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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Birth Control - Spermice & Condoms

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there anyone here who uses spermicidal gel and condoms? I cannot use birth control pills because of a medical condition, so what I was wondering if anyone has personal experience with this or how it works? Would it be uncomfortable or anything? I was thinking of Gynol II and ... (60 words)

I had no feelings for him, so why do I feel like my world's come crashing down?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

28 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I dumped my boyfriend because i didnt like him but only thought of him as a friend but why do i feel like my worlds come crashing down on me when i had no feelings for him?... (37 words)

Parents are struggling financially. Should I let them move with me if I buy a new home?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

28 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advice... well I moved in with my parents when my husband and I separated. My dad quit or got fired from his job, we really don't know the truth. I thought it would be a good idea that I pay them instead of staying on my own. Well I've been here over a year now and I'm ... (244 words)

The ex and I both noticed that we don't want to be in relationships with other people

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5072 days ago

28 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - hello there well catch up, i met this girl the most amazing girl i have ever met, funny, smart, beautiful and i love her, she loves me to i know it. we broke up but before we broke up we decided that if we break up and see other people, if we can tell we dont want to be in th... (146 words)

He said he doesn't love me anymore -- does he mean it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years. We have had our ups and downs just like anyone else. We have broken up several times but seem to get back together. The other day we got into a fight and he told me that he didnt love me anymore. Was he just mad or telling ... (92 words)

My boyfriend doesn't really like to talk on the phone

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - dear readers, i would like some female help or a male opinion on this one.if my boyfriend doesnt like to talk on the phone very much should i just wait for him to call me? he loves me and i know that, but i just love talking to him on the phone and he prefers to either c... (110 words)

I hit my girlfriend, is it my fault or hers?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - im 15 ma girlfriends 14 were in the same year but im not proud of what i did but i need some advice me and my girlfriend were arguing after something that happened at school i kinda said she was flirting with my bestmate because she was hugging him and every thing but now my ... (155 words)

"You can tell how people will have sex by the way they dance", and my husband said I am a terrible dancer.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently my husband and I have been having issues. He completely ignores me and only has mean things to say to me when he speaks unless we are doing ok. He does not talk things out to work them out with me. I let him throw his fit for a few days, me being pleasant 100% of the ... (305 words)

I'm confused, do I like him or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5072 days ago

28 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I like a guy not for sure if he is interested in me. I'm always talking about that i just want to be his friend but I really want more just dont know how to tell him. It may be me I'm may have falling to fast... (47 words)

Does this make him gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

28 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boy friend has a fantasie of me having both male and female sex organs, and he fantasizes' him preforming oral sex with the male organ, and also doing him from behind. Could this mean he is gay or bi and he's to embarrassed to say anything?? Please help.... (49 words)

He knows I like him, but how can I know what he thinks of me?

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - The guy That I Like Knows I like him and talking to him is fine but I don't know what he feels and I am too scared to ask him what he thinks in case its bad. I like him as a really good friend as well but I have a massive crush on him and I just Dont know what to do at all! ... (67 words)

My "lover" won't date me because he thinks he's gay?!

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so i am fairly young and shouldn't really have relationship problems in the first place. But anyways, im only 15, i have a "Lover" i guess you would say that, he is 16, but i dated this guy before, and then we kind of just drifted and then didnt talk. Then all of a sudden ... (434 words)

I can't tolerate porn due to a horrible experience in my past!

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My problem is that I hate porn. It dates back to many years ago when I had an awful experience and I have explained this to my partner and how it reminds me of a horrible time in my life which I have sought profession help to overcome. I told him that I need 100% trust on ... (215 words)

The pain during periods is so intense I feel like I am dying, and to top things off I saw my ex boyfriend with another girl...!

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have tried everything - pain killers, hot water bottle, chocolate, etc. Nothing works! My doctor said that my uterus lining sheds too many nerves, and that's why I get so much pain. Well, I am fed up with it. I'm 17 years old and the last thing I want is to miss my college ... (420 words)

What would be the best position for a virgin to use?

