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writes:Just a few days ago, a new kid came to school. His half sister is one of my friends. He is really funny and not like total goth. Just yesterday, I learned that he was bi. I am Christian and don't believe in it. All my friend think its awesome and even wish he was all the way gay. I've told them I don't believe in that but they don't care. Most of them believe in god and go to church but they don't take it seriously like I do. I am kinda embarrassed because I (and his sis) am the only one that doesn't what he is. All the guys just ignore him and act really kind of mean (just mean stares and no violence). I can't ignore him because he sits with me and my friends. What can I do?
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reader, fadinglove  +, writes (9 October 2010):
 First of all I don't believe that you should do anything.Ok so he's a bi but im sure he dosnt have a problem about you being christain.If he wants to be a bi then thats up to him and you shouldnt be doing anything.God mad us all and loves us all equally im sure that he dosnt stop loving one of his children just cos he loves both sexes and neither should you.if you don'y approve then you don't approve but he's still a human being and one of gods children so you shouldnt disrespect him.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (7 October 2010):
 Are you against him being bisexual? Know that it is not something you can force him out of. But why are you against it anyway? Did Jesus himself not say "love others as you love yourself"? He said that and in no way suggested that there were specific people you had to love. Christianity itself stems from Jesus's teachings, do not confuse what another man wrote in the bible with what Jesus taught his disciples. The way of peace and acceptance. But I am not forcing your mind away from your beliefs, I am merely offering my own perspective and opinion that you may consider it and see that there is nothing wrong with this boy. If he has not harmed another, then what does it matter whom he chooses to love? God gave you free will and a free mind that you might see through what the tyrants teach you and you might find your own path of rightousness. God is all loving, so why wouldn't humans be the same? God does not love us in different ways, God loves us all no matter what our race or creed or gender or preference and we should love each other just as much and just as well.
I hope that helps.
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