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writes:Has anyone had a threesome just to keep their partner? How did this work out?
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reader, hotmommanell +, writes (7 October 2010):
No, I haven't. But I will say this, you should NEVER do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable or that compromises your morals or integrity to keep a partner and that partner - if they are worth keeping should not expect you to compromise your principles.
If a threesome is what it takes to keep them, maybe it isn't the relationship for you anyway.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2010): You need to make you happy and if you are not enough for him then i would seriously say goodbye now.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (7 October 2010):
 Are you the one asking a lot of questions about threesomes? Why don't you just spell out the situation and ask the question pertinent to your situation rather than string in out in a chain of hypotheticals?
I've never been put in that situation, and I'll tell you, I would not tolerate that kind of sexual, emotional blackmail for one instant. That kind of pressure would be the end of the relationship for me. Period. Buh-bye, babe, find some other woman to mentally torture, not for me.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (7 October 2010):
 Having a threesome is no reason to "save" your relationship. This is called blackmail or bribery depending on the perspective. Either way, don't do it.
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reader, yaytentacles +, writes (7 October 2010):
 Not only will you regret having a threesome, but this can actually end up making relations with your partner even more awkward.
I hate to use the slippery slope theory, but if you give in to a threesome I feel like eventually he's just going to want kinkier things. If You aren't comfortable doing this, don't do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2010): This is a very bad idea. If the both of you aren't into the idea 1000% then don't even think about doing it. Don't ever EVER compromise your happiness or feelings just to keep someone. If you need to have a threesome just to keep your partner then they obviously don't care about you because if they did they'd never leave you because you didn't want to have a threesome.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (7 October 2010):
 NOOOOOoooooo no no no no.
If you are put into the position of being forced into doing something which is morally against your own wishes sexually, do not compromise your own personal values, ever! This kind of decision will leave you riddled with regrets.
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