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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is this relationship doomed or do-able..

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all This may be a long read, but here goes= I met A in 2007, when I was out with my BF at the time. A told me he was smitten with me the moment he saw me, asked me to dance, talked to me, etc. I told him I have a BF. He kept persisting until I gave him my email and ev... (936 words)

My boyfriend preferred watching a movie with his best friend rather than with me....and I had arranged a day off just for the two of us!

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, here goes :) I arranged to get a day off from work so that my boyfriend and I could watch a film that he had bought, and just spend a nice quiet night together... But I just found out that he watched it with his best friend instead. I'm furious that he decided to watch... (177 words)

Dear cupid... please shoot a love arrow at my ex

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29 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey! I guess this seems like, to me, a very generic situation but who knows... every couple is different. I just need some help about this relationship I was in and I need advice. So here is some background info: I have grown up with a family that has moved residence... (818 words)

Boyfriend lied and the trust is gone

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend lied to me and now the trust is gone. Long story short, last friday he went out with his friends and I went out with mine and he phoned me afterwards (after I phoned him to say goodnight) to say he had a good night at a local pub. Turns out, a friend on FB pos... (145 words)

Is it right to stay with the only man I have ever been with?

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - dear readers, i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, he has been the only proper boyfriend that i have ever had. i love him very much and he loves me to, we have a great relationship. But people always seem to think its ridiculous that i would want to spend my life... (122 words)

Are men really ok with small perfect breasts?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

29 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend is a boob guy.. i know that he loves boobs,..big boobs especially. Im about 34b. i lost a lot of weight and lost most of my breasts( i was 180lbs now im 125). they are perky, he tells me he loves my boobs but always comment's on boobs on tv, girls with huge boobs. ... (130 words)

Should I ask him why he doesn't speak to me at school?

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a guy i talk to every day, and who goes to my school. I have sooo much in common with him. He likes me, i think he's two years younger than me, he never used to talk to me before, he's sooo shy at school. it's like i dont exist and everyone says its because he might ha... (144 words)

Why doesn't my mother like my boyfriend?

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi guys! I haven't posted in a while, and regardless if that's good or bad, I do have something I want opinions or solutions on. Recently my mom has been making rude remarks to not only my boyfriend but also my sister's, and she also keeps saying she doesn't think we'll last or ... (333 words)

I dread bumping into him! I thought we were friends!

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, Recently I have been working away and met back up with a guy I met previously before, we got on well and stayed in touch via email. Spending a month together I learned he was quite a moody man, very fickle one day very friendly the next moody withdrawn sometimes not even... (193 words)

My boyfriend has become distant and is being an ass!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

29 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is being distant. I am 20 and he is 21. We have been together for almost 2 years now. He use to always be a gentleman, caring, fun, loving etc. However, recently he has become a complete ass to me finding the simplest things to complain about between us causing ... (194 words)

Does this make me a sick person? I don't want to hurt him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been talking to this boy online for a few months now, we're both 20. When we met I was getting over my ex, so he was kind of like a rebound. He gave me comfort and made me happy from a distance, which is what I needed. Eventually I told this boy that I love him, he did the ... (344 words)

Can one child destroy a whole family?

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29 January 2011 (F) age - I have a very tragic life. My whole family i destroyed. My children, are all troubled, and I have other serious problems as well. Some chronic bad luck. The family picture is terrible... There is drug addiction, Death from drugs, crime and shame. Me and my husband can't un... (143 words)

My friends either let me down or leave me out of their plans. How do I make new friends?

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Since I graduated, some of my close friends have moved away. The girls I work with are still around and I lived with 2 of them for 9 months, yet neither of them talk to me, text me, or invite me to anything. They are still in college so I guess they don't care. :( They were ... (323 words)

How do you stop caring when you know things aren't going to go anywhere?

