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writes:Hello. Ok doke, here goes. Quick question.How do you know if someone is flirting?There is a man I know, that I see very often when I am working. I see him about three times a day, twice a week. I have known him for three years. At first I didn't see him that often, in fact I have forgotten the way we actually got to know each other. I have always had a boyfriend, since I have known him so there was never any suggestion that he fancies me.But just a few months ago I split with my boyfriend and then suddenly he seemed to feature more in my life. I began to notice things about him. And just in the last month or so, I think we have been flirting. But I am not absolutely certain. Even though I have had a few relationships I sort of fell into them, so I cannot say I flirted with them.Anyway this guy, seems to be touching me more, not intimately, but he has been stood quite close to me, pretended to punch me in the arm and took my hand and held it when I tried to give him some money back that he gave me (it was a pound for petrol he said cos I went to the Post Office for him lol). When I told a couple of friends about these things immediately they said he was flirting with me and that the mere fact that I was bantering back with him and doing him favours, meant that I was flirting back. I never thought of it like that before. Are my friends right?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (18 November 2010):
 Well everyone has there own thoughts about what flirting is if am honest. But a lot of people are just friendly in this way so it doesnt mean that he is flirting with you, it could be just his personality he likes good old banter and he feels comfortable enough around you to act like this, so its a sure fact that he does think you are a nice person. If you like this guy then why dont you ask him out for a coffee sometime after work and show him that you are interested then he might just ask you out on a date.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2010): Seems like there is flirting going on! If you like him then go for it, find out when his lunch break is or whatever and go with him! If not then maybe stop the touchy stuff however try not to appear suddenly cold as he might worry!
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