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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I feel like I'm being ignored by my boyfriend...what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know why but I feel like I'm being ignored by my boyfriend most of the time, I mean if we are alone then everything is fine but as soon as anyone else is there he talks to them and I feel like he's just completely blanking me, its not as if I want his complete attention ... (208 words)

He threw me away just like that!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had a huge crush on this guy for over 6 months, we get on so well and have some pretty intense chemistry, we always met up during summer and on a night out we kissed. The kiss didn't change anything he made me like him even more and I told him that I liked him and he ... (160 words)

How to get over my crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 and I got my 4th boyfriend this year. He asked me out and I thought I really liked him. I liked another boy and have done since I was ten, but when the bf asked me out I said yes. I did really like him but then he was so clingy, I wanted some time on my own, you know? To ... (190 words)

Can male actors manage to "remove" themselves from the scene enough so that the kiss does not make you aroused?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

14 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Here is the story: I've gotten a role where I have a romantic partner, and my girlfriend is super nervous. She says she trusts me in the sense of knowing that nothing will happen between me and the actress off the stage. I've always been faithful to my girlfriend. But she s... (298 words)

How do I make a relationship work with someone who is in the Marines?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I make my relationship work if I am in a relationship with someone who is in the Marines? How do I deal with understanding their responsibilities?... (28 words)

Complicated break up, I still want to be with her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years, were both 19. we had a rocky relationship, we had fun and commitment, after she lied to me (not cheating), we did fight a lot. The last time i saw her (5 days after break up) she told me she doesn't love me anymore and doesn't know when ... (262 words)

He just says he doesn't mean to hurt me and doesn't know why he does it, but thats not enough for me. Should I give him another chance?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, about 8 months ago I found out that my boyfriend of 3 yrs has been txting dirty messages to at least 3 girls, one of which I know. I found this out just after we had purchased a house together, so decided to forgive him and try and move on. He has always watched porn like ... (237 words)

I'm happy and in love with a married man!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 8 years and the last 3 years have been awful. My husband is on drugs and I have found several female numbers in his phone, on one occasion I caught him in my vehicle with a female. I have been with this man 14 years all together and could not see beyond ... (431 words)

How do you know that the person you love is your soul mate?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this is gonna sound stupid but it something that has been Worrying me for sometime now,I,ve been dating different gys in my Life but seem not to have an answer.I want 2 knw that how Do u tell that the person u in love with is your soul mate? What is it that u hve to ... (82 words)

I don't want to lose my friends because of this girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - please help me and my 2 friends are going bowling and to the cinema 2morro with the girl i like a lot and her friend but the thing is that 1 of my 2 friends like her and another friend who isn't coming likes her too and i don't want to loose my friends over her but i really... (135 words)

I'm planning to tell him I like him on the last day of college!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

14 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Hey. So I have liked this guy for almost three years now. We're really good friends now and that makes me feel happy. College is about to end and I haven't for once hinted that I like him. I mean, even if I have, it wasn't that prominent because I have a BIG fear of rejec... (194 words)

I want to be straight

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in love with a woman I can't be with because she is straight. I have accepted this and I'm trying to move on. Over the last week I have been checking dating sites and stuff, but it's no good I'm just not attracted to lesbian women, often they are butch or boyish and when ... (250 words)

What can make me desire sex again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age - I am menopausal and i havne't desired sex for a long time, is there somethig i can do to help make me feel or desire sex. I do things to make my husband happy but, i feel in adequate. ... (41 words)

Do all girls squirt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - what happens when a girl masturbates ..i mean she rubs her clit? do all girls squirt? if not...how can a girl please herself enough to squirt??... (26 words)

LDR-how to make our anniversary special?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, simply im in a long distance relationship with such a nice guy We were in the same country but the conditions separated us ! so , our first anniversairy is almost close and i dont really know what to do? i want to make this day special for me and him , any ideas?... (56 words)

What do you think she wants?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - She even tells me she doesn't know. But maybe you guys can give me an idea? She broke up with me a couple months ago because she decided she needed space, couldn't deal with the distance (we're long-distance), and wasn't ready for a commitment. I was extremely distra... (297 words)

Should I talk to him if he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - we broke up a while ago and we were really close when we were going out. anyway we broke up because we couldnt spend time together and it was really messing us up because i didnt have texting he did and our relationship was based on face to face stuff. but since we broke up we ... (192 words)