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am absolutely smitten with this guy, I rarely see him, maybe once a week, but I feel so attracted to him and although I get asked out very often by guys he is the only one I want as a boyfriend. I thought he liked me too and I thought it was all going to take off after we ... (153 words)

I want them both but they both want me to get rid of the other!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help on choosing between two guys. I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 21 and lives a state away. We met over the summer and had an instant connection. Over Thanksgiving break he came to visit me, and we had sex six times. He even gave me a $500 engagement ring, as a promise ... (259 words)

It all went great at first but then I got kind of bored.

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone ! First i just wanna say i love this site ! It's great to hear other people's opinions. Ok, so I've been dating a guy for like 2 months already, it all went great first weeks, then I kind of got bored and we are verryyy different.I like going to clubs,... (227 words)

I'm trying to make this guy want me!

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am trying to make this guy in my class to want me. We are taking a law and security course, and have been getting along great.When we have physical fitness classes in the gym, I will wear my short running shorts and when we have swimming I have even worn my very skimpy b... (85 words)

Boyfriend of 3 years has been sleeping with someone in my bed!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

29 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I jus found out that My bf of 3 yrs, has been sleepin wid someone in my bed.am so devasted.becauae i loved him.he's acting all defencive mentioning that am also doing the same.wat should i do.get my things or leave them for him...i want peace!... (45 words)

Without chasing him or embarassing myself, how do I get him to ask me out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

29 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have crush on a guy I work with but I can't work out how he feels about me. Firstly he is younger than I am, he is 18 and I am 21. We get on really well and have a lot in common, and when we work together time passes by so quickly. So we have been flirting a bit for the last ... (184 words)

I'm curious about sex but don't want to ask my parents!

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 and really curiuos about sex, but I don't feel comfortable about asking my parents. Is that normal? And how can I learn more about sex without asking my parents or them finding out?... (35 words)

Why are bigger breasts bigger?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) age 36-40 - How to learn to love small breasts? I have small breasts, and I don't like how they look. I know women can look good with small breasts, like Kate Hudson or Natalie Portman, but I just don't think they look sexy or hot, just pretty. I'm also more built like Shakira, except ... (506 words)

Why is he with me?

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I'm dating an older guy...I'm in my mid twenties and he's turning 40. But my main concern is..he's much more educated...he has a career and is financially stable...well traveled (he's been all over the world!), knows so many amazing people (and I know this because I've ... (286 words)

Why does he say "I want to be next to you"

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ineed help asap. What does it mean when a guy says he wants to be next to you ? Are they trying to ask you out or what ? Thank you !... (32 words)

I couldn't do it! Is that normal?

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29 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i had the chance today to move forward with my girlfriend...i honestly thought that i was ready but i froze and couldnt bring myself to "do it"! is there something wrong with me or it natural or what?... (38 words)

Three year relationship - is it going anywhere?

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Known my partner for over four years, been seeing him for over 3. I'm in my mid twenties, and he's in his early thirties. When we first got together we had been very very close friends. It was very intense, and we talked about our feelings and how much we wanted to be together. ... (1065 words)

Girls, when you were 14 how would you want a guy to ask you out because I really don't know how to do this?

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29 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - First some Backround. There's this girl who is everything any guy could ask for. she is the smartest person in my school(and thats saying something) she is drop dead gorgeous, she is the funniest girl I know. She is also so nice and has a great personality. Now I've known her ... (372 words)

Best friend, who's in a long term relationship, declares his love for my girlfriend

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29 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear all, I have been with my girlfriend for over a year, and we have a strong relationship. Last night, however, she revealed to me that one of my supposed closest friends told her that he was in love with her, and that I was a bastard who wasn't good enough for her. ... (283 words)

My friend won't get over her unrequited crush!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

29 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have this friend, lets call her A, who likes this guy, lets call him B. It started out with A and B being friends. Really good friends. A had a crush on him for a long, long time. B didn't. A eventually convinced herself that B did like her. So she told him that one of her ... (328 words)

Now we only have sex once or twice for 5 minutes!

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I have been together a year and 8 months and married 6 of those months...we've been going through financial problems once we got married and I've noticed the last couple of months we have started to not have as much sex, I know sex isn't everything but I feel I'm ... (183 words)

I cant cum when masturbating?

