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writes:My huusband and I have been married for 16 years. We've had a lot of ups and downs. September 4th was the last time we split up but we've always got back together. This time we said that was it! He moved out, got his own place, then wanted me to move in there with him. I did now he's acting different. He delete's messages on his phone, deletes emails and cookies on the computer. He never texts me any more. He never says he loves me, never kisses me. We act more like room mates. What do you think is wrong and what should I do? He would go on date sites on the computer but when I confront him about it he says that they were old.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (18 November 2010):
 hmm it sounds to me like this guy wants the best of both worlds, he left your home to be a single man and make a life for himself again and he probably found that it is not what he expected and he got lonely living on his own, therefore am guessing he thought he would get you to move in with him for him to have the company and have someone help in clean the house, do the chores ect. but that he still wants to be single, it sounds like he might actually be seeing someone but it is hard to tell.
You need to talk to him, ask him does he want this marriage to work and if he does then he needs to start working hard to get things back on track. If he doesnt change his behaviour then it looks like you need to move back to your own place and accept that he no longer wants you and start building a life of your own on your own and be happy, goodluck.
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