She isn't romantically attached to me....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend told me that she isn't romantically attached to me. Yet she finds me attractive and wants to be with me? I'm so confused. I told her that if she wants to move on from me then that is fine and I would not be hurt. But she insists that she wants to be with me. She ... (112 words)

I'm a shell without my twin!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm hoping some of you here have twins so you know what I mean when I say the bond between twins is indescribable, like that of soulmates, a secret club, epic... I have a fraternal twin brother (I'm female, we're 24) who I know will always be the closest person to me. Growing ... (382 words)

My feelings for her didn't change after I was rejected!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I bacically have this friendship that since it began i loved her. Its ben months upon months and i finally got up the nerve to tell her that i like her yesterday and considering im on a relationship help sight you can guess what happened. I dont know what to do now because my ... (296 words)

My ex said "don't be a stranger" what does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi My ex girlfriend ended our relationship after a couple of years - Im sure it was for someone else - sure enough a few days later she was. Since then every 3 months or so she would contact me by email and be all hi how are you - but would just disappear when ever we got into ... (149 words)

I'm too shy to say "I love you"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm in love with a guy but im just 2 shy to say i luv u.we already went to a drive in movie. plz give advice... (26 words)

I said no and now he won't even go near that area. Did I scare him off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (?) age 26-29 - Hello, Im a teenage girl and i have a boyfriend who i have been with for quite a while... One time earlier on in our relationship he tried to finger me and i wasn't ready, i told him 'not today' and he backed off and didn't mention a word. I feel that i am now ready f... (284 words)

If I'm pretty then why have I been single for 16 years?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - If this is true, then why don't i have a boyfriend? I've been single for going on 16 (yes 16) years, people tell me that I'm pretty and what not and that I can have any guy I want. IF that's true then why am I still single? I'm 34 years old and have really never been in a ... (73 words)

If they've lost interest then why don't they just say so?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

14 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - About a year ago I met someone online. We seemed to hit it off immediately and, after a few months, I travelled at a fair amount of expense to meet up (it's relatively long distance). However, since then contact from this person has become increasingly sporadic to the point ... (127 words)

I've found out my mother is having a divorce, What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

14 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, Ive haad suspicions for a while now that my mother is having an affair with her co-worker. I have read texts of a sexual nature between them and one where the two were talking about divorcing their spouses and living their lives together. My parents have put their house on ... (173 words)

I don't know if my ex was referring to me or another guy. How do I take her remark?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I had a sexual past with a girl and well, it was kinda a relationship, we had emotions for each other. But we broke up and all and its been 2 years now since we have broken up. She loves to tease, and flirt, its who she is and everything. We were talking a few days ago and well ... (138 words)

I don't know how to tongue kiss

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I really want to tongue kiss my bf friend but ive never done it before I know that he has but im not sure if he wants to with me What do I do?... (36 words)

He slept with his ex while we were becoming an item! What now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - HAY GUYS! Bit of a problemo, found out the other day that my current boyfriend cheated while we were seeing eachother. Apparently to him it's not cheating because we were not 'official' yet, however while we were seeing eachother we said we were commited to on another etc. Pro... (208 words)

Does he like me or is he a raving lunatic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I imagine this topic has been done to death but i am confused. I like someone a lot and I just can't work out if he's interested. I catch him staring at me often sometimes with a huge smile (not sure if this is a sign or he's a little mad). I saw him recently on the stairs he ... (153 words)

I can't cope with the fact that she has no time for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

14 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm at the end of my rope here, I've been togheter with my gf for about 6,5 months, and during that time I've seen her once a week, sometimes twice a week, but never for more then 3-6 hours at a time. She made it clear that she wants to study hard so she can pass all her exa... (355 words)

How do I recover from this falling out with a good friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I had an awful fight with a friend a couple months ago. Her and her boyfriend came over to collect stuff they were owed. Initially it was over money that I owed her ($15). It's true, I had not paid them back for something, but it was something that I sincerely forgot about. ... (708 words)

I can't put my finger on it but alot of things he does are turning me off

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! Really need to talk ask for an objective opinion, following on from a question I asked a few weeks ago. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 1/2 years. I do love him, however for the past couple of months I have become increasingly disillusioned and dissatisfied with ... (379 words)