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28 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend are exited to have sex but im still a virgin what would be the best sex position for a virgin to use?... (26 words)

I've loved him most of my life, now he's engaged and I can't stand to lose him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been friends with my best guy friend since we were 4 years old, we are both now 21. He is recently engaged and they are expecting a baby. I have been in love with him for pretty much my entire life, we had a sexual relationship on going for the last few years, and I reg... (145 words)

My friend backed out and I'm uncomfortable meeting him alone

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was going to meet up with this guy i know and my female friend at first tomorrow for a coffee, but my friend has decided that she wants to go to see her boyfriend. I dont really want to meet this guy alone. Some things happened that now make it uncomfortable for me to be ... (124 words)

She says she's hung up on the age difference

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28 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys. I'm having some issues I guess you can say. I've fallen in love with my friend. But as the scenario is. She told me she loves me and would go out with me but she says there is an age difference and it would be weird. I know this for a fact but my phylosophy is age is ... (124 words)

Thinking of giving him seductive (not naked!) pics for Valentines

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to give my boyfriend of 2 years some sexy pictures of me this valentines day. However I do not want to be naked, or have my body exposed in any way, as I have heard horror stories of how this can turn out. What I would like to do is suggestive while at the same time not ... (175 words)

The guy I like! Please answer this for me!!:)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

28 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm sorry if it's too long, I just think it's better more than less:) I have been meeting a guy quite a long time we first met for about a year ago just to have sex and rarely talked together, but now we are starting to meet more and for other purposes, and talk a lot t... (335 words)

Just need advice on how to lose the weight and tone up and also how to get rid of stretch marks.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and about 5ft. I've wrote on here about my weight and everything but I need some advice of diets and losing weight. When I was 14 I weighed just over 7 stone and then put a bit of weight on when I was 16 so I was nearly 8 stone. I didn't put this weight on on purpose ... (252 words)

I really need an answer for how to stop being so needy and clingy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi; I am 45 and have been single for almost 19yrs. Everyone says I am a great person and very good looking. But my friends also say that I am needy and clingy. How do I stop being so needy and clingy? My thought were the reason was because when I was 7 yrs old my broth... (191 words)

My real life friends want me to delete my online friend from my life!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - what do i do! i met this guy online and we really like each other. however i told my bestfriends and they were like what the hell. I have been talking to him for 7 months , we talk to webcam etc etc and we both like each other. We cant be together as he lives in another ... (112 words)

How to get negative people out of you life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a really calm person but this guy has got me so mad. He is really pervy I told him to stop saying things to me because they were making me uncomfortable. He follows me around like a dog and carry's on saying things I don't like. I tell him to stop then he gets a bit ... (126 words)

Is this pain normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Any time my boyfriend fingers me I feel pain; I am a virgin. And after the act I get this burning sensation and it lasts for about 3 days. I want to know if this is normal?... (38 words)

I'm in love with 2 boys and don't know who to choose!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 years old and I have a boyfriend, I love him very much, he is really sweet when he wants to be and am quite sure he loves me, he adores me but he is not very understanding. It's hard opening up to him sometimes so I met someone else who listens to me and he is like my ... (133 words)

Why didn't he give me a Christmas gift?

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Why didn't my bf give me anything for Christmas? I send him something personalized.. I send him a Christmas card and all he said thank you he was happy and all... but its almost February and he never gave me anything...Last year for Valentines we went out too eat and he got me ... (121 words)

I feel we have something more but I just don't know.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5072 days ago

28 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so, a few weeks ago, I starting hanging out with my friend a lot more before I went away to college. We hooked up. I really did not expect him to follow up or keep talking to me. Maybe its just my insecurities but I'm still surprised he likes me. Anyhow, its been two ... (359 words)

His wondering eyes lead him to unconscious actions!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

28 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it normal to do things subconsciously without realizing what you are doing after the fact? I've caught my fiancee three times where he would let go of my hand when a hot/cute/good looking female passes us by. It's irritating and just I believe disrespectful of him to do ... (291 words)

I haven't yet had an orgasm with him, I don't want him to feel badly.

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So I have been hanging out with this guy for over four months now. We have had sexual intercourse four times and I have never had an orgasm with him yet. He said something the second time and was like 1. you're nervous cause I just got out of a relationship 2. because we work ... (123 words)

Girlfriend's best male friend is an old fling, which makes me way uncomfortable.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

28 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have just started seeing a new girl. She has admitted she has never felt this way about anyone in the past, and I feel the same; this is all after only 2 months. My problem is that one of her closest male friends is someone she has slept with in the past a few times. She says ... (173 words)

How do I ask my friend out?