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29 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - hi im 14 and i can ejaculate when having a wet dream but cant when mastabateing can you say if something is wrong whith me?... (25 words)

Girlfriend lied to me about her ex!

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29 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - What should i do....my girlfriend lied to me about her x not being at her bday party?....lets call the girl b and the k....b was having a surprice party that her mom was throwing her and the mom had happen to invite her x....so after the party she hits me and we talk and i ... (205 words)

I love her but my brain wont let me stop thinking about it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

29 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I was wifes first kiss her one and only love but I broke her heart. She later went and had sex with another man for a minute and told him to stop because she knew it was wrong and it didnt feel right because she still loved me. The man did not orgasm or nothing. I know since ... (116 words)

How do I become "just friends" with him if I have already fallen head over heels with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

29 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok, here goes: A year ago I started dating a married man. In that time, we have "gotten caught" 4 times, (but not in the compromising position you are probably thinking) He left his facebook up, she hired a private investigator, text messages, etc. I have since moved 1000 miles ... (129 words)

I feel like I have to do everything for him, for us.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

29 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and a half. We are'first loves'. We've been living together for about a year, and I'm getting to the point where I don't know if I want to stay with him, but if I think about leaving him, the guilt overwhelms me, and I ... (276 words)

Should I let him go and accept we just aren't happening or keep at it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - today me and my friends where talking about my ex-boyfriend whom i still have feeling for. she walks home with him and was telling me how hes scared of dogs and hid behind her when he saw one. she was telling me other things i should have known like what his parents are called ... (127 words)

What's it like moving school?

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - What's it like moving school? Like is it hard to fit in cause everybody has already got their friends. I'm having alot of problems at my school atm cause this rumour is going round bout me doing stuff with this guy and everybody thinks its true which it is but its going to be ... (110 words)

Men are such an enigma. What would you call this relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Its simple. I really adore this guy whom I kept meeting at work. Though not co workers we are in a formal set up. In years we have become warmer. He is aware of my problems n tells me Im around when required. I liked him and we kept in touch. Then I moved away and still the ... (202 words)

Why did she say I was the first but then tell the doctor differently?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

29 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - hey , well I am in a great relationship with my girlfriend had ups and downs but we talk about our problems which I thin maes us strong. I am the kind of guy who believes in plain speain and no lies as I hate liars. Anyways my girlfriend and I have obvo got a great sexlife and ... (256 words)

How do I explain to friends that I don't want to be touched because of my disfigurement?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

29 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - It's me again. I have people who are pressuring me to be in a relationship, but there's just one problem...I'm permanently disfigured. I used to have tits, and then I had surgery. It still doesn't look normal and the Doctors don't care. But the point is I can't accept my body ... (134 words)

I feel like my soul left since the day we broke up. I can't get over her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. I am writing again, because I feel like I have no one to talk to about my problem. To rehash my story, the love of my life left me almost 4 years ago after being together for almost 5 years long distance. I have not been able to get over her. I'm gay and she was my first ... (644 words)

Can I get pregnant if he came but I didn't?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it possible that I can get pregnant if my boyfriend came in me but I never came? And I start around the 5th of every month?... (28 words)

My boyfriend's ex-wife and son are constantly interfering!

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Well here goes I guess. The guy I am seeing is perfect for me. I know he feels the same about me. So our problem is his 16 year old son and his ex. She has sent me facebook messages saying she wishes us the best, but then argues about me all the time to him. I met his kids and... (865 words)

Why can't he be enough for me? How can I change to accept him for him

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am not happy and don't know what to do. I was internet dating for 5 years and met lots of men who lie and cheat and finally met a really nice guy who is introvert and doesn't soclialise. At first this didnt bother me as I got him all to myself and he didnt flirt or talk to ... (363 words)

I can't think straight when it comes to him but I don't think this is the way things should be

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am with my bf for an year. At first he was very nice, considerate and we talk almost daily in phone. For the past few months i am seeing some changes in him, like 1. He often says i am stupid, idoitic, crazy, psycho.. 2. He never apologisies even if we fight, actu... (298 words)

I am always the girl next door

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am always the girl next door. I have had two long term relationships and with both men, it was about them loving my personality. It was never because I am sexy, or hot its because men feel comfortable in my presence. I want men to really feel passionate about me. One boyfr... (214 words)

Help!!!! Never kissed properly, does it come naturally?