My marriage proposal sucked! Should I let him do it again?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - SO I’m engaged but my proposal Sucked!!! he didn’t even decorate there was no romantic music and he knows that I love flowers and he didn’t even give me one!!! He used a beat up candle that was already used and I didn’t even get to dress up nor didn’t he ask my parents before ... (183 words)

I'm I crazy for liking another cousin???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm I crazy?? I have just barely gotten over my second cousin. With whom I did not have a relationship with but liked him for a long time. The feelings were mutual for a time, but some things happened and I stopped visiting the family. This is a cousin on my dad's side. ... (283 words)

A matter of our relationship ending or not?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been living together for a year now and we've been having a lot of problems as of recently. Ok well to back track to last year while at work I made a friend (a guy) anyways a day before i told my boyfriend that we were going to be hanging out anyways he ... (574 words)

How do people jump into VERY affectionate relationships so fast?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

14 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Some of my friends have like five relationships a year! And all of them seem just as close and affectionate as the wonderful one it took me five years to develop with my now ex. I thought it would last forever. Then she broke up with me for some random guy. Now (less than f... (213 words)

I always said I'd leave a cheater, but now that its happening to me I'm torn!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

14 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my girlfriend for about two years now and we have been living together for about one year. We share a lap top and I came across her facebook page the other day where she had forgotten to log out. I have never gone through her personal belongings before, ever, ... (289 words)

He is happy living alone but I am not

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for just under 2 years and really love each other and most of the times things are good. We are both 31 and I have been engaged before but never married and he has never lived with a woman before. Last week we walked past an Estate A... (260 words)

I don't want a gay boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My mind keeps thinking back to this and I would like to know some people views on what happened. My boyfriend was drunk, I put a blindfold on him and went down to give him a blow job. Usually he is quiet but he was making a lot of noise, moving around a lot. He started to li... (273 words)

I love two guys and I can't chose which one I love more.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been dateing the same guy for 10 months and I still realy care abut him and he still really cares about me. We've been through tough times and we have always bounced back he is sweet careing funny (and really cute) but we have complete different goals in life. So, ... (265 words)

I've become a jealous freak!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a relationship of over a year, which has been one of the best things that have happened to me. He's my lover, my best friend, my partner. Together we have a blast- whether we're stuck at home making dinner, or out floating down a river in a canoe. Long story short, it is ... (226 words)

He's planning life without me and I can't even go outside!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi:) Hope you can help:) I'm a 28yr single parent who has just broken up with my partner of 2yrs. I have 1 child he has 2. He is 37. We met a week afer my brother had died. He took is own life at 21. When I met this guy he had just left a 13yr relationship. He said th... (729 words)

I love her but she treats me like a brother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys..I have this best friend of mine about a year now since we meet..I love her her but am afraid to tell her becouse she treat me like her brother..I don't think if she will understand me if I will tell her..indeed am afraid of my reputation,she's like a family member in ... (64 words)

How to change a man's mind about relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have couple of posts related to this problem and heres upto date info :) Please help meee!! I met this guy in late Sept 2010, we were getting along so great for a month. After a month of dating him, I knew that I really like him and i'm ready to be with him...(u no what... (363 words)

I really love him but I know he doesn't love me back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my boyfriend for just over a year. I am 19, he is 32. I am at university in Manchester while he lives in London so during our relationship we did not get to spend that much time together. He visited me a few times and we saw each other during the holidays. I broke up ... (677 words)

I told a friend really personal things and now regret doing it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I told one of my friends 'that I knew I couldnt trust with stuff' some recently personal stuff (yes I know this was stupid thankyou!)and my other close friend told me that the untrustworthy friend had told this girl and was thinking bout telling this other girl that is my ... (232 words)

If she's engaged then why is she acting like this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

14 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm married. So no "you know better" talk....I already know. Here goes. I have been working with a very attractive, and up till recently, single girl. We've known each other 3 years. For the first couple of years she seemed kind of attracted to me. She would give me half her ... (215 words)

Her family don't want us in contact after we texted. I'm wondering how I should address this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (M)

age - My lady friend's daughter snooped her phone and caught us cyber-sex-ting She is 72 and I am 69 and now they will not let me see her mother. Any advice? It was only texting and nothing being acted out. They say she has memory problems, which she does lightly, and that I am ... (163 words)

