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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

She wants an open relationship, I don't!

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23 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - So my wife and I have been married for two years. We've been together for 6. We have two children 4 and 2 years old. We've been financially struggling for the last 2 years. When she first got pregnant we were fighting a lot and I left her for a year and a half. We got back... (217 words)

I'm paranoid that she may cheat!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

23 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 18 years old, and have lately got engaged to a 16 year old. We have such high hopes for the future, and I love her to death, literally. Obviously, there are problems. I am trying to become a tennis player, and that obviously requires my full time attention. I live in UK, ... (380 words)

Ex said he wanted to be friends but he's not talking to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend, and I was heartbroken, however when we broke up he said he still wanted to be friends and talk with me, yet nothing's happened. We talked for like a day after the breakup and then nothing since. I do wish that we used to talk like we used ... (108 words)

We have an open relationship but he says he hasn't been with anyone else. Should I trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with this guy since this time last year. After being together for 7 months, he moved to my home country in Asia for a new job. I visited him after 1.5 months and he told me he's very attracted to Asian women and found difficult to resist the distractions. I proposed an ... (396 words)

Boyfriend watching porn, says he doesn't care if I break up with him or not

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I recently found out that my boyfriend has been going on this website called [name removed but suggests pictures with no clothes on]... ALL THE TIME!. He wont reply to my texts, he doesn't talk to me, i feel like he has emotionally withdrawn from me. We live together so... (168 words)

Girlfriend isn't trying to communicate with me, should I just give up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so Tuesday night my girlfriend was supposed to come over after i got off work, she also told me she was coming. when i got off she told me she was too tired, i got madd cuz i really wanted to see her and i cussed her out. the next day i appologized. she really hasnt been ... (198 words)

Boyfriend going to travel for 3 months and I'm starting to worry about how to handle it

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23 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - hey, me and my bf have been together for a year now. hes planning to go away for 3 months travelling which is absolutely fine and i encourage him to have the freedom to do what he wants and follow his dreams etc. but the more i think about it the more im worrying about how its ... (198 words)

How do I successfully ride my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend loves it when I ride him but after a month I still don't really know what to do. I have trouble keeping a rhythm up. He tells me to lead and he'll follow along, but I always end up losing it and having to pull myself out of the moment to think about what to do ... (112 words)

I think I just lust over this other guy. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and I recently met a bloke in the office I work in. He told one of my colleages he fancies me. He then asked me on a date but I said no as I have a bf but I do find him attractive. Now I can't stop thinking about him. Is this normal? I ... (76 words)

Are we fixable?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone I hope someone has the time and heart to help me. I've looked for advice everywhere and never an answer no matter what website I've gone on. Here it goes: well i've been with my fiancé for 2 years now. We have a 4 month old daughter and we both can't seem to ma... (494 words)

Why do you think he spends his time trying to make me look bad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i need some advice. Me and my daugther's father broke up a year ago and since then we have been arguing about things like him calling his daughter or him sending her back home because he moved to georgia after the breakup but the thing is when we argue, he shows his ... (136 words)

Should I make her Miss Right even though she doesn't challenge my mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear everyone i would like to hear your honest inputs on this statement. i alway wanted to settle for a smart intelligent lady, someone who would challenge me thoughtfully until i met nally she is my current girlfriend now and i love her so very much no problems whatsoever but ... (202 words)

My faith in him is broken... I need your help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My heart is torn. The issue is i been married for five years separated for a year and a couple of months. Well my husband was having issues with keeping a job and had depression. He does smoke weed and started experimenting with Ecstasy. He slowly started turning into a ... (415 words)

Now I feel as if our whole relationship was a sham...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Jo I split up with my ex-boyfriend at Christmas 2009 after 2 1/2 years and have never really got over him as there was no official split as such - I thought (mistakenly it turns out) that we would work things out but he never responded to me so in time I came to the conclusi... (1028 words)

How can I get out of this dark place???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - For just over 4 years I was single. 100% single, no flings, no one night pulls, nothing. But in my 2nd year of uni I met someone from out of uni, and we started seing eachother, but i never wanted to make it official because of a previous relationship now just over 5 years ago ... (798 words)

I'm jealous because my friend has a boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so here it is: My friend recently got a boyfriend and she's incredibly wrapped up with him. We used to hang out everyday, but now she's with him. A lot. The thing is i'm incredibly jealous and it's making me depressed. She's never had a boyfriend before and i want to ... (73 words)

I can't stop living in the past... help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - last summer i split with my boyfriend and I loved him like not in love with him but loved the person he was and i feel like he stole my heart and never really gave it back cause now this guy likes me and he's really nice exactly my type of guy, treats girls well, wants a ... (95 words)

How can I tell if she's really interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - well the girl I met a little while ago is awesome she is beautiful funny and understanding and we shared a similar sense of humor so that is great. yesterday I spent a couple hours with her just hanging out then we went to a basketball game. She told me about her friend who I ... (596 words)

Help!!! Miss him and want him back!