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, the question is simple enough and i'm really nervous about it. Does kissing like (getting off) come naturally? i get put off going out with boys because of this. i'm really self-conscious my first kiss will go wrong or something. But like i mean how do you do it, is it... (90 words)

Time of the month she turns into someone else.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

29 January 2011 (?) age 41-50 - Hey everybody, Really need your help so here goes. Thanks in advance. I've been dating this girl for a couple of months now and everything was going well up until a week ago. It's the time of the month and I don't want to sound like just a typical male. I want to try an... (472 words)

I like him but he might think I like his mate

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Right, answers please i need as many as possible. i have just met this lad in my church and i like him quite a heck of a lot. there was this party las night for the church and we flirted a bit, it was all good, but he spent quite a bit of time with his ex,and was laughin... (98 words)

I want my boyfriend to hit me.. Is this normal?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2861 days ago

29 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - For some reason, I have a strong desire to be in an abusive relationship with a guy. I want to be hit, thrown to the ground, or pushed into a wall. I'm not sure if this is normal or not though. My boyfriend seems like the kind of guy who may do something like this, but at the ... (273 words)

Does he need space? What should I do?

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im 19 and still new to this guy thing,Ive only dated 4 guys in my life and 3 of them didn't last even a month...But the one that lasted we were together a year and a half...and i loved him to death he was my first everything and even first bf. We broke up but still talked every ... (678 words)

I'm almost 20 and totally inexperienced in life?

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29 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a guy and in my first year of university. I've never even been on a date and i've only kissed one girl in my whole life and that was when i was drunk and in a club. Is that a turn off?? If a girl liked me now then i wouldn't know what to do when taking her out because i wo... (346 words)

Would I be crazy to take my ex back?

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29 January 2011 (?) age 41-50 - Would I be crazy to take an ex back? It was a LDR, he broke up with me (amicably) a few weeks back and I guessed he was getting cold feet, scared of commitment or whatever as I was looking to re-locate in the next few months to be closer to him. Been together less th... (286 words)

Am I being paranoid? And how can I impress this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear agony aunt, I like this boy and we are good friends. I told friends that I liked him and they thought it was cute. I'm not sure whether I'm paranoid about it, but for some reason he has seemed quiet towards me. I have asked the people I told whether they had told him... (84 words)

I'm always there for him and I'm a good mother to his kids...then why doesn't he trust me and love me back the way I do for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i am an OFW, im in a long distance relationship, he is 10 years older than me, we are together for 7 years, and we have 2 kids. i love my partner a lot as if i cant see my future without him, though we are not married yet because of some conflict in him yet i still love him ... (283 words)

How would I suggest we have a FWB relationship? And is it a good idea?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so, me and this guy "D" were dating for about a week before I found out he had been cheating on me with two girls. This happened around 6 months ago. ''D'' and I really haven't talked much since then until a couple days ago when I decided to ask him to hang out with me a... (337 words)

Why do the girls I like seem more interested in guys way less successful than me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Help, I need major help getting on track! Hello all. I am 27 and for all intents and purposes I consider myself a virgin (the one night of 5-hour attempt where I got no pleasure doesn't count). I can't find anyone compatible and I try every day. I am far more successful t... (222 words)

The best way to please a guy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

29 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear readers, I want to know what is the best way to pleasure a male in bed? what would make him very happy?... (26 words)

What's the best way to handle my 'Grumpy Old Man'?

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I see my boyfriend at week-ends, as he lives an hour's drive away. It annoys me because he likes to stay up until 2-3 am during the week and by Saturday is not up to much. He likes to sleep in until mid day. I like to be up and about and not to waste the day. I spent my ... (141 words)

How do people determine the right age for them to have sex for the first time?