Why did she stop our FWB relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This has been bothering the hell out of me, so please please help! A few months ago, my really close friends and I (we're both girls) decided to become friends with benefits. We made out and stuff, and we were both cool with it and it was fine. Then I went on vacation, but st... (399 words)

No christmas or birthday card from my boyfriend, is it OK for me to be upset?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I wrote on here a few weeks ago about how my boyfriend of 5 months didn't get me even a card for Christmas after I got him a $200 gift. My birthday was a week later and I did not get even a card for that either. Am I being a baby or do I have a right to be a little upset?... (64 words)

I'm trying to get over her but then she pop into my head!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

14 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey all, Split up with my gf a month back we were not going out that long but everything seemed good we were getting along and her family loved me etc...she is seeing someone else which is her only friend and her family did not like him one bit due to how he act's looks and ... (167 words)

Is he just a flirty man or is he a player? I don't want another one of the latter.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age - i am trying to decided what this could mean . is he just a flirty man with women or is he a player . had a friend of my say this to me an i have got to think about this . that the man i am interested in he is friendly an confident like the attention of many women .have been in ... (119 words)

He changes the subject when I text to tell him I love him. Why would he do this? Feels like I love him more than he loves me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently started dating a guy that I've known for about 5 months. We started dating Dec 23rd. Well, I'm starting to question this relationship. When I text him to say things like: "I like you, I miss you, I miss being with you", things like that, he doesn't reply or asks ... (90 words)

I need to relax but I'm not sure how to!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys. Im a virgin, my boyfriend isnt though. I've been with my boyfriend now for 5 months and we have tried to have sex a few times now. But I always get him to stop because... It hurts ^^; He tells me it's because im too tense. I don't feel tense, but im guessing I mu... (130 words)

Should I have a one-night stand to get pregnant as I really want a baby!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi cupids. Im 18 now and id prefer if i werent prejudged but when i was 14 i fell pregnant to an older man who was abusing me for 2 years 12-14. When i fell pregnant i spoke to a lovely lady nurse about what had been happening and she helped me through, he is in prison, i had ... (275 words)

His personality did a 360, I'm not sure what to think!.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

14 January 2011 (?) age 51-59 - My husband separated 6 months, in the beginning he avoided like the plague, we had been in war for the last 4 years due to his infidelity, then he was caught again on the computer sending some cutsey things to some woman...he swears up and down the woman is a friend...till ... (171 words)

How do I figure out if he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - There is this guy that i really like but i am not sure if he likes me.He recently sent me a text saying I am the one but he has never expressed any interest on me before that and before he sent the text we used to talk a lot(almost endless hours everyday).Now after the text we ... (169 words)

I don't know what to make of his behaviour!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age - The guy I'm seeing has also requested me a friend on facebook, I accepted. I get on kinda of late at night, he has made comments about me trying to meet someone else, told him no. I did the 21 question thing and sent it to him, he took it down off his facebook, what's up with ... (109 words)

I keep falling into passionate platonic relationships!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I've been noticing a trend I have of falling into "passionate platonic relationships" with certain men. It's not that I'm not attracted to men in general, but the ones who really trigger me emotionally end up being platonic friends... what is up with that? Does ... (107 words)

He's asking me what I want in the bedroom and I don't know what to say!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - -I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months. -We are very private so none of our friends know about us. -I lost my virginity to him, therefore am not very experienced in the bedroom -We are both of legal age (me 18, him 20) So we were texting recently and he aske... (152 words)

She dumped me via a text, depicted me as not OK, yet I still love her what can I fdo.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello all, my gf of 3 years, went to uni and dumped me over text and got with another guy the very next weekend! Three months on, i'm suffering from the heartbreak and she is in a "loving" relationship with this guy. I guess i,m happy if she's happy because i'm still madly in ... (122 words)

Should my girlfriend and I transfer colleges?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I are both 19 and have been dating for 2 years. We both just completed our first semester of college. The problem is, we made a decision to go to separate colleges back when our relationship was still new. But we know now that we love each other. We are both ... (214 words)

How do I deal with the alarming behaviour from my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age - My ex hurt me really bad via actions better kept unshared. We no longer communicate, at all. I was emotionally traumatized behind the behavior with which my ex conducted herself with me and decided it better that she and I not even be friends. The grieving process behind m... (410 words)