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23 January 2011 (?) age 26-29 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend, He was the first boy i ever loved and he told me he wanted to stay with me for at least over a year.. We had such a lovely time in the holidays though, the best few weeks of my life. He was the perfect boy i had dreamt of.. When he b... (174 words)

He doesn't love/like me the way I love/like him...???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my bf told me he doesnt love me the way i love him but then he explained and said to me that he meant to say he doesnt like me the way i like him. so whats the difference? doesnt that mean the same thing... like or love me. im confuse please help..... (53 words)

Any tips on how to meet men and make my availability clear without seeming desperate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 30y old woman, and I have been single for quite a long time now. I have a very stressful job, and I work long hours and earn a good living. I also have a tight-knit group of friends, who I see regularly. I am slightly overweight (uk size 14), but quite attractive and w... (251 words)

Help! How can I tell if I'm pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay... well me and my ex were going out for about 9 months till we broke up. Sex between us is very good, we both enjoy it. I love my ex and he loves me. His a great guy very respectful too. I think it was a week after we broke up we had sex, he came in me this was about 2 or ... (180 words)

Should I leave my home to pursue my dreams?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i know this would sound like a wierd question,but i'm that desperate,i dont know who to go to.. i am at that point in my life where i dont like what i am doing, i chose it because my parents would never let me get into the acting industry.. but i know for sure what i want... (237 words)

Scared of marriage...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm kinda scared of actually getting married. All of these stories on here about one partner cheating on another, or leaving because of unhappy marriage, etc etc. Is there such thing as a happy marriage? I know I am only 18, and believe me, I'm not planning on getting ... (394 words)

Fitting into the social circle

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I want to hear from someone who is really up on social situations, getting along in the social world, making new friends, etc. We are not originally from the community, but we have lived in the community (a small community) for eleven years. (When I say that we are not origi... (509 words)

Brother in law lusting...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i met my current partner 10 years ago have a beautiful 8 year old girl and are very happy, about 2 years into relationship i began to talk to his brother in law and chemistry built with us and has ever since. we all go out 2 gether every weekend me and brother in law flirt ... (253 words)

Confessing my love for her killed my chances... what do I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

23 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - my question is a little bit weird yet i feel like getting the answer from you members of dearcupid. The very begenning of my story took place in the 3rd of october 2010 when i first met this gorgeous girl at the company i recently joined. She was the one who trained me to use t... (128 words)

Will this new relationship survive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age - If a man leaves a long-term relationship in which he was also engaged to marry this person for someone else and quickly becomes engaged to this other person what are the chances the new relationship will survive? My ex left me after 7 yrs. together basically, becau... (496 words)

Troubles with the reinstated ex!!!!

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend knew each other for about a year before we start actually dating, and we were together for about a month before we broke up.... now a couple of months later were back together.. because we both felt like we broke up over something so stupid.. now for the ... (115 words)

My boyfriend doesn't trust me...

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23 January 2011 (?) age 36-40 - My boyfriend doesn't trust me because of who i was 8 months ago. I used to unintentionally 'flirt' with guys. To me it wasn't flirting but it came off that way. I met my boyfriend and we started dating and i completely stopped all of that because he told me it botherd him. i ... (265 words)

Where do I stand? I'm going mental here!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5078 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I posted a question about a boy who seemed to be flirting with me online. I concluded that he was, that he probably liked me and that I quite liked him too but wanted to take things slow. Over the christmas period he was messaging me every day just to say hi and being ... (371 words)

Head wrecked!

