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writes:Hi I'm 13 years of age. A few days ago I realized that I really like one of my good friends. He is funny,and pretty good looking. A lot of my friends have said we would look good together, but I know he will never ask me out. The reasons why are because I'm 1) a total nerd, complete with glasses and smarts. 2) I am a total good girl. I barley ever cuss, I don't talk about sex and such, and I am a virgin(I want to be till I'm married). lastly 3) I am not very pretty and I don't show my self off like he does. How can I improve without destroying my values? How can o "spruce" myself up? Thanks a lot! Reply to this Question
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reader, redchick +, writes (15 October 2010):
redchick is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks guys for answering. One of my friends talk to my crush and he said that he wanted to stay friends. Another friend helped me cheer up and said at the football game she would introduce me to a couple of her guy friends from the other school. I am so excited! I want to look good, but don't want to over do it. What can I do to meet a middle ground? Also my mother won't let me use makeup so its hopeless there. Thank you again!!
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reader, slimfish  +, writes (7 October 2010):
 you have your first "crush", and it will be the first of many.
you sound pretty neat to me, and there will be heaps of guys after you soon.
guys like to marry smart girls with values. so dont throw your values away on the first guy that you meet.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (7 October 2010):
 First off, at this point, I don't think any of your friends or people your age should have lost their virginity.
You can still make yourself to pretty and good in glasses. intelligence should not stop you from making yourself look good and feel good. You seem to look down upon who you are because you are intelligent. Never think that you are not pretty. I actually used to hate looking at myself in the mirror, for two reasons. The first is personal so I won't go into it...the second reason being that I used to think myself hideous because the girl I had a monumentally large crush on turned me down twice...turns out I was good looking enough to start modeling. The lesson here being that you should NEVER think yourself ugly because you never know. Start a friendship with this boy and see where it goes, if it goes well, tell him that you like him and then see what happens from there.
I hope that helps.
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