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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:Was this guy into me as well? A little about myself first. I love Aussie Rules Football, I am an executive on a local football club committee and help run the games of a Saturday for our local club. I also love to talk footy. I joined a footy forum which consisted of all blokes and became well known as the lone female. This site was to discuss local footy issues within clubs within our league, but also a fun site where we all knew each other and give each other a hard time with jokes about their clubs etc. Anyway I became very friendly with one of the posters and we began discuss in length problems within the league and we put together a program to improve things for the kids in the league. Now all this was done by email and texting before we actually met. Our conversations were casual, a little flirty but not sexually. Just teasing each other about some of our posts against other people on the site, all just fun. But then when we did meet when our clubs played each other I deffinately felt huge chemistry towards him, now I will tell you his body language when we saw each other we knew what each was wearing he blushed, looked straight to the ground, shaking his head and then stammered when I reached him to talk to him. We have seen it other at meetings and the like since and if I smile at him he quickly smiles then looks away, will avoid conversations with me, blushes all the time. Now our connection has grown and as we are both married I felt the need to cease contact. Now I had to be honest with him as this meant leaving behind a program that is so important to me that he wouldn't let me go otherwise. When I confessed he didn't respond at all. now my timing was off a little as we did have to come in contact about a week later at a football function, when he saw me he blushed again (maybe just embarrassed this time) and walked towards me but I ran a mile. He turned away. I did contact him by text the next day to comment on the events of the day before, form of some of our junior players. He responded straight away in his usual manner as if nothing had happended. I then said I needed closure on our program and asked if some questions, he answered them but at the same time brought up more problems that he knew I would have to ask more about this went on for a few days. I then decided to pretend that we were co-workers and I was leaving the job and that we should say our farewells, which I did and then I said part of the farewell stuff was he would have to say it to me and I actually gave him a line to say (I was really looking for closure) now he did email that line, then 5 minutes later sent another email laughing that he couldn't help sending it and send the program will be fine but and then went on with more issues he knew I would want to ask about. I did ask more questions and we joked as we always have.Can someone please tell me what is going on in this guys head?? I still want to be friends with him and maybe he wants the same and I have read to much into his body language??
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reader, Rasputin2010  +, writes (14 October 2010):
 write abook stephanie meyer did it.. and she made thousands. Interesting story btw. ANNND just tell him straight up, and if he doesnt respond like you wish he would. just ignore him like I ignore my dog when he is barking. :p good luck.
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