Help me before I hurt the one I am with to be with the ex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am into a girl but she lied to me that she had no man in her life and I opted to end the relationship after I discovered it was a lie. She has been trying to get back by calling, coming to my Hse, she has changed her way of dressing and looks attractive..... I have ask her ... (109 words)

Homesick and worried about the relationship with the guy I left behind

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I'm from Europe but I recently moved to the US to study here. This year a boy started to have interest in me (when I still lived in EU). So we started to hang out and really got to know each other. It defenitely is more than a crush. So the last two weeks befor... (282 words)

Can you love 2 men at the same time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married to a wonderful man for 3 years now and we've been together for 10. I am in love with my husband, even though he is very paranoid. He needs to call me and check up on me every now and then and this has been the case for the past 10 years. He is not a people's ... (321 words)

It hurts to think after 5 years together it took him only a few weeks to sleep with someone else!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - To cut a long story short... Me and my Boyfriend had been together nearly 5 years.. Living togetther for 3. He tells me one day he no longer loves me and we break up.. very messy as I was devestated. He then met someone else for 2 months then told me he had made a mistake and ... (134 words)

I dislike most people is that bad?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 years old, male, living in Canada and I can honestly say I dislike most people. I'm not necessarily one of those anti-social, "I hate the human race"-types, but most people I know/meet that are around my age, I can't stand that much. To me, everyone seems so out of ... (190 words)

Should I leave him alone or hang around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I also have been seeing this guy we talked on and off for about 2 years now! maybe even more than that we got intimate at one point but NEVER went all the way he used to live in LA and i lived in NY we stayed in touch with one another but once he moved back to NY we fell off ... (171 words)

I'm single because I lose interest in the relationship

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14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I can never seem to stay in a relationship for a long period of time..i blame myself on that part because i am the type that always lose interest fast and things just dont seem to excite me anymore, I hate talking on the phone and i rather be in person communitcating and guys ... (134 words)

Any ideas to get my ex back?

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14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so im going to explain my situation first. . my ex boyfriend and i were dating for 6 months, i know that sounds like a less amount of time, but we were the best of friends and before i met him i didnt go searchng for boys he came to me which made it so much better(: we we... (453 words)

I listen to my friend but when its my turn to talk she changes the subject!

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14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im just wondering if anyone else thinks that someone acting like this, makes them a bad friend or is it just their personality? so my "friend" hasnt been very supportive to me and i have been doing all i can to be supportive to her because we both are going through a hard time ... (197 words)

How do I apologize to my friend?

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14 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - pliz help i have a gal of mine so we have fought so i want to apologise to her so what are the spets to take so that i will not srew things up i love so much but it seems that she already have a boy friend and again im confused on the things to say in a relationship.... (60 words)

I'm getting married but feel like I need more time! Is this normal?

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14 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm getting married in 3 months my fiancee and i have been together for about 2 year i know that he loves me and he respects me and tries to mAke me a better person. we almost Have everything ready for our wedding I'm having some doubts I get scared and sad some times I'm only ... (77 words)

I'm afraid I'm in love with my 1st cousin!

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14 January 2011 (F)

age - I am afraid I'm in love with my first cousin. I think he feels the same way but when he tells me he loves me in text messages and emails I am afraid to question it. We have been seeing eachother intimately for 4 months now. We have known each other since we were young because ... (296 words)

Can you be in a relationship for 1.5 years and never say I love you?

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14 January 2011 (F) age 36-40 - I am 21 and I'm dating a 27 year-old guy. We have told each other 'I love you' and everything has been going great. He told me he had never told another girl he loved her and I'm having a hard time believing that. He has dated someone for a year and a half and you can't be in a ... (81 words)

I have fantasies of my wife's best friends

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14 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I have fantasies of wife with best friends, I tell her and she says you wish. But I do is that bad?... (22 words)

I dream about having a special girl in my life. How? I'm all out of ideas. And What can I do to make this happen?

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14 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been single all my life and it's really starting to get to me. All of my friends are already married or in long term relationships leaving me as the only single guy in my social circle. I love hanging out with them but it always seems to serve as a reminder of my ... (497 words)

Why can't I just break up with my boyfriend?

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14 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Why can't I break up with my boyfriend.. he treats me like dirt and always needs "guy time"..Why can't he just tell me he wants out and why can't I seem to be the one to break it off? I know I should break it off because I really think he is cheating on me. but can't prove ... (62 words)

Should I trust him after seeing the picture of another girl on his phone?