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28 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I really really like my friend in high school.. she's perfect..everything a guy could ask for.. but idk how to ask her about her bf/ ex.. she hasn't talked about him in awhile and I haven't noticed her with him and she's been really flirty for the past week or so.. i don't ... (82 words)

Am I big enough?

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28 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm about 5.5 inches, maybe a little smaller but I was wondering (as i am a virgin) if I'm big enough for vaginal sex with my girlfriend? And what position would be best for my length to get the most in?... (41 words)

I really really like her but so does my friend! Advice needed!

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28 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - theres this girl i really really like and i have fallen in love with her. we used to talk a bit but now we speak very regularly. i think that she likes me but i'm not 100% sure. the problem is that my best friend really really likes her too. he spoke to me about it a f... (237 words)

Could he actually like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

28 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Theres this guy in my class. He's been out with a few girls, but not many. I recently moved to his class and now we spend alot of time together in school. I really like him but the problem is I'm a guy too. I'm openly gay at school, and he definatley knows, but he never talks ... (156 words)

I'm not sure if he likes me as a friend or as more?

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure if this guy likes me or not, in an attracted way or as a friend . He is an actor ( not a very well known one , but he is the son of a well known English actor ) . I met him once after a show he did which i saw with my friend, and he even let us go for a drink ... (402 words)

Should I leave, so she can find someone who will make her happier? Don't want to lose the love of my life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been with my wife for 9 years, married for 3. I love her like no other and we have 3 boys together. About 4 months ago, we really had problems. I got so depressed and turned to trying to kill myself, but by the grace of god and my loving wife beside me at the ... (259 words)

How to tell if he likes me or is just looking for a booty call?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok i met this guy from the internet and weve been talking for awhile but he tells me that he doesnt want to rush into a relationship, because all his other relationships never worked out. Well we use to text each other everyday and now he wont even text me, i have to text him ... (175 words)

Are these concidered threats?

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28 January 2011 (?) age 36-40 - I got into an argument with a group of friends and one particularly hot headed male sent me a facebook msg saying this: "You are a crazy c*nt. Good luck bcuz your world is coming down real soon, you pennsylvania retard." My reply: "its really trashy to threaten a girl.... (136 words)

She is so uncomfortable talking about our relationship, how do I get this to move forward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm not quite sure which category this should go into, since it's a long story that crosses a few. So I met this girl online. This was about two years ago and we met on a penpal website, not a dating website. She's a Korean who lives in South Korea, I'm British and I li... (388 words)

Should I reunite a decade later with a long lost friend?

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28 January 2011 (?) age 41-50 - Does anyone have any stories involving reunions with long lost friends/interest that end well? When I was 20, I met a man while interning in a city over the summer. He was 40 at the time and we hung out just talking and walking around the city. I enjoyed his company and ... (532 words)

He tells me he still loves me, but he still doesn't want to be with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

28 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy 3yrs ago, and we fell in love. I have serious trust issues with men, purely based on being cheated on in previous relationships and the main reason being because in my family, all the men have cheated, and betrayed the women they were with, including my father. ... (262 words)

She hasn't told anyone we broke up, what does this mean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - what does it mean when you split up from a parter of three years, but they havent told their parents, friends, or even changed her relationship status or pix of the two of you on FB?me and my ex gf broke up and she wants to stop talking for a little because it feels like we are ... (145 words)

I love him but he already has a girlfriend

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - love him so much, i'd die for him...but he's got a girlfriend..who's older then hee...what can i do?i feel i can't live without him...hurts so baaaaaad((( ... (26 words)

Does my 'friends with benefits' guy have deeper feelings for me than he is letting on?