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 16 soon to be 17 and i am really confused i really need your help theres a boy at school i like but hes got a girlfriend and i did something i regret i sent him rude pictures i hate myself for doing it the thing is he flirts back with me and i feel like i am falling in ... (82 words)

Rude pictures were my downfall...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love with a boy from my school but he has a girlfriend but i know he likes me because he flirts with me all the time and i did something i really regret - I sent rude pictures of myself to him and lately he has just fell out with me. i really love him but it hurts and i ... (82 words)

Help! How can you tell if you're being used???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I was wondering if there is a way you can tell if someone is using you as a friends with benefits sort of thing? I have been sort of involved with this guy for several months now. I feel certain that he does like me, however I do have my doubts because of other people's o... (179 words)

Why would he have condoms in his pocket especially empty ones?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been in a relationship 4 a while its very open. i go out and have fun when i want and so does he. the only condition we have made to each other is that we tell what we are doing and that has worked out fine (or so i thought) anyways the other day i asked my bf if he had ... (195 words)

She wants to "find herself"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok me and my ex broke up bout a week ago, she says that she needs space to find herself b4 she can put her all into me again she promises that she not looking for anyone else or is gonna get involved with anyone else she says that she doesn't wanna change her facebook status ... (86 words)

His friggin ex!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Oki.. so Ive now been with my boyfriend with 2 months and we are very happy 2gether, but 1 thing is that he keeps talking about his ex girlfriend to me and it makes me quite upset and jealous, he keeps saying that i'm way prettier and stuff, and then he sent me a pic of her to ... (94 words)

I really don't know what I would do with out him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 and my boyfriend is 18 we have not been together that long but I am so in love with him and i would do anything for him. At the the start of our relationship I thought he felt the same way but I don't know if he does anymore because sometimes he can act like a dick. I ... (105 words)

I feel so utterly confused and heartbroken... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I split up with my ex-boyfriend at Christmas 2009 after 2 1/2 years and have never really got over him as there was no official split as such - I mistakenly thought we would work things out but he never responded to me so in time I came to the conclusion that he didn't want to ... (945 words)

I'm so hurt right now I don't know what to do...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5066 days ago

23 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Here is my story... I was dating a girl for over a year and the entire time we were together things were great. A few months into the relationship she began always asking me to buy her an engagement ring and a house we could live in. At first I didn't pay much attention to it, ... (700 words)

I think that he was using me to fill a gap until he left.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5078 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Was seeing a man for three months. He never took me out, but he would cook for me a lot. We would spend the night at each other's houses. He told me that he loved me. Well he went on a trip last week and he told me last night that he had a job interview in a new city. He said ... (160 words)

When a woman tells her man she wants a break...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this guy for about two years. Things were fantastic and then one by one, little things started bothering us about each other. He told me I put on a lot of weight, was messy and crazy. I couldn't stand his pot addiction, obsession with rap lyrics, and needing to ... (194 words)

I just don't understand him...???

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, I took the advice given last time and broke up with my boyfriend, but my best friend is still confusing me. I can't understand him, he has a nickname for me, which i'm not going to post in case he sees this, but he hardly ever calls me by my name. I have asked him to use... (258 words)

Accusing me of cheating... again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been through a lot in 8 months, from me not being well and being in hopsital.ect. 7 Months ago, me and an old friend was chatting on Facebook. However because i used alot of pet names such as 'hun' or 'bab' my Boyfriend found out about this as he hacke... (241 words)

Is he just taking me for granted or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I dont even no were to start, I've been with my partner for almost eight years. We have kids together, we have had our ups and down, I have been trying to set a date for the wedding but every time i want to talk about it he dont - so, finally i asked him and he answered, he ... (213 words)

I'm just not sure what's going on with her!!! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this girl for about a month now. She's cute, silly, beautiful, smart, and pretty darn awesome. But there are things that are making me turn away. Before we started dating we were both in very tough relationships. My ex girlfriend was pretty much crazy as wa... (454 words)

Opinions please! Is this considered cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

23 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex-girlfriend liked to go out with friends to the bar without me. She went to this one bar and become good friends with the male owner. She started texting this person a lot when not at the bar. Then she started staying over at the bar due to the fact it was actually an old ... (276 words)

Chase and me... what to do?

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey! I have an issue that I'd really like to get help with and I would honestly appreciate it. I have a friend of mine, Chase, and he is funny, kind, and he's smart, including cute on the outside as well. People tell me that he likes me, but I'm not sure. I have this one friend ... (100 words)

Advice for dating please...???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Herro everyone. First time in practically two years and I have a date :). She's 17, I'm 19, and I'm really looking forward to it. However, I want to try and avoid going to the movies, would rather talk more then sit and blatantly stare at a screen for 2 hours. I woul... (121 words)

Is my marriage salvageable?

