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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I fall in lust with any girl I meet!! I hate these feelings. It's wrong. I admit I'm desperate. How can I stop these feelings. A typical scenario would be that I say hello to a girl that I find attractive say, at uni, and I talk to her. The only thing on my mind is to get her into bed. If I get to the point where I ask her out, and she says no, then I get down. This is so fucked up there is something seriously wrong with me. I want to be normal. I sometimes cannot even sleep at night. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Kenj +, writes (7 October 2010):
Your just at that age where sex is foremost on your mind, it should pass as you get older.
Meeting new women can be a fun experience and you should try exploring the other parts to relationships other than sex.
Try thinking of other things that dont involve sex and getting her in bed.
In my humble opinion and experience if any woman is easy to get into bed then there really not good lasting girlfriend material and it generaly wont last.
Try masturbating a couple of times before going out on the pull and see if that helps. If you hook up with someone masturbate before you see them each time, it will reduce your urge to have sex.
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