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a friend with benefits, problem is i think im in love with him,he was my first love when i was 13 years old and now im 27, we met up for the first time in all these years about 5 months ago and one thing led to another and we have become friends with benefits, we do ... (357 words)

Do you think he's gay, or just a man with feminine traits?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this man over a year ago. We worked together on the same project for probably 6 months. We had quite a few conversations in which we found out we had so much in common. We continued to get to know each other and I asked him to go for a coffee one day out of the blue. ... (277 words)

She has a profile on a website designed for married people to cheat....I'm not sure if I can be with her anymore knowing she could do this

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

28 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have just discovered (or rather the computer repairer told me) that during a period where we broke up, my girlfriend had joined a site that is there for married people to cheat on each other . She`s down as single but seeking attached or married men. The profile is still ... (333 words)

My ex-wife is dating someone else....and its too hard for me to accept this

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28 January 2011 (?) age 51-59 - I recently found out my ex wife is dating. We were separated for a year and the divorce was just finalized. It was amicable and mutual. I've been working on returning to a sense of myself, healing and planning for the future. I thought I had moved on, but the thought of h... (166 words)

Why do I want this other guy sexually when I'm in love with my fiancé?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

28 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm in a mess and I really need some advice. I'm 23 years old and I have been with my fiancee for nearly 5 years, we've just got engaged and we're extremely happy together. I love him more than anything and I couldn't imagine being without him. The trouble is, I've recently... (202 words)

I get a bit limp when sex gets energetic......

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28 January 2011 (?) age 51-59 - I am curious about a minor ED problem I seem to be having. When I am having sex, I can stay rock hard indefinitely. But it seems like when I get my heart rate up, like when I'm on top pumping hard, I start to lose my erection. It's like the blood is going to my muscles ... (164 words)

Mismatched sex drives and now she doesn't like it if I turn to porn!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfreind only wants sex ounce a week and never during her period but i have a very high sex drive so i want to masterbate infront of her, she used to be ok with it even give a helping hand but now she doesnt like it when i do it and hates it if i go and look up porn to ... (69 words)

I'm going to give him space, but what do I do to get him back?

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28 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend and I were going out for nearly 7 months. he broke up with me last week and we are on good terms. We've agreed to be 'friends'. And he still does talk to me The reason he broke up was because he just wanted to be single. but he doesn't want to sleaze around w... (152 words)

He left me saying there was no future, but I love him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

28 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my beloved were together from the last 2 years. 6 months back he left for another country. He left me saying that there's no future(and was trying to ignore me from last 3 months). Yeah,i know we two are from different caste and his family is very strict on this point. ... (72 words)

Did I do the right thing to break up with her? I feel bad for hurting her, but she hurt me so many times.....

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28 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, hope you are fine and doing well. I am really really sorry it will be very long for you to read, but please read it and give your kind advice and comments on this. i have a sad story and now am confused if i did well broke up with her in fear of not hurted in future..... (1174 words)

My boyfriend says we have broken up but it's more like we are on a break!

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. Me and my bf have just broken up and we are both devastated. we both still love eachother very much. There have been alot of problems, including me suffering from depression and paranoia which he really struggles with. I am on medication and having some ... (432 words)

23 and in love with a 43 year old woman....will this work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

28 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a male aged 23 years old. I am in love with a lady aged 43 years old. Can this relationship be successful? We love each other very much.... (30 words)

Will it all be over too quickly when it comes to having sex?

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28 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - when i masturbate fantasizing i ejaculate within 5-6 min actually , but i prolong it to somehow 15-20 min by stopping at the point of no return...i masturbate watching porn i got quite a fast erection and then it is just 3-4 strokes away the orgasm, this all happen in within ... (93 words)

Is my boyfriend trying to dump me again??

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi my bf was really moody and nasty with me for the past 2 weeks. I felt very depressed and scared that he is going to dump me again ( he already did twice) and called him yesterday middle of the night. When i logged into IM today to chat with him, he accused me of being... (102 words)

I'm allowing this impossible crush to ruin my life...help!!

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28 January 2011 (M) age 41-50 - It's been asked a billion times. How to get a crush out of ones head. As the story goes... I met a woman, I fell for her from the first second I saw her, we talked, I could not take her off my mind and we met and met again, at some point I confronted her and presented my int... (309 words)

My husband gets his family involved with everything when I only want his opinion! How do I handle this situation?

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i am away from my husband for my delivery since last 3 months.right now in my house.i ve a step mother. i feel lonely in the house as nobody is there for me to share something.my relatives are taunting as some are angry with some family prolems with my parents...my husband is ... (149 words)

We met through an online game but now things have gone bad, what should I do?

