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writes:Hey everyone. have posted on here before, and this is a follow on from my last question:http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-stay-single-and-try-getting-over.htmlLong story short, 2 guys, Adam and Dave, Dave being most recent ex and Adam being an old old ex from years ago. Been split from Dave for about 4 months now, and a few weeks ago i took the plunge and went out with Adam for the night. Had a wicked time and yes we did sleep together.But i didn't want sex to ruin things so tried to take it slow with him, but after having such a great time with Adam, i totally fell for him, and told him so. He withdrawed from me for a while (I don't blame him either) but we were both at a party over the weekend and he was hot and cold with me, one minute giving me little kisses, the next totally ignoring me.Anyway, we went out with friends on Tuesday night, but Dave started sending me a series of head battering texts so i was pretty much glued to my phone all night trying to sort everything out, which Adam didn't appreciate. I said i was heading home around 2am, but my head was messed up so went driving for a bit to clear my thoughts. When i eventually got home, Adam and friends were waiting outside my house, and i got an earful from Adam asking where i'd been and that he'd come to see me but i wasn't even home. I tried to explain, but he just got in his car and drove off!!Dave was texting me saying he missed me and really wanted to see me. Told me that he wasn't fully happy with his new girlfriend, stuff that really messed me up big time.I just don't know what to do from here, about either guy!!!! Please help me...
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