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23 January 2011 (F)

age - Is my marriage salvageable? We are both 2nd marriage people. We have been together 20 years 17 if those married. We couldn't get enough of each other at first now we barely spend any time together. Sex is blahh and not often maybe one to two months apart. We don't share th... (196 words)

Should I stay with him and hope that they learn to accept us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, major dilemna in my life right now! I'm 15 going on 16 very soon and have recently begun a relationship with a 21 year old, we are both Christians and he understands that I do not want to do anything sexual with him until I am married. I honestly think he could possibly... (288 words)

I think his feelings for me might be fading... help!

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 and my boyfriend is 18 we have been together for just over a month and I am so in love with him. we tell each other we love each other all the time and at the start of the relationship he was so lovely to me and he still is but something has changed, he used to want to ... (93 words)

Bumps from shaving..how can I tell him its not an std?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really ready for sex with my boyfriend for 6 months but,I am uncomfortable with these little bumps on my vagina from shaving what should I do.? I can't tell him he will think I have a STD ... (38 words)

Should I buy him anything for valentines day... or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so, i've started dating a new guy, but i wouldnt call him my boyfriend yet, as we've only been on 4/5 dates. I'm 18 and he is 20. Thing is, valentines day is coming up, and by then we'll have been on a few more dates and may even be boyfriend/girlfriend. But because the ... (79 words)

Is there something wrong in our relationship?

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid Me and my bf are together for an year. We are happy together, but i always feel like whenever he talks to me in a really emotional connected way, the next 2-3 days he'll try to avoid me as if he wants to undo the connection we felt for each other or not to be emo... (120 words)

She doesn't know if she wants to marry me. Is it because of her ex?

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23 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't know where to really start the woman that was my one we build everything together in 2years of our relationship we got apartment together I took care of her daughter like she was my own but there was some arguing cause I needed to know the anwsers in the last couple ... (247 words)

Is there any point in waiting around for something that may never happen?

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - basically, i was with this lad for about 4 months, then we split up due to an argument that got a little heated, he said some things, i said some things, and well yeah in the spur of the moment, i ended it, but i never realised what a mistake i would be making just by muttering ... (475 words)

Boyfriend has stopped having sex with me after nearly a year

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfrind have been together for nearly a year now and for some reason we have stopped having sex. There is an age gap between us but i have told him straight several times that i dont have a problem with it and neither does my family but if he does he has to leave me ... (313 words)

Would you see someone again if they texted that you're a whore?

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a question for the ladies out there. What would you do if someone texts you that you're a slut, c*** and a whore. That somebody that you love texts you that on your phone? would you want to see him again. what would you do thanks 4 all your help... (52 words)

He wants intimacy and I can't accommodate him...

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23 January 2011 (F)

age - I lost my husband 5 years ago and now found somone special. He wants intimacy, but I am afraid I cannot accomodate him. I am 60. Your opinion please... (32 words)

Bathing suit problem!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I've written quite a few comments on here before but I'm having trouble thinking clearly when it comes to this. My bf and I sometimes go to the pool together and we also go to the sauna. My bf would like to go to the sauna without anything on, except a towel. ... (106 words)

How do I tell him I'm not interested without breaking his heart?

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - a guy likes me and he's really nice but i seriously don't want a relationship... how do i tell him without breaking his heart?... (24 words)

Why and what is my ex confused about?

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok well to start this off me and my ex are both 18 and we dated for almost 11 months before we ended. through that time he told me he fell in love with me somewhere along the line and i did too it seemed like everything was perfect until one day he broke up with me because he ... (492 words)

Help! I don't want to hurt his feelings, but I don't want our friendship to turn into something else.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5077 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a male co-worker/friend who I think may like me. The problem is that he is married and I am friends with his wife. I also know that they have problems and fight, even though they don't show it at work and act normal. I am starting to think that our friendship may be a ... (221 words)

Did my boyfriend rush in too fast with me after his ex?

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, My current boyfriend had been broken up with his ex for only a month or so before we began seeing each other. But actually, the same week that we met, he was still picking her up from bars and coddling her like they were still together. Shortly after the la... (357 words)

There's too much water under the bridge

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I currently want to split up with my boyfriend , but its becoming harder and harder each day, he keeps sayin i refuse to accept it. The other day we had a massive arguement because his mam had found out that he takes drugs. She asked me, and i told her that he sniffs coke. ... (439 words)

She's lied about her virginity so I don't trust her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

23 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my girl friend for three years now and she has lied to me about her viginity for two years i love her and i cant live without her but i dnt trust her anymore what should i do please help ... (44 words)

Is he interested or am I being silly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5077 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age - My line manager keeps making comments to me such as I want to stay with you, I love working with you, I want to live with you, I dream about you, I'd love to be your bitch, I think your a really nice person and when he was due to move to another department he often asked me to ... (112 words)

We broke up, and he wants some space. I want to work things out. Need advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together about 8 months. We live together and we're planning a future together. Problem is that we are both dominate personalities. We both are used to doing things our way with little resistance. This has started all kinds of issues. To me, it ... (494 words)

He seems to think the only one hurt is him!