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - well im a 31 year old woman who has been playing this game online for almost 3 years, ive meet a lot of great people there. well ive been playing with this one guy for a lil over 2 years we have always gotten along really well . and back in may he called me to tell me he really ... (746 words)

My boyfriend is a selfish lover. Do I give him more chances, or kick him to the wind?

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been widowed for 11 years now and haven't dated at all in all that time. My son is now in University, and my 2 daughters will be heading there in the next year. This past November, I started dating a man that I've known for many years. After about a month and a half... (535 words)

I chased a loser and lost a winner...

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everybody I came here to vent and maybe someone can help me out. I'm lost and sad. I spent the past 4 and half years chasing after a man who come to find out had a fiancee. I found that out half way through but didn't leave him since he kept promising me he was gonna move ... (527 words)

The married woman I had sex with keeps calling me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

28 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, This is my first relationship with a woman. she is 40+ and I was 20+. She is married and I'm single. We worked together in same comapany and I like her bcos she is smart, charming and good looking. That story was started from the day I left the company. she ask me t... (182 words)

I have no female friends and am lonely. I have turned to masturbation to cope!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, i am a 19yr old guy, pursuing engineering.i have this strange dis-order of social illness.I have very few friends and i want to remain in their zone only, people don't like me because of my this introvert nature. I cannot mark my presence in social gatherin... (287 words)

My loyalty to him is in conflict with what my friends think of my actions. I'm in a panic. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm in a panic, because my best friend has moved to another area, and i want to go too. i get on really well with him and this is why i'm in a panic, because a few times i've rowed with him, over silly stuff. And at the time confided in my two closest friends about this. Now th... (135 words)

What can I tell him to persuade him to seek his family's safety first and acting on peace after?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

28 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - This is not a problem of mine but a friend. I work in a shop next to his and we talk alot. His wife and children would always visit him at his workplace and they were so happy. Sometime in June that all changed. He and his family went on a trip back to Pakistan to visi... (452 words)

Should I contact her or should I let a sleeping dog lie.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - This is my story. About 16-17 years ago I meet a gal a terrific gal that was getting a divorce because he cheated on her. We shall call her Jill. At the same time strange as it may sound I was seeing a married gal. We shall call her Rose. Well, Jill and I took right to ea... (523 words)

LDR trouble--she says she can't wait forever!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hi im currantly involved in a long distance romance/love (as we are not in a LDR commitment) latley my girl has been really cold towards me and bitchy because of her frustrations that we cannot be togather all the time, im trying my hardest to correct this situation, but latley ... (255 words)

Will we end up like everyone else?

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my guy have been together for a year and a half now, and going strong. He is truly my best friend, my soul mate and we get along great! As time has passed though, I have seen a lot of the relationships that were going on around us (friends...etc.) fall apart. Our rel... (211 words)

Boyfriend lies to me all the time

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for three years. I am 20 and he is 19. I noticed a year-a year and a half way through our relationship that he was lieing to me all the time.Just tonight i caught him in a lie that he didnt even have to lie about and when i got mad at him, ... (196 words)

Weird to have few friends? I have moved 4 times in 2 years during middle school.

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have moved over 4 times within 2 years, during my 7th and 8th grade years. That means I have attended 5 middle schools. I made many friends in each middle school, but never got a chance to become best best friends... So in high school, I basically gave up making friends and ... (104 words)

Boyfriend said he still loves his ex

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend (who is 34) and I have been going out now for 5 years. He regularly tells me he loves me. His last serious relationship also lasted 5 years and he split up with that girl about 18 months before we got together. I asked him today, just as part of a casual ... (264 words)

My best friend hads lung cancer at 27 and she is pregnant

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok. i am fourteen and my best friend is twentyseven. i meet her because i babysit her two year old daughter. she is like my sister.ive known her for two years. she just found out she is pregnant.she also just found out she has lung cancer.i am so worried about her.my mother ... (188 words)

How do I tell him to kiss me?

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok well im 13 and i have a boyfriend and hes really shy and we have been dateing for awhile and he hasnt kissed me and he told my friend he was gonna kiss me awhile ago and he hasnt but i dont want to kiss him first so how do i tell him i want him to kiss me?... (60 words)

I'm really into her, any tips?

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28 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - So I'm a freshman in highschool and Ive had a crush on a junior since beginning of 2nd quarter started now in 3rd she just transferred into my theater class and it's been really hard not to admire her (stare) ;P sometimes when I'm not looking I'll turn my head to catch eye ... (130 words)

He is definitely not giving me what I need!

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28 January 2011 (?) age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 6 years off and on says he loves me so much, and wants a future with me, but he lives in another state by choice (not because of his job), and i haven't seen him for 6 months-he is coming on monday to stay at one of the four houses he rents. he forgot my ... (344 words)

The maturity gap between us is beginning to show more and more

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28 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 8 months now, this is a long distance relationship where we get to see each other every few months, for a period of a week of so. We are both moving to the same city here in june, and hopefully see each other more often since she will ... (634 words)

Should I enough them to break up by telling him about his Gf's cheating?

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - This guy started talking to me back in march of '10. I never gave him the time of day, but gradually he started to like me. I only saw him as a friend. Then I started to realize how cool a person he is and how he's been trying to get with me for about 6 months. I slowly s... (213 words)

I'm putting off having sex because I can't last long!

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28 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there I have not had sex on a regular basis in over 6 years, I have recently started dating a girl, and have been putting off sex because of performance issues, in bed I can only last a few seconds. I am terrified, and embarrassed, what can I do to last longer? With my previ... (74 words)

I'm drowning in her love!

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28 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I cant breathe!! My gf and I have been dating for 2 years now, and ever since that 2 year anniversary, she has just been drowning me in love constantly. She says she loves me almost every 20 mins on the phone and shes singing my name over and over and saying she loves me. I ... (145 words)

Pregnant, cheated and guilt

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend now for a year and a half. Awhile back I did something really stupid that I totally regret, I cheated on him one time with an ex of mine, which is so totally not me and I didn't mean for it to happen,and I realize how low and shallow my ex was now. ... (247 words)

I could treat him so much better than his girlfriend!

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - well basically to start off,im 16 i may seem young to some people on here but ive had to grow up real quick, quicker than other teenagers so im really machore and i need some advice, i dont normally ask for advice myself because im the type of person who will bottle my problems ... (306 words)

Dating site guy turns out to be someone I already know!

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a bit of a sticky situation. I recently signed up to an online dating site, having been single for too long. Now, I messaged a guy, as he was local, works in the same profession as me and looked nice. BUT I have just realised, I do actually know the guy, we share ... (136 words)

Do I give my ex a second chance or just push it aside?

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28 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend broke up 3 weeks ago and like a week ago i poured my feelings out and told her how i felt, her reply was that she was also thinking about us and asked me on a date. I accepted but i had bad luck there was a snow storm and her power went off and her phone ... (164 words)

My boyfriend thinks I'm guilt tripping him

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have a little problem that is gradually getting worse...I'm 18, my boyfriend is 19 and we've been seeing each other for about three months now, I've known him four years prior. Anyways, we haven't seen each other in a couple of days due to exams, my boyfriend and I ... (299 words)

I don't even know if I want to go there with him anymore!

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Four months ago my boyfriend and I broke up after being together for 7 yrs. During this whole time we kept in contact with each other everyday. He has been seeing another woman for about as long as we have been broken up. Finally one day I decided that he as right..we ... (303 words)

I think my boyfriend has an obsession with the internet? HELP?!

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. Where to start.. I'm a mature 20 year old and I was seeing my boyfriend for 9 months until last week. After a couple months of our relationship, I found him on the internet talking to different people about our relationship, nothing too bad, but enough to piss me off and ... (516 words)

Telling someone you cheated in the 1st 2 weeks after being together for 2 years?

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28 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so this is just one about cheating and being unfaithful I would like to ask the females since I'm a guy. If you cheated on someone in the first two weeks of a relationship because it was long distance and you didn't think that person would last long anyways, would you come ... (91 words)

I don't know what I do that makes guys not interested

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known my best friend all of my life, shes has been well known for having a bf and having guys after her. where as im the one who doesnt get any attention. She knows that i feel down about this even though i am happy to be alone im use to it, but its just a bit hard to ... (208 words)

Younger husband wants to have a baby even though I am 48 with tubes tied and had major back surgery

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28 January 2011 (F)

age - My husband is from another country he has just finally arrived in the U.S. about 10 months now, before we got married he said he wanted children, but I told him my tubes where tide and not sure if I wanted more, but I love him and I know he would be a good dad. He then said he ... (415 words)

How Do I deal with a moody, somewhat selfish, loner, low sex drive bf?

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - so ive written on here before.. i have mixed feelings about my relationship.. maybe its not my bf..maybe its me.. ive had alot of bad luck w/ guys and i feel ive let them walk all over me..so in this relationship, im trying to communicate more and not let them take advant... (495 words)

Am I addicted to him?

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my bf for almost 6 months. I'm 19 he's 33. Eventho he works and I go to school we used to see each other once or twice a week. We used to go out to eat and we used to have sex every time I saw him. Now he has been busy and haven't been able to see me for the ... (161 words)

I want to give him something good!

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What's The Best Way To Please your Boyfriend In Bed ? I Feel Like He Always Pleases me and his birthday is coming up and I want to give him something good and I want to know the positions that will have him wanting more. ... (46 words)

Why doesn't she say I love you?

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28 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - The problem i used to have is that my girl friend will hardly say i luv u at the end of our talk on phone,even when i said dat she will hardly replied. She only does dat wen she is alone and i'm not comfortable with dat. I can't imagine dat, i've warned her for about three ... (78 words)

Is she a loose girl? her type of manner is turning me off.

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28 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hiya all, i have a liking for this girls who i'll call jane. jane says she likes me the same. thing's jane's always talking about other boys that wanna go out with her. it makes me uncomfortable and irked. why does she always do it everytime we talk? i'm wondering if she's ... (132 words)

Am I now the best friend that she can cry her shoulder on?

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28 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I was just wondering, my ex girlfriend is missing her now ex boyfriend. Well she basically told me she is not interested in dating me after I had brought her out for some fun one day, she is not willing to lose me if the relationship fails (again). She then invited me for ... (196 words)

Will I ever stop loving my ex?

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 now but when i was 15 i started seeing a boy, he was a year older than me but i loved him with all of my heart, he made me so happy, he constantly told me how much he loved me, that i was beautiful and special and he never wanted to lose me, he bought me flowers and took ... (377 words)

She wants space to explore and then come back to me

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28 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok guys heres the deal ive been with the same girl for over six years. I love her more than anything and we have been engaged for 6 months. We got together young she was 14 and i was 17 and until recently i was the only person she had ever been with. i found out four days ... (350 words)

I'm bored but want to save the relationship

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I know I'm young and naieve but I think my relation ship is serious. I've had relationships in the past where I have gotten bored so i left. I am now bored in my current relationship but my boyfriend doesn't know i feel this way. Should i tell him? I love this one and don't ... (117 words)

Does it matter that I'm black?

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28 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 and on the ending stretch of my 8th grade year. I really like this girl and she is really nice to me and I Am nice back. I was thinking about asking her out but I'm black and she's white. I don't have a problem with white people all of my closest friends are white. I ... (76 words)

The issue that broke us up isn't an issue any more ...

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I split up on 5 days ago and were together for 3 months. He was 23 and I am 19. We split up because, since I was a virgin, and after a couple of times of trying to have sex it was so uncomfortable it put me off. He was extremely patient and never ever p... (290 words)

G-spot stimulation but no orgasm?

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently squirted several times when my husband stimulated my G-Spot. The only thing is, it feels good, but it's not like an orgasm. Can you please tell me how I reach that? ... (33 words)

He said we were moving too fast ...

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met someone through friends about 8 months ago. We started with simply text messages and a couple phone calls and I really liked him. We wanted to same things out of a relationship and life. He seemed perfect. We decided to take things slow because I told him I had a fear of ... (265 words)

I've been putty in my parents' hands

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28 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Agony Aunts, How can I make my Parents respect me? I feel They aren't taking me or my words seriously and are trying to make my decisions for me. They get emotional when I tell Them to not meddle in my decisions. How can I not hurt Them and still get Them to take me seri... (319 words)

Rejection Year for me

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28 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Cupid peeps ^-^ Im new here but today is just not going so well for me :( Like actually this whole year is bad. I dont mean to be all doom and gloom but my self confidence aint so great. I mean it was awesome at the end of last year when I met new people and everyone... (279 words)