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14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so me and my boyfriend had a little break up cause i wasnt treating him good enough. well we was texting today and he didnt txt me back for 5 hours. then he text me and ask if i wanna go to the movies i said yea sure. so we was on our way to the movies and he droped his phon... (200 words)

Is he still in love with his ex girlfriends?

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14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I started dating my boyfriend for two and a half months and I got pregnant. He's 20 and I'm 18. We decided to keep it and its been a whole year that we've been together and our daughter is 3 months old today. So heres the problem, I recently found some old pictures of my ... (408 words)

So many lies.....Can I ever trust my wife again?

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14 January 2011 (M)

age - I have been married for 3 years and just found out that my wife has done nothng but lie to me about almost everything including 2 1/2 of the years the marriage she has been texting and running in to one of her old boyfriend and about 6 months ago she text him telling him she is ... (243 words)

I still love my ex, but an old friend of mine has told her I was cheating when we were together and its not true!

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14 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - i need help as many of you know i am deeply in love with my ex we had a nasty break up pursued a friendship then rekindled our love even though we didn't make it official. Now heres the problem she was texting an ex friend of mine and decided to give him a chance from him i kn... (298 words)

Scared of having sex again after a bad first time experience!

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14 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm a straight guy, and my first time having sex, I was drunk and it ended quickly and didn't feel good, so overall, not a great experience. The problem I'm facing now is that I'm now nearly scared of the idea of having sex and am worried that could mess up my relationship ... (71 words)

I cheated and don't love him anymore

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14 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I been with my boyfriend for 5yeras we ahve a child together.. I been very unhappy and i cheated.. He found out but he still wants to be with me but I dont. I dont know what to do. I dont Love him anymore.... (44 words)

I cant stop arguing with my ex!

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14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my ex broke up about two weeks ago. we had a two year relationship so after we stopped arguing i suggested we meet in person to sort things out.but i need advice on what to say. i want to him to trust me and stop being so jealous..to stop ttrying to make me jealous by ... (96 words)

My girlfriend is incredibly pretty and I am worried about her cheating when she goes away to college.....

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14 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend and i have been together for over a year now. we started dating in high school and now i am at a local university, she wants to go to a different province for school. anyway, my gf is really god looking, brown hair, hazel eyes, to make a long story short she has a ... (229 words)

My emotional boyfriend is cramping my style!

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14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I tell my boyfriend that I need more space? First of all, we go to school together. I'm usually busy with classes all day long and always have lots of homework to do. Him, on the other hand, is taking soley English language classes (he is from China) and has a lot more ... (282 words)

Everything she tells to me, she tells to her male friends! Surely there should be a difference between her boyfriend of over a year and her male friends?

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14 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so I don't know if I'm overreacting or if I have a valid reason to feel the way I'm feeling and sorry if this is long. Me and my girlfriend have a very good relationship, we can talk to eachother about anything, our communication is very good. The problem I have , well th... (236 words)

Shes afraid of germs and doesn't want anything to do with sex

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14 January 2011 (M)

age - my girlfriend is 45,and I am 70. she's never been marry and has no kids. i'm a grandfather and been married twice. we have been seeing each other for 21/2 years. we both stay at our own homes. the problem is that wshe won't let me kiss her on the lips because of germs,she tells ... (75 words)

I haven't been with a man in 2 years

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14 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay.... I need dating advice. I've been working from my home, and set up appointments. To meet up with my clients I am also finishing my Masters Degree, on the contrary to being shy I take a 180m I have modeled before but I haven't been a man for over 2 years. I need a ... (82 words)

My millionaire boyfriend is a complete tightwad, but he has my heart....how do I deal with this?

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14 January 2011 (F)

age - "Bob" and I have been dating now for 7 months. I am 47, divorced with one child and was married (once)for 13 years. He is 53, was married once when he was 20 (for one month!), has lived with several women and has a daughter who is 17. He didn't know he was the father of this ... (596 words)

Cheated under bizarre circumstances while drunk, don't want to hurt my girlfriend.....

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14 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for 4 years. This is my first relationship, I’ve known that she was the one since I first laid eyes on her, and I plan to propose after we finish college. Last night, I cheated on her. I went over to a friend’s (we’ll call him George) apartmen... (522 words)

He wants me to help him come out of the closet, how do I do this?

