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writes:hi guys,An oppertunity has presented itself to have sex with someone im not completely familiar with, but i may be mis-reading the signs...shes friends with a friend and they have know eachother for quite a while (he introduced us over msn).however this probably would just be a one time things, i dont really know yet...i want to know what you guys think about this..to add to the mix a little, my gf dumped me a few days ago, because of outside pressures and not feeling good enough for me anymore. a few friends recommend that i have a couple of one night stands to help take my mind off her...this girl seems to like the sexual tension and banter thats going back and forth, i was 100% ok with the idea, then something she said about taking time to get over my ex made me think...now im confused :/ any help appreciated
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2010): The ending of your relationship is still fresh and the possibility of doing anything out of any emotion, in this case anger i feel, is highly illadvised as it can cloud judgment. Stay away from one nighters and women for a bit to clear ur head.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 October 2010):
To be honest, it's not a good idea. The only way you could do this was if you knew she didn't want anything more than sex (which she doesn't). You wouldn't want to leave a broken heart, as you know what it feels like. Personally, I think you'd do better to just spend time alone right now getting over your ex. Don't drag another women into your life, she'll wind up a rebound feeling very hurt, and you'll look bad.
One night stands won't help you get over someone you love. They'll just leave more people hurt. This girl seems interested, but doesn't want to be a rebound. That's why she said "take time to get over your ex" - she may be looking for more from you. Listen to HER, and not your friends. No one night stands. Get over your ex, and maybe then you and this girl could have something more meaningful.
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