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writes:So, I have been with my girlfriend for the past 3 years this month and I am wondering If/How/When to propose to her. We have been really happy together, and I am wondering if proposing will scare her off. I just want to be with her. AS for when, I was thinking about over the holidays, as it is her favorite time of year. Her eyes sparkle like the snow, and it is so nice and happy. Will asking then ruin the moment or make it more special.All in all, I am unsure how to go about asking. There are all the cliche of when men propose to women, but not many cliche standards for women asking other women. I am really in love with her, and being together forever would be a dream come true.So now for the questions:Should I propose, or wait for her to?If so how would you do it? Any other things I should consider?
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reader, oliviababes +, writes (11 October 2010):
 you should propose to her she won't get scared off and 99.9% of proposes get the answer yes, i would ask her out i did and now i've got a wife!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for your responses.
I was wondering if I should go for a ring, and if so should it be like the normal engagement ring, or something different. Thats kinda what i meant about how.
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reader, CharmedCupid +, writes (7 October 2010):
 Well,I am a guy,and I know your a woman asking another woman,and some people think that just because I've never asked,means I don't know,but I can tell you that I may be able to help if you give me a chance,so here goes.
Well,I can clearly tell that you are deeply inlove with your partner,which is obvious,and she is with you too,so, since this is the best time of year for her,I say you have a slight advantage,take her to her favorite place, buy her some very nice stuff,and lay down with her and have a normal girl conversation,and say,honey/babe/(what her name is) start off the conversation with; Hey babe,I was wondering,do you ever wanna get married some day? and hear what she has to say,then you will know if to go about with the proposal yet,because you can risk the chance of she saying no,and you being hurt. So don't go saying, hey hun,wanna get married? that might ruin the special moment you know? So take my advise,try it,ask first in a conversative way,then you would know if you can ask or not. Have fun,I wish you the greatest of luck,to the both of you! xxxx
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reader, Dear Sweet Pea +, writes (7 October 2010):
hiya
I can see how much you love her, and thats the first thing.
do you feel like its right?
Because if you do then it must be.
have a quiet night in just the two of you take her hand a speak to her about the way you feel about her and if she wants to marry you.
It doesn't have to be a big thing with flowers and paris, do it gently where you dont make her feel scared by the question.
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