A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:At the moment, I'm taking a gap year and looking for a job. My mum's not happy with me taking a gap year as I only made this decision recently. Anyway, here I am at home bored and trying to find me a job and thinking about what I would like to study at university next year. The problem is my mum as she's always telling everyone who comes to my house and on the phone to relatives about my situation (taking a gap year, no job = no life). It's getting me really angry, she's probably told about 30 to 40 people by now. She's consantly shouting at me for doing nothing, when its not my fault I have nothing to do. I am trying really hard to find a job and I'm revising for my theory test. My mums always shouting at me for no reason and embarassing me in front of others by hinting to them I have no life which is not true because I'm trying to make something of my life. It's just I'm not sure what it is that I want to study at university. What do I do because she's constantly getting on my nerves. At the moment, I'm kind of ignoring her. I just feel so lonely and like crying. Please I need some advice. I know that if I talk to her, she's still going to the same (having a go at me everyday and embarassing me!) And when she does have a go, trust me she a has a go! She shouts her head off making me feel like I want to cry. Actually I would feel better if we didn't talk. I forgot to mention, I have 2 older brothers. My mums always loved them more, it's so obvious, treats them like they're kings or something and me I'm just nothing to her. My dads useless too as all her cares about is money and I haven't to him since years. I ignore him because he treats my mum badly. My mum never talks to me in a nice way, she only does that when my brothers are there. But when we're alone, she doesn't even look at me. I have had enough of her now and my dad. I don't want to run away, I'm only 18. I just don't know what to do. Sorry, I know this is really long but I really need help.
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