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writes: Hello everyone, my question is for females since i need a woman's opinion, let me first tell u whats my situation, im in a LDR for 2 years now, for some reason my gf and i couldnt meet during this 2 years , anyway , i just wanna know if the girls like it when sometimes their bfs dont care abt them that much or lets say he doesnt show that much intrest in certain times im asking this coz lately i feel like talking to my girlfriend all day long and i cant stop telling her how much i love her and how much she means to me , but as long as im keeping it that way, shes being more like bitchy with me and so moody, its like she KNOWS that im crazy about her and that she doesnt really need to show me her love ( even though i know shes loves me tooo ) but she really doesnt show it that much lately , but back in the time when i wasnt really that loving, she used to be soooo cute with me and she didnt stop tellin me that shes so inlove with me and wud wanna spend the rest of her life with me but now i feel like its so different so my question is, do girls really like it when their bfs ignore them or doesnt show how much they love them for a while ? !!thnx in advance Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, emmss +, writes (7 October 2010):
Well, you didn't see her for 2 years. You definately need to go see her, like asap! But also, maybe she's lost some feelings for you.. I mean, 2 years is a really long time to not see your boyfriend. So, maybe she's lost feelings for you. I don't want to sound harsh saying this, but it happens. What you need to do, is go and see her. Talk to her about it. She may just feel that your coming across as a little bit too clingy or something, and it's making her feel uncomfortable, especially after all this time.
And answering your question, no girls don't like it when their boyfriends ignore them. It drives them crazy, it makes us feel like they don't love us, or they just can't be bothered anymore. All girls like their boyfriend to show they love them, not over the top like everyday. But still, it's nice, so if you haven't told shown her you love her for a while, then maybe she thinks you don't.
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (7 October 2010):
if you haven't met the person in two years (the whole time you have been "seeing" them) then its not much of a relationship. make an effort to meet and stop going overboard telling her you love her. words are not actions.
go see her
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