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I broke up a month ago or so, and we've gone back to just being friends, which is fine for the both of us, I think. I'll give some background on what happened with my boyfriend first. He liked me first, and I didn't wanna be in a relationship with him, but th... (286 words)

I'd like to slow down and focus more on foreplay with my boyfriend. Any ideas?

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I'd love some advice from girl and guy readers on how to give my guy great foreplay, please:) We've been together 4 months, and things are great. We're very physically attracted to one another, and usually go straight from kissing to undressing to sexual intercourse, but ... (77 words)

How can I start a conversation and at the same time show that I'm interested in her without looking like a creep?

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23 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I sent a friend request to a girl I like on facebook. The girl is not totally a stranger to me. We have at least 20 mutual friends and she used to go to the same high school. Unfortunately we had no class together. I do remember seeing her in school. But she doesn't know me. ... (335 words)

Should I feel guilty for talking to a married man in this way?

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so i previously asked a question about 'how to get over this married man that i'm ridiculously obsessed with' so, i guess you can go check that out if you want before answering the question so you know so background info but anyway, i did something.. so stupid and i need ... (458 words)

Its like I'm invisible around him?

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok sorry if this is a little long.So Im 17-18 female and just started working in a restaurant as a cook.Oh bye the way just warning poeple that this is one of those annoying teenage problems alright.The day I handed in my resume I saw this guy working in the back and I had ... (332 words)

He's the center of every dream I've ever had!

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a 15 year old girl. I was dating a guy for a year and 2 months, when things got difficult with his Dad. His Dad read our MSN conversations, and found out a lot of stuff that he shouldn't have, such as how intimate we had gotten and such. He told my Ex that we didn't really ... (580 words)

Wedding bells or I'm outta here...

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - After 7 years of living together my boyfriend and I split up and he moved out. We had been fighting all the time, I was very unhappy mostly due to his underemployment and lack of motivation. Three weeks after he found a good job we had another big blow out and he packed up his ... (416 words)

How to make my boyfriend stop being so jealous?

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are together for almost a year now. I love him very much and I know he loves me too. Hew does everything for me! He's really sweet. We fight about my facebook because he thinks I'm hooking up with other guys. He doesn't let me go out with friends (?ll girls) ... (252 words)

How do I get this guy to tell me what he really feels about me?

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi! I'm Amamiya and I have something to share to you. I've liked this guy for 3 years. I've been loving him secretly and the only thing that hurts me is that he never notices me. Yet, even though he only looks at me in a not-so-special way, I', really happy just to be with him. ... (271 words)

Need help...what would stop her from wanting to be with me?

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23 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi DearCupid, I am asking this question with regards to someone I really like but I'm not sure what her point of view is of everything... If she is single, attracted to me, cares about me, and knows that I really care about her, what would stop her from wanting to be wi... (296 words)

Would watching gay porn bring out these feelings in me?

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23 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - : Ok i hav been masturbating on gay porn and i feel so horny looking at all these buff guys naked, i also hav developed crushes on boys at school and i dont like girls anymore that much! Plz help! Im 15!! Is this because i watched gay porn?... (49 words)

It bothers me that she cares more about the baby daddy than she does me

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23 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, so i'm in love with my gf, but theres a few things i'm having a hard time getting over. #1: it doesnt bother me that she has kids, it bothers me that it seems she cares more about baby daddy than me.. should it? #2: the number of her sexual partners. i've only had 1... (140 words)

My 2 boyfriends know about each other, but what do I do with both of them?

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im asking all you pple to plse not judge im not here for that. ok i have 2 bf one is in the uk and one is in sa. i travel between these 2 places alot. they both know about each other and they r cool with it. they have both told me they love me. now i never really had feel... (173 words)

I'd just like to have sex with my wife once in awhile but she has no interest

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23 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - i have been with wife for 6 years ,but for the last three the sex has gone my wife has no sex drive ,she doesnt no why,if i bring it up im in the wrong or i get ok i do it,i dont want it like that at all so then im allways feeling rejected,i av said id go to the doctors with ... (183 words)

My GF thinks I'm not a good listener...I don't know where that came from?!