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14 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! I finally got a boyfriend and am SO HAPPY! I have a question however. He is slowly coming out to his friends. I mean VERY SLOWLY. He is not out to his parents yet and his parents don't even know that I'm gay. I am not at all worried or offended by him goi... (105 words)

Should I choose to keep my family together, hoping that this is just a glitch, or should I be with the other man?

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14 January 2011 (?) age 51-59 - I have been in a pretty happy relationship for 15 years with a beautiful 11 yr old daughter. OK my mum in the UK died last year and this finally gave me a reason to go home, I had been trying for 15 years to go home as I missed my family. My partner couldn't come with me due to ... (601 words)

Why cant I enjoy sex anymore?

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14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys i'm in dire need of some advice. My fiance of 4 yrs and I had this great sex life about two years ago. We started intercourse about 1yr and half in and it was great. I even started it sometimes. Well my parents found out and they flipped even though they really ... (187 words)

She's bothered about what her friends will think

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14 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 42, my girlfriend of 4 years is 26. I originally lived with my brother after splitting with my previous girlfriend. 2 years ago, my now girlfriend wanted us to get our own places, live seperately for a year or , then move in together. I got a flat virtually straight away, ... (355 words)

Am I pansexual?

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14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I'm a 19 year old female. Lately I'e been having some problems labeling what's going on in my head. I don't know if it's just a collection of what-if's or if it's an actual thing. I'd really like to clear this up in my head, because it's making things harder now that ... (289 words)

Can I really trust this man ?

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14 January 2011 (F)

age - Hi, Sorry its long hope you take the time to read and answer. nearly 3 years ago i found out that my h/b had cheated on me he said he was going through a mid life crises and he was flatered by a co worker who was 20yrs younger also married to be intrested in him. I found ou... (627 words)

Does she really want me back? Or is she using me for the time being?

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14 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I just about two months ago broke up with my girlfriend after a relationship where we lived together for over two years. This was my first relationship and it became very serious quickly with much future plans together. About one and a half month after the break-up she tel... (424 words)

Do guys change over time? Are they perfect the first couple of months and later they show their real faces?

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14 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years. It was all great and perfect in the beginning. He used to give me flowers, we used to hang out and be happy. This was the first couple of months. After that I guess he got too comfortable with me and he stopped doing the things he ... (589 words)

When I said I love you he laughed!

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14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I guess I would just like some opinions. Today I was with my boyfriend and we were hugging and I said I love you. This is not the first time I've said it, we've been together for 5 months btw. But anyway when I said it he laughed, when I asked what was funny he said nothing so ... (90 words)

I'm worn out and tired of trying to please my boyfriend anymore

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14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, so my boyfriend and i have been together for about 7 months now...we've been through quite a lot...moving in together due to family issues, Family disputes with his grandmother, pregnancy scares you name it. I'm 19 he's 21, he has plans and goals and a lot of ... (241 words)

I'm scared he won't date me in the future!

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14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - me and someone who i was dating are still friends and i want to date again but i messed up really bad though i never actually cheated and i relize that i really messed up but i also relized how much im inlove with him he told me that its a possibility that we would go out ... (93 words)

Is holding out for our relationship such a good idea?

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14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and I broke up because we were both going to seperate universities and felt that it was more important for us both right now to concentrate on our education. We have kept in contact since we've both moved and still see each other when we are at home for the ... (131 words)

How do I get my wife to be a freak in bed?

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14 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - how do I get my wife to get more freaky in bed. She says im too horny all the time. she lets me watch porn but does not want to engage in bedroom activities. ... (34 words)

Shall I break my friendship with my male friend cause my husband doen't feel comfortable?

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14 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Normally I'm comfortble with male friends than women. My husband had no problem with that. I love my husband and everything is just great in the marriage. I have two new male friends recentelly. I really enjoy talking to them. I almost meet at least one of them every day. The ... (242 words)

Can I be with him anymore because of his pot addiction?

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14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been dating my boyfriend for two years, I'm struggling with whether or not I can be with him any more because of his pot habit. At first I never minded because I thought it was just weekend use, but now its multiple times every day. It pisses me off more than anything, ... (159 words)

I love him so much that I physically can't do anything because of the hurt

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14 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, so i am openly gay and i have this friend who used to be my room mate and was bi for years, and over summer, he got this girlfriend. but yet we had this connection that him and his girlfriend didnt have and we were planning to get togeather when they broke up and m... (281 words)

Why does my bf lie about things that are so small?

