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writes:Ok this is going to be long but please read cuz I really need help and advice.The past couple of months I have been getting closer to a friend. I have a lot of feelings for her. She knows this and I believe she has the same or at least had. Basically, one night when I was out with work colleagues and she was out with her friends. We were both drunk and I wanted to see her but she didn't want to cuz she was drunk and needed to get home. It was clear I was upset and so she called me in the morning. I said something really bad , probably cheap, which I don't remember. She hung up and texted sayin "I never knew ur intentions were so low". She would never say what I said. I damaged the trust in our friendship. How can I repair this. I want to make her a card apologising but I don't know if its appropriate. We met up after that incident and she was shouting at me. I told her I love her. She doesn't believe me. I'm really depressed about the whole situation and I do not want to lose her. I can't stop thinking about her. What do I do?Thanks for your time and opinions.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (7 October 2010):
 Not the best time to profess love, that's for sure.
Really, you need to give her space. A nice card apologizing might not be a bad idea. Let her know that you're sorry, but more importantly show her you're sorry by never doing something like that again.
Sometimes something like this is enough to permanently damage any hope you may have had of getting with this girl. I hope that's not the case, but be prepared if it is. You can't make someone change their feelings. All you can do is hope that your actions will show them what they need to change their feelings.
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