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writes:I am 60 and have been dating a 63 yr. old widower for about a month and a half. He has been telling me for a couple of weeks now that he loves me.. I was hesitant to reply in kind because I didn't think I knew him well enough to respond the same. This past week I did tell him I loved him too. But it seems since then he has not been near as responsive, or interested. I guess I felt like he took it nonchalantly. It was a huge commitment for me. Now I'm feeling insecure, and questioning myself.
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reader, Cross Gardener +, writes (8 October 2010):
Cross Gardener is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your responses. Yah, he's I guy, and I'm the over analyzing female.
Ha, ha. Appreciate everyone's feedback. I am going to try and relax and enjoy the moment.
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reader, monkey friend +, writes (7 October 2010):
I agree with the others said.
In my case, he told me he loved me first, and I waited a few months before I said it, and he still says it, much more than I do.
Don't sweat it. He's a guy. I can't tell you when the last time I heard my dad tell my mom he loves her; sometimes one just has to imply.
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reader, Moonknight  +, writes (7 October 2010):
 Don't feel insecure about your self, i've seen this happen before, and the reason why was out of insecurity and lack of feeling loved, once you give that love back the person no longer feels unloved and insecure and therefore stops giving love to get love and you are left feeling lost and confused, don't take it so hard, he's in far more need than you know right now
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (7 October 2010):
 Aww come on we're the Love Generation. Remember? Make Love not War? I think you are way over-thinking this one. Relax and enjoy the ride.
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