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writes: Ok, long story short. Me and a male friend (who has a girlfriend) ended up sleeping together, very wrong i know. We used to be FWB before he was with her. The thing is i think he wants to do it again but i am not going to. I know that me staying in touch while he is with her is not a good idea so for the past month i have tried to not talk online etc... He doesn't live nearby so that helps a bit but the other day i was online and he said "i don't see you enough which made me feel guilty. Why would he say that i don't see him enough, i mean before he was with her all we did was have sex mostly and now he's with her so i'm not sure why he'd say such a thing? Do you think he's just trying to butter me up so to speak? Or am i just being a bit mean?
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (8 October 2010):
 I think your instincts are right. Don't feel bad for doubting him. It's good that you're keeping your distance, keep it up. You know he'd like to sleep with you and I believe that line is set to get you to feel a bit touched or guilty so that when he asks you to "hang out," you'll give in more easily. Stick to your guns! He wants to hang? Bring friends. Don't be alone with him if you can help it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2010): He has a girlfriend. He's off limits now and forever unless he breaks up with her.
I would talk to the girlfriend... a cheater does not deserve to get away with it. He clearly doesn't respect either of you.
But you will need to get it on tape or some other concrete proof even she cannot deny. Otherwise she's likely to give him the benefit of the doubt.
This male is a player. And you both are being played for fools. Is that what you really want to see when you look in the mirror? A fool? And this other woman doesn't even know her boyfriend is a cheating douchebag.
Flynn 24
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