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14 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of a year keeps lying to me. He recently told me that he cancel his hotmail account because his not wanting to do anything with his friends. But here is where it get a little foggy. He told me he created a gmail account. (i know it takes 270 days for a hotmail ... (204 words)

Broken up, back together and now want a more exciting sex life1

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14 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my bf have been together for almost 2 years now. We reccently broke up but got back together a few days later. Now don't get me wrong the sex is great, but lately i've been wanting to do different things. So my question is how can I spice it up a bit? and any sex posi... (101 words)

Does my ex have insecurity problems?

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14 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, Ok here we go, I went out with my ex for only 4 month's which is nothing compaired to previous relationships in the past, ther is 8 years difference between us, one of the reasons I got with her is because she wanted a relationship and seemed mature. Just befor... (399 words)

Friend flirting on the girl I failed on. Need help with myself.

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14 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Earlier this year I decided to go after my high school crush. I jumped in to fast and she let me down softly (thank god) and said we didn't know each other well enough yet. I made a mistake there, and I hate myself every day because of it. I still like her but I got confused ... (232 words)

DId he hear a rumor about me?

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14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There was this guy I really liked and who seemed to really like me (all the signs were present). Suddenly, out of the blue, he is avoiding me and I do mean obviously avoiding me. I wanna know...what in the world happened?! One day we were flirting, the next day he couldn't... (121 words)

Have you ever loved someone so much that you can't bear it?

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14 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you ever feel so much love for someone that you feel you can't bear it? I feel so much love for this person it really scares me. I'm scared to let myself feel it. I almost feel as though I can't cope with this feeling. It's as if it's difficult to contain. I know this sou... (73 words)

Did I just ruin the best friendship I've ever had?

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14 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i literally just told my best friend in the world that i loved her and she was so confused that i brock the aquard silence and told her i needed some time and all she could say was that she needed some time also. so now i just feel like crap because she obveously doesnt like ... (231 words)

My boyfriend doesn't want me around his friends

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14 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend doesnt seem to want me around his friends....we have been dating 7 months now, I have briefly met his closest friend and his wife and another older friend. Briefly, meaning they stopped by for a few minutes one day when I was at his house. I have met some of the ... (186 words)

What is the right way in dealing with my ex wife?

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14 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - what is the right way to deal with seeing my ex wife who i still love with her new boyfriend? we were together 4 years and have been seperated 10 months,she met this guy through one of our many mutual friends and i constantly hear of where they have been etc..im jealous i ... (68 words)

He's acting rude and mean! What do I do?

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14 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys and gals.. my problem is a guy were not together but we have been talking for awhile now and he's been acting rude and mean which he hasn't ever acted like this before what am I supposed to do?... (43 words)

How do you make anal sex hurt less?

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14 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i have recently aquired a new gf we have been going out for about 3months. we have always talked about having sex but we hadnt for fear that it wouldnt ruin the relationship, but as time went on we decided to do it anyways;-) after a few weeks we tried different things such as ... (86 words)

He still checks an online dating site, I wonder if I am being played

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14 January 2011 (F)

age - I met a man on a dating site, we have been dating a little over a month. I really like him and he said he really likes me too. He brought up deleting our accounts, I deleting mine, he said he can't figure out how to delete his. He said he is not looking for anyone but still ... (99 words)

Sometimes he makes me feel so important, other times like I don't exist!

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14 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i am so confused. me and my boyfriend haven't known eachother very long but we already live together (his idea). the thing is we have lived together just over a couple months and sometimes he makes me feel like im the most important thing to him and other times he makes me feel ... (253 words)

My boyfriend is a cheating drunk, and I don't know if I can trust him

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14 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. We have 2 children together. When we first met things went really fast we were living together in 3 months and pregnant.When we met I knew that he drank pretty heavily, but during my pregnancy I found out that he was also an addict. ... (210 words)

I want my girlfriend to experience sex without a condom but she refuses

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14 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I want my girlfriend to experience sex without a condom but she refuses? We're in our late 20s and have been dating exclusively for over 7 years. We started having sex about 2 years after dating, I'm her first. I've had multiple sex partners before her and most didn't use ... (521 words)

My lady friend's daughter caught us cyber sexting!

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14 January 2011 (M)