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm asking the readers this, male and female, young and old, to answer the age old question of how old is the right age to have sex? is it based on how you feel about your partner? the legal age? Your religion? please answer for all the many readers as I would apprecia... (59 words)

Is my wife still sexually attracted to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4136 days ago

29 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been married for 13 years, and I love her with all of my heart. I'm more attracked to her now than when we first got married. However, I don't think that she's all that attracked to me anymore. Our sex life sucks. I want it all of the time and she never... (143 words)

Our four year relationship has stagnated. Could it be reinvigorated? And how?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - We are in our early twenties. We have been dating nearly four years (having met in high school). Things were passionate but have died down steadily. I truly love her personality (at least the positive part of it). But there are things that have been getting in the way. I don'... (662 words)

I messed around with two women...now I want the second one who loved me but I ended up hurting...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 January 2011 (M)

age - Before anyone starts throwing rocks at me pls hold off and hear me out. I fell in love with 2 different women (woman A and woman B). I fell in love with woman A first and boy did I fall hard. The complication was she wanted an open relationship while I didn't but ... (610 words)

Request for any ideas on how to spice things up please?

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How to "Spice" it up? My boyfriend said he wanted to experiment, do new things. He is tired of the same ole same ole. We will do anything but actual full on intercourse, we are waiting on that one. Well we are kind of out of ideas. We tried the whole Breast thing, where ... (115 words)

Which states perform legal lesbian marriages? And is the marriage upheld if we re-locate?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

29 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Does anyone know what states perform lesbian marriages, and if the marriage is still considered legal, if the married lesbian couple relocates to a state that doesn't uphold lesbian marriage? My girlfriend proposed to me yesterday, just hours before being deployed by the ... (115 words)

My lesbian friend suggested we have sex before I can be her gf. Is this how it operates?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

29 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a virgin and a lesbian. There's this girl who goes to the same college as me and she's also a lesbian. We met in our history lecture and have become tight. She's been out for 6 years and has had lots of girlfriends. She keeps telling me that she likes me bunches but want... (168 words)

Verbally he is telling me no, but emotionally telling me yes.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

29 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend broke up with me a little less than three weeks ago. the only problem we ever had was that he didn't think he was good enough for me. (i have a few college degrees and family money, he dropped out of high school and is broke) but he has a wonderful heart ... (446 words)

Adding girth?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

29 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so I just wanted to know if there are anyways to increase gerth, I know that those penis enlargmEnts don't work, but what about adding gerth? Anyone try something out and have good results? Thankss... (41 words)

How important is the ring?

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29 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - She said "If I got an engagement ring I didn't like,or was to small I would return it and buy something I really liked." Part of me laughs at this the other part is scared out of my mind. Who would say something like that, I thought engagment was about love not a piece of ... (61 words)

Are love and marriage a deadline?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Does anyone else think women now a days are more in love with the idea of "love" and "marriage" then they are with the true meaning behind it. I keep meeting more and more women who talk about marriage like a dead line rather then the importance of actually being in love for ... (61 words)

How is he able to move on so fast after our breakup?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So my boyfriend and I went out for a year, and we broke up two weeks ago because we just didn't have much to talk about anymore. He's been flirting with a few girls an awful lot, especially with one girl who is a complete slut, and it just makes me feel so shitty. I mean, ... (122 words)

I'm fourteen, he's nineteen, should I arrange for us to meet?

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ive been talking to this guy he is nineteen and he lives in south carolina and i live in california but like im really starting to like him and i cant help but smile wen he txt me ive never felt like this before and im not sure what to do im fourteen and ill be fifteen march ... (139 words)

Threesomes, Texts, Truths and Drama

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, I have this friend, we'll call her Moon. Now she and I have been friends for almost five years. I've seen her go through several boyfriends, as she has seen me do. Her boyfriends though, ranged from emotionally abusive, spoiled brats, to physically abusive charmers... (953 words)

Honeymoon & Birth control

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29 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My fiancé and I plan on not using protection on our honeymoon except for when she says it's time to start "being careful". That should be about the last few days of our week in Florida. She isn't okay with birth control so I will use a condom. Her mother talked to her about it ... (78 words)

In lust with a married man

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I need some help. I really don't know what to do anymore. I am in lust with a married man and I can't get out. I can't stop wanting him! I know he can never be mine. But yet I still want him. It's been a year and a half that we've been friends. But nothing has happened... (246 words)

Am I wrong to be angry with him for making these money decisions without me?