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23 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing a woman for 3 years. Things started out very well, we were really happy together. In the last year or so, things have been suffering a bit. This week we nearly broke up twice. She told me the following- that she feels that somehow, I'm not a good listener... (367 words)

Should I wait for my ex-girlfriend to be single and get back together or not?

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23 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a best friend for 4years practically all my high school life. We were very close back then but I just didn't court her with the fear that she might not be feeling the same thing for me. When we graduated from high school and go on our separate ways for college I feel ... (416 words)

Sex does nothing for me!

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i just dont enjoy having sex to me it does nothing for me i was with somebody that i loved and we had sex as far as getting sexually fufillment i didnt get that but emotional i did now im dating and im really just not into it can this possible change like sex doesnt feel ... (103 words)

From Incredible Happiness to breaking up?

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello friends! So here's a little about my situation: I was dating this guy and we were amazing together. We communicated, we were in tune, we understood, we made each other explicitly happy. He's also a pretty transparent person - whatever emotion he's feeling, y... (226 words)

Boyfriend's ex and him talking all day

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I live together (almost a year now). He has remained friends with some of his exes which I have no problem with, as I admit - I have maintained a friendship with one of my exes - mainly we discuss business as we were business partners for a short time. All my ... (799 words)

I'm 15! shoudl I be depressed?

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Is there something wrong with me if im depressed? im 15. should i be feeling depressed. Im confused. help!?... (19 words)

Do I carry on the affair with my ex? Or walk away?

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23 January 2011 (F)

age - I am so confused.. I am married and have been with my husband for 8 years, married for 1. I have been fairly happy I really do have a good life and I do love him but I also have an ex husband who has come back on the scene, we have been meeting for the past 4 months and I love ... (257 words)

Is my bf just acting macho about popping my cherry and 'D' but he loves me for real?

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My bff's brother let me hear a cell message that the guy I've been going out with for the past nine months left a couple hours ago. He said man I ain't trying to miss the game but you know how it is I gotta play it with 'm' cuz homes is gonna pop that cherry maybe I should just ... (176 words)

Am I going backwards in the healing process?

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23 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My fiancee, who I love very deeply, cheated on me and then dumped me two months ago, on the day of my birthday and a couple of days before our fifth anniversary. I had to spend Christmas, the lunar eclipse, and New Year alone, while she was partying with her new guy. Talk about ... (216 words)

I cant have children but would like to date a woman who has children so I can be a role model

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23 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 32 years old and recently divorced 11 months ago after a 3 year marriage. My ex left me after we were trying to have a child, she couldn't get pregnant and after numerous tests it came back that I'm sterile and unable to father a child, she wants kids of her own so she ... (219 words)

We fight so much I don't know if I love her anymore!

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23 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - we are always having fights together over small problems like 4 days in a row. it is so common that I can not say for sure if I love my gf anymore. i don't know if i should pause and work on our relationship for some more time or prepare for a breakup.... (53 words)

My boyfriend treats his daughter like an adult friend

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a great guy for a few years. He's been divorced for almost a decade and has a 13 years old daughter. He gets his daughter every weekend and cherishes the time he has with her. Since I've known him, I've felt like he treats his daughter more like a "bud... (251 words)

Why doesn't my girlfriend show me the same courtesy that I show her?

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23 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - When my girlfriend knows im on a night out with my friends, I always give her a quick text just to let her know i'm back home safe because I know she worries about me. (we dont live together) Yet, when she goes out, she never texts to say she is home. It usually takes he... (161 words)

How do I ask my mom to get birth control?

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, me and my boyfriend really wanna have sex we have been together for over a year, but how do I ask my mom to get me birth control? What do I say so she will understand and not get mad cause I don't wanna go behind her back and get it but I need it. Also, I'm 17 and I've ... (109 words)

My husband just doesn't get it!

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my husband just wont get it. we got separated and just got back 2 years ago the reason being he used to hit me and had a drinking problem. all that is changed now he doesnt drink never has hit me or even raised his voice he chenged for that matter. now hes constantly talking to ... (232 words)

How can I be more outgoing and not shy?

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - OK. Well, lets just say I'm not very good at getting guys. Like, if I like a guy SO much I would be to shy to even look at him. I would prefer the guy come up to me. I'm a little on the shy side. Okay, I'm super shy. I have a few guy friends, but I couldn't date them. I just ... (90 words)

Do guys like flowers?

