have you ever met this guy? Maybe that's what is fueling the fire. A lot of people have a negative view on online dating, I can see why due to all the sex offenders posing as 17 year old boys out there. But as long as your safe about it, hearing their voice on the phone, webcaming, and meeting them in a well lit public area with people knowing of your whereabouts then there's nothing wrong with it. As long as your happy that's all that matters.
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