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - am i wrong here? i have been with my boyfriend on and off for a year and half. he was getting a lump sum of money and we were going to get married sometime this year but i think thats not going to happen...anyways he got the money early today and we had agreed we would go pick ... (118 words)

Married 5 years, still virgins, help!

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29 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - This year I will celebrate my 5 year wedding anniversary. Unfortunately, my wife and I are still virgins. I love her with all of my heart. People that know us think we have the most wonderful, romantic relationship. Love letters every morning before I go to work, flowers ... (211 words)

Sudden break-up?

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy at my job about four months ago. I decided to give it a try. He's about 6 years older than me so I thought everything would be ok as far as maturity and a relationship. We would always go places on the weekends and talk on the phone. All of a sudden, that ... (141 words)

Is it wrong to try and not love him?

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been having issues with my husband of 2years. I've been sleeping in another room for the last 3 nights. The maid had to work early today so i moved back into the bedroom i played on the computer for a bit being tired i went into our bed he just slept like all well. When he ... (82 words)

Best way to apologise? And what about the confusing dreams?

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29 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hellos thank you very much. me and my ex broke up four weeks ago. I broke up with her because her explanation to a certain text to her 'friend' was not satisfactory. We were having problems too but I was the centre. Communication has been minimal and more so because we remov... (340 words)

Don't want to hurt him... but I like someone else!

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - What should I do? I have a really awesome (most of the time) boyfriend (lets call him Rob), and recently I've been thinkin that maybe I like someone else (lets call him Fred). And I think because of Fred I got over Rob. I don't want to hurt Rob, but I don't want to lead him on ... (91 words)

Shall I continue and pursue things with my love?

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi everyone, i am female, in love. my last relationship was 3 years ago and it was awfully devastating as he left me after our wedding plans and everything was set, now i am inlove with a guy- who happened to be in an open relationship with a girl whom they have kids.an open ... (447 words)

I think my boyfriend could be gay?

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Thank you for reading this. I have never used the Internet for answers, I am very confused. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years and we love each other undoubtedly. Lately though I have been questioning his sexuality. There are a few things about him that make me ... (222 words)

Help! I don't want to get too close to my best friends!

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there I know this may seem weird but all my best friends are boys. Were a group of 6 and we've been best friends for a couple of years. Now that we've matured I guess, they suddenly started to have little crushes on me. Those little crushes turned to huge crushes and now ... (134 words)

Sometimes I feel as if I have a room mate and NOT a wife!

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29 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Me and my wife have been married for 4 years and I have had lost my job and we had a baby and I have noticed that lately she has lost interest in sex, she has worked a lot more hours the last few months but here lately been saying I have a headache or too tired. she has 4 days ... (122 words)

Am I wrong to feel this way...?

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my first boyfriend and I had a tempestuous but passionate relationship, eventually he hurt me too much and about four years ago I had to leave him, he broke my heart but I still cared about him as he was my best friend, since then he has always told me he loved me and made no ... (168 words)

How can I tell my mistress to get an abortion... NOW!

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29 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. Just seeking some advice. I have been married for 7 yrs been with wife for almost 15. she's older than me by a couple of years (I am 37 my wife is 43 and my lover is 35). , but I think she is my soul mate. I cheated on her before this time, but this is different. I met a ... (507 words)

Whats the appropriate age for sex?

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - dear readers, i wanted to know when you people think is the appropriate age to have sex? i know you are supposed to when you and your partner feel ready, but is there a time that is t young? is 14 or 15 to young? what if you had been with your boyfriend for 2 years? does... (67 words)

A third chance... or a third mistake?

