When I'm around him I'm shy and awkward and don't know what to say!

A female age 30-35, *oldfeather writes:

This may seem very juvenile and immature...But I just really need some advice! So school just started a month or two ago and I started having a crush of my of my class mates. I never really had talked or communicated with him before. We have a lot of classes together, so I see him frequently. After about two weeks I really started to like him. I admire his care free and outgoing personality, and a lot of his behavior reminds me of myself. About a week or two into school I caught him taking glances at me... then looking away, and showing off when I'm in his view and things like that. Sometimes He'll try to sit near me. But Whenever I have small conversations with him, or say "Hey" or even have a group convo with him in it, he always acts so and uncomfortable towards me. Its always very awkward, which is strange because he's known has the loud outgoing popular goofy guy. He's friends with a bunch of other girls that he seems to have no problem talking with, but with me every thing seems different. I'm a very un-shy and outgoing person, but when ever I talk to him I feel intimidated. Sometimes I think too much into things, it may just be wishful thinking...But I really like this kid and he seems like he likes me...But when we talk I feel the unfamiliar feeling of awkwardness. What should I do? I really want to get to know him more, and develop a friendship and maybe figure out his feeling towards me... But I need some guidance since things are so confusing right now.

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