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writes:hi all , very complicated post here ... ok , I started seeing a guy and hooking up with him just under a year ago and felt like we really connected. He has a really busy career and we didnt really see anything of each other since february. He wanted to make plans , backed out at the last minute , was inconsistant with texts and calls , yeah he came across a player and i decided to knock it on the head. I still remained friends with him distantly , however he always seemed to pop up when i least expected him to and suggested "hooking up" again , being flirty and stuff. Well he came around in recent months for a dinner which we had planned , nothing happened between us , we had a cuddle and a bit of a play fight and he all of a sudden took off at 2am - he's never done this before and i actually expected him to be staying over for the night. Since then it's like we just turned into friends who are there for each other now and again. Anyway , his relationship status changed on a social networking site , he was now in a relationship , no name with who or anything but just that he was ... Im not even sure if i believe he is , but heres the confusing part ... I wished him luck and said hope he's happy even though inside i was devastated , but he never went into any detail about this so called new GF even though i thought we had grown closer than this as friends. He started to ring me alot more and pay more attention to me , via text , calls , pictures etc. He text me the otherday and i told him i was going to be maid of honour at my friends wedding .. and he asked if i needed escorting , I told him it wouldn't be for a while yet , and his reply was it gives us time to pick me a nice dress .. i said im not sure his GF would be too happy. he said she knows we're best mates so stop being like that , and to get my dress sorted o.O . Anyway i mentioned it's almost a year since we've known each other , and 2 hours later he started reminising about out "first night" together and being jokey and how there were no complaints about it and stuff. Now he's being distant again , it seems as soon as i start to move on from the feelings they come flooding back. The escorting me to the wedding and picking a dress i found really strange , because he wasnt even as close to me as this when he was single?? whats going on? :( xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks anonymous123 , I know what you're saying , it's like he's really got into my head. One minute i'm fine , and the next he will text out of the blue , sometimes after a few weeks and then i'm back to square one and wondering what might be next. when he was texting about the wedding , for a slight moment i thought wow , he's being so sweet .... but now hes APPARANTLY in a relationship? so why? Which is why i had to say i don't think his GF would be too happy. I've shed alot of tears over this guy and figured we were just friends , so the flirting flooded a load of old feelings back. I think he knows how to get into my head now but cant understand why he does it so much to me. xx
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (8 October 2010):
 Stay away from this guy. Dont even try to decipher the pattern of his behavior, because you simply cannot reason out with people like him. HE IS A PLAYER.period. He comes and goes as and when he fancies, because he knows that you do have a bit of a liking for him, and he just works that to his advantage. Honestly, do you really need this creep for an escort?? I think you would be much more relaxed and at ease without him,because chances are, he's going to be acting very much "in love" one day, and then the next day you wont even hear from him. Iv known guys like this....just please stay away!! Its not worth it...
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