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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been with my boyfriend 2 years and we are looking at moving in together.Around 6 months ago I saw a few adult dating websites on his internet history. This unravelled, and i found out he was signed up to quite a few. He had never messaged anyone, or met anyone, or anything, he said he just used it to look at pictures of girls when he was pleasuring himself. He stopped the dating websites because he agreed it was too far.A month or two later I was aware he was still looking, not on adult websites but on social networks. It was just pictures of clothed girls and he admitted it straight off so it didn't become an issue. I know all guys will look at other girls.I've just found out he is also using the 'meet me' functions of these sites, and i feel a bit sick.. it isn't as bad as adult websites but it kind of bothers me. Is that irrational? Would other girls be bothered by it? Our relationship is otherwise fine, we get on great, and it isn't like he's cheating on me physically or anything else. I just want to know others opinions. Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 October 2010):
If my girlfriend was looking at porn, that would be one thing. If she was on adult dating sites and social networking sites and claiming that she was 'pleasuring herself', I'd know that was a lie and I'd be very suspicious.
You don't know if he was talking to these other women. And, to be honest, it's a bit creepy that a guy would go through a social networking site staring a women's pictures.
If my girlfriend was doing what your boyfriend was doing, I'd probably look towards ending it. He's basically looking to cheat.
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