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm thinking of sending my boyfriend flowers for valentines day because he's at the United States Air Force Academy and I'm stuck in Vermont. Would he like that? Do guys like that? why or why not?... (36 words)

I want to date her but I don't know how

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23 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in love with a woman 5 years older than me. I work with her, she is the most beautiful woman I have ever seen, and I just don't know how I could ever make her even want me to take her out for lunch/dinner. It kills me, because I am a very loving person, I've always treated ... (156 words)

Help! Need Advice About the Guy I Rejected

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Help! I think I made a mistake; a big one. So, I liked this guy a couple of years ago, but I wouldn't go out with him because he was 16 and I was 13. We remained friends for a while but we eventually quit talking altogether. Now, I am in High School and he is probably in ... (135 words)

I think I'm living more in a fantasy world than the real world

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is not really about relationship advice but sort of is at the same time, i guess. I feel that i am more living in a fantasy world instead of the real one. Im sure other people do this as well but because its happening to me i am a bit concerned about it. Its gotten t... (456 words)

Our 1st anniversary and he didn't even acknowledge it!

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well today (January 22) was my first anniversary with my boyfriend. And he didnt even call me or anything. I didnt get to see him. I know anniversaries don't really matter untill marriage but we were so excited about it. He counted the days and always reminded me. It was ... (82 words)

How can I be so unhappy and hurt and yet still love him?

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 39 and my husband is 54. We have an 8 yr old son together, and we have been together for the past 11 years, three years after we got together, he went to prison for 3 years, I waited on him faithfully I might add, and he has been home for 4 years now. We got married ... (183 words)

I'm crazy about him but not sure if he's gay

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23 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 17 Year old male and I am bi. I am absolutely crazy for my best friends younger brother, who is 14. This may sound creepy, but he's not a typical 14 year old, much more mature than average. I have known him for a while and have just gotten more and more attracted to him, ... (260 words)

My dad is having a relationship with my math teacher!

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23 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am very confused and I need help! I'm 19 and my parents are divorced since I am 9. I live at my mom's but my dad lives in the same small town... A few days ago, I went to a party and decided to go sleep at my dad's cause it was closer. I was very quiet cause it was la... (198 words)

My married man just let me go with no reason. I'm trying to get over him

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - help! Im still in love with my married man. How can i comlpetely forget him? We have not contacted for 2 months now.i dont know the reason why. He just let me go without saying a word. Im trying to move on. I have been dating with other guys and getting busy with other stuff. ... (114 words)

Is dating this commitment phobe going nowhere?

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing someone for about 2 years.. He is a commitment phobe and doesnt want kids.. I want commitment.. And I have 2 kids. Its not like he didnt notice.. But anyway.. We spend so much time together.. We are very happy together.. He shows me love but doesnt always say ... (329 words)

Do I get over him, do I wait for him, or do I fight for him?

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23 January 2011 (?) age 26-29 - Hi, so I got dumped last Sunday, in a text, without a reason why. Oddly enough I wasn't mad at the guy, because I just knew Friday and Saturday that it was coming, I wasn't angry, I was just hurt. He still refuses to talk to me, but a mutual friend told me, quote "There was ... (748 words)

Is she just saying I'm big to make me feel better?

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23 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend have been going out for a good while now, and we plan on getting married before we ever have sex, I'm a virgin and she says she's a virgin too, my penis is 5 1/2 inches long and she says that huge..but what if she's just saying that to make me feel better? ... (165 words)

Did I squirt? Or pee?

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was fooling around with myself earlier and something happened. I think I squirted but I'm not sure if I peed :/ I know it sounds really stupid but its happened a few times. I go to the toilet before to make sure I don't need the toilet and when I "squirt" my legs shake so bad ... (97 words)

I go all out to see my boyfriend yet he makes up pitiful excuses why he can't see me!

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry for the length of the post, but I just wanted to get in every detail so you could evaluate it as fairly as possible. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. Initially, we saw each other maybe 3 or 4 times a week (just a few hours a day). Althou... (1163 words)

Should I tell my best mate I'm sleeping with her sister?

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23 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - im 19 and every satday for the past 12 years i have spent the day and sometimes nights at my best m8s shes 19. about a mounth ago i was stoping over and it was late and i couldnt sleep so i when down stirs to get a drink of water, her younger sistor (17) was up and siting in... (218 words)

Why my girlfriend just doing sexual things at first to make me happy?