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29 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi folks, firstly let me attempt to generate a picture of my current relationship... I have been in a very tight relationship with a caring girl for the past 6 years, and I have made sure that I have spent most of my time attempting to provide a comfortable life for her, li... (416 words)

How much patience is enough???

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for nearly 2 and a half years. I am a couple months older than him and I attend a university two hours away, while he is in his last year of high school. This is my first year at a four-year university. I went to a community college in town, ... (437 words)

Girlfriend like my best friend, keeps in touch with him more. Am I second prize to her?

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29 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, one of my best friends knew my new girlfriend before me and they liked eachother but didnt get together when she asked him out he already had a girlfriend but he offered to break it off to be with HER!!! then she meets me and says she likes me etc and i love her ALOT.... (353 words)

I haven't had my period in 3 months and I'm not sexually active

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - im 15 almost 16 and ive had my period for almost 2 months now...its comes and goes when it wants but its usually ever month but at different times and different flows but it has recently started 2 not come a month then it went 2 months now it is 3 months without my period and ... (102 words)

Queefing, it's soooo embarrassing!!!

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to never queef but last year I had a boyfriend and we would have sex 3 or 4 times a week. I haven't had sex in six months and I still queef! It happens when I do yoga or I lift my butt up in the air. Is it because my vagina is too loose? This used to never happen. Is ... (73 words)

Drunk "I love you"?

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So what do you think if someone rings you up or texts you in the middle of the night to say "LOVE YOU xxx" Is this a drunken expression of a deep emotional feeling, or merely a drunk expression! What makes people say "I Love you" at times when they wouldnt normally expre... (72 words)

My boyfriend thinks I care for him for no reason, what do I do?

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend tells me today that "you have no reason to love me or care about me, you just do. Which is pretty much you don't love or care about me. " Well we have been fighting about this for hours now. How do I tell him I love him and care for him? I told him I care for him ... (121 words)

After all the suggestive behavior, he says he's not in love with me and I'm just a friend!

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have known a male friend of mine for 8 months.We are friends but not close.We see each other once a month and it's always in a group. It was my farewell party 3 months ago.I dressed up and I took some photos with my friends.This guy friend drank some vodka. Both of us were ... (661 words)

I don't get my ex? Help

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so im really confused. My ex. He had broken up with me because well ; Him and my best guy friend use to fight alot and shit.. And I never knew who to go with after they got mad at eachother and got into a fight and my friend always took me with him , and im guessing my e... (363 words)

We work together, we slept together, I wasted so many awesome blowjobs on him....just to realize now he was married all along!!

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My heart is broken. I've been seeing this guy for a year now. He pursued me, but I saw evidence in his car and at his office that he was involved with someone so I said no thanks, friends! He swore up and down that he was single. Eventually I started to believe him, but in t... (187 words)

Will I pass the security vetting for this new job. Please advise me!

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys, this is not a romantic question, but i need help please. Oh my goodness, I need advice. There's a job at my work, but it says I have to pass security vetting! I know it won't be high level, but I'm panicking because I had to do an IVA because my boyfriend left me ... (74 words)

How do I know if this guy treats "us" just like a fling or if it has the potential to turn into a relationship?

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been having this fling with someone for a few months now and I have been feeling confused about whats been going on and where we stand. (If its just for fun or if there is potential for example) When it has come to dating etc, I have always been shy about telling th... (149 words)

The most difficult question ever: What is Love???

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Last night my boyfriend asked my what does love mean to me. I told him it means everything to me .He said i dont understand. I told him its hard to describe love for me. Then he told me how can i love someone if i cant even describe what it is to me.Does this mean anything ?... (58 words)

Is this really just part of my cycle?

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29 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hii.. just a lil question im just needing s few opinions from the outer world to compare with mums answer but ok ill jsut tell u lol.. its part of beeing a teenage girl -at 16- according to mum; whenever i go to the toilet i always find some sort of white gloopy substanc... (89 words)