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male
age
36-40,
*helseaboy25
writes:I met this girl when I was 18, she is a bit famous, an actress. We used to hang out quite a lot, we flirted a lot, but I never made a move- I was young and playing the field and she was a bit too eccentric and high maintenances.Then just a month ago (I'm 21 now), I sent a short message out on fb to a bunch of people I hadn't seen in a while. She replied with a long response telling me what she was doing, and we agreed to go for drinks. We went out, drank a lot, there was a lot of flirting, she seemed very nervous, touching me a lot, but we both ended up getting very drunk so I didn't make a move (i regret) and after spending a good 4 hours together got her a cab home. I was meant to meet her the following Saturday, giving her a time and place, but I only managed to send a message out to her late on Saturday night. She never replied.Then this week I sent her a text asking if she wanted to go out for dinner on (specified a day), she said yes, seemed very enthusiastic, saying what a lovely idea and she would love to etc, asking for a time and place. So I waited a day then was going to text her when/where, but right before I was going to tell her I got a text saying that she couldnt make it because she had to work late on the specified day and that she would call me on the weekend to reschedule.My question is...is she interested?
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reader, slimfish  +, writes (7 October 2010):
 yep she is....but as she told you she is also a busy girl.
she will let you know if shes not interested, shes that type of girl.
she also feels she can trust you so take things really slow. let her make the moves.
dont get drunk next time, show her you can control your drinking, and enjoy her company.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2010): LOL you bet your a$$ shes interested pal!! Nice work. Re-schedule and go from there. But PLEASE be careful with the booze. Ive done some things I do regret and Ive never ever even slept with any intoxicated woman. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2010): Yeah she's interested, she may have wanted to cancel on you first there, if that makes sense. Since you cancelled the Saturday night thing on her, then you were playing it cool by waiting a day to reply about the dinner date, she might have felt like she was a backup option and didn't want to seem always available for you. Maybe you could show her you're interested too by being a little enthusiastic about rescheduling, or show that you've put some thought into it.
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