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23 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I'm in a very serious long-distance relationship with my girlfriend of two years. We met senior year in high school, after we both were committed to different colleges, and so we made the choice to attempt a four-year long-distance thing. Anyway, the distance... (786 words)

What does "I want to take this relationship to the next level" mean

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been dating my boyfriend off and on for about three years now and we split lay november and now we are together. He just said to me "I want to take this relationship to the next level" and I have no clue what its suppose to mean or how to react.... (53 words)

Did he expect me to wait around for him forever?

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi! so ive been in love with this boy adam for 2 years ive told this boy my feelings for me acouple times and he never gave out one clue that he liked me. all he would say is aww that was sweet we should hang out but we never did get around to it! finally over this past sum... (516 words)

I dumped him, with good reason, why am I hurting?

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I had been dating my boyfriend for a month. I knew that one of my old coworkers had liked him for a while so I asked him what was going on with that and he told me they chatted for a while but it never went anywhere so we started hanging out and after two weeks we become ... (284 words)

Am I being dumped or is this salvagable..or do I want to run.

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23 January 2011 (F)

age - So I was or maybe still am seeing this guy, I met him about a 7 weeks ago. For the last three weekends we have spent the time together. He told me that he was out of his relationship his marriage for a long time, but i found out he was actually in a 10 year relationship (ot... (144 words)

Is she right that she should be free to express her shifting moods?

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23 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - OK, so here is a question. This girl I have hung out with is very moody. She can be happy one time and very warm and then in an instant she can turn cold and brittle. She can be laughing and then a few moments later something can set her off and she can start crying. No joke! ... (216 words)

My girlfriend of 18 months tied me up in my sleep -- I was petrified. What do I do moving forward?

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23 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of 18 months tied me up in my sleep as a "birthday gift." It was 7 days ago now, and I woke up with my arms and legs handcuffed to the bed posts; I had also been stripped, gagged and blindfolded. I had no idea where I was, my heart missed a beat and I think I ... (442 words)

His behavior is confusing me. What is his angle?

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, Okay so I like this guy but am a little confused by his behavoir. I am in High School and we used to text a lot because we didn't have any classes together but liked each other.( We would flirt with each other, when we texted.) Anyway, suddenly, he quit respond... (101 words)

Am I the only one working on this relationship?

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been in a relationship for 6 months now and with all my heart love this boy! id do anything and everything for him! and i know he would do the same for me? he says he would but he never shows it? i feel like im the only one making an effort to this relationship. well i ... (307 words)

Choosing between 2 girls

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23 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i am a 14 year old boy and have a problem with two girls at school, who are both the same age as me. i like them both, but i don't know which one to go after. Or if either one of them like me. Girl 1 is really nice and we kind of play fight(argue) but never actually fight, ... (279 words)

Girl is in 4 year relationship but she cheated on BF with me...

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23 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girl has been dating a her current boyfriend for 4+ years. She cheated on him with me 5 months ago and we both have deep feeling for each other. We've repeatedly told each other that we love each other. She's still in her current relationship and her boyfriend has no... (223 words)

I find it very hard to trust people!

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey ok my bf has this major issue about me not trusting him. i find it very hard to trust pple especially since i have had alot of bad relationships in the past. anyways he like does all this like sort of tests to try and get me to trust him like he will ask for some money-n... (147 words)

His bad breath makes me not want to kiss him!

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This is gonna sound bad and I feel awful but my boyfriend has really bad breath and it's making me not want to kiss him atall Thing is he is so sensitive i don't know how he would react I would greatly appreciate some advice on how to handle this problem ... (62 words)

Can love change a narcissist?

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23 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I like this girl but I think she is very narcissistic. She expects people to do things for her and often they do because of her looks. She is not very empathetic and gets upset when people criticize her or if they have problems with anything she does. A friend of mine said he ... (113 words)

Did my ex just use me for those couple of days?

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago and was devastated. We've recenly been in contact a lot. He says he still feels the same about me as when we were together but worried about us getting back together incase things go wrong again. recently we met up and spent two ... (97 words)

My wife contributes very little to our relationship

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23 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been married for two years and I'm worried about our future because she contributes very little to our relationship. I bring in 100% of the money (I'm putting her through college), but in return she doesn't clean, cook, take care of the dog that she ... (172 words)

I think he could be my prince charming but I'm afraid of being hurt!

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23 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Right there some guy he reall likes me and I really like him but because I been hurt by my family and peopel around me Im scared he goign to hurt me he hasnt doen ntohing to make me think like that its just that fear i been through crap and im scared to get hurt but when ever ... (147 words)