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writes:dear cupid,so i am openly gay and i have this friend who used to be my room mate and was bi for years, and over summer, he got this girlfriend. but yet we had this connection that him and his girlfriend didnt have and we were planning to get togeather when they broke up and monthes went by and then they finally parted, but yett he didnt want to get togeather beceause of my parents, (we lived with my parents) and so after a long while he told me that he liked me way more than he did in the begging, and i told him that i thought i waas in love with him from the momment i met him... and after a few weeks went by he got back togeather with his girlfriend and i respected them being togeather because i knew we would have our time to be with eachother, then after a few monthes went by, the confessed that he didnt like me anymore, and he said that he was thinking he was straight. and he told me that i made him uncomfortable. but as time went by, he got over himself, and one day i got a full size bed and we would sleep next toeachother and he would randomly hold my hand and fall asleep. i still love him with all my heart, i love him so much that i cant stand this pain anymore, and now hes not living with me and all i want to do is be with him, i physicaly cant do anything anymore because the deppression is soo starved for his love, how do i get over him? help?
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reader, yum yum  +, writes (14 January 2011):
 As a gay in this world, you must remember one very important thing. Most gay guys are afraid of getting committed into relationships. I say this from experience, I had many experiences were I knew somebody liked me a lot etc..but they are afraid of commitment. Its due to the social stigma and prejudices in our society. Good luck !
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