A
male
age
41-50,
*ravo01
writes:How to convince her to try new things in bed?I have one question regarding to my sex life with my wife. I love my wife and try my best to please her in everything but we are living apart at the moment. When it comes to sex, we both enjoy it, and like to do everything from her head till toe for our mutual pleasure. We have only tried vaginal intercourse yet, I want to try anal sex with her.We both have never tried it before. It is only in my mind I have not talk and have not showed her my interest in anal intercourse.I know first time it could be hurting for her, but I wanna do it with all of my love and care.Would you please tell me, How can I express my desire to have anal sex with her?Should I keep insisting her or any other way to make her prepare her for it?I don't want her to take it in wrong context, it's just a very strong sexual desire and I want for both of us at the end.Please reply seriously with your knowledge and experience.(Both men and women)
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reader, LustyLisa  +, writes (7 October 2010):
Honey, I personally didn't appreciate being asked nor did I tolerate continued requests and continued pressure and coercement. Not everyone is going to be interested in giving anal sex a try. All you can do is talk to her about your desires an fantasies. If she shows interest you may have a shot. If she recoils, finds it repulsive and unwanted you'd best let the issue die. The only way anal sex has any possibility of being successfull is if the receiver has some basis of desire, curriousity and willingness to experiment. You can't want something enough or at all for someone else, she needs to want it too.
If she's up for a little challenging and risky sexual experimentation, you'd better be armed with as much knowledge as you can acquire and approach your encounters with the utmost patience, care and concern for your partners safty as well as